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Mothers Day

Mother’s Day is a time to celebrate the women who gave us life, loved us through our best and worst moments, and somehow managed to keep us alive despite all the times we confidently said, “I know what I’m doing.”

And let’s not forget about grandmothers—the women who mastered parenting the first time around and now get to spoil the grandchildren, fill them with sugar, and send them home. Grandmas are the keepers of family stories, secret recipes, warm hugs, and unconditional love.

Whether you are a mother, grandmother, celebrating your mom, remembering her, or honoring the strong women who helped shape your life, today is for them.

We hope your day is filled with love, gratitude, laughter, and time with the people who matter most.

For some, Mother’s Day is a joyful celebration.

For others, it is a day filled with memories, longing, and heartache.

Some are grieving the loss of their mother.
Some are grieving the loss of a child.
Some are longing to become mothers.
And some are carrying the pain of estrangement from a son, daughter, or grandchild.

If that is your story, my heart goes out to you.

And if you are a son or daughter treating your mother with disrespect, it may be time to pause and remember all she has done for you.

Your mother gave you life.

She carried you for nine months while dealing with swollen feet, sleepless nights, heartburn, and a bladder that apparently doubled as your favorite trampoline.

She fed you, changed you, worried about you, prayed for you, and loved you long before you understood the depth of a mother’s sacrifice.

Was she perfect?

No.

But neither are you.

There is no perfect parent, and there is no perfect child.

Most mothers did the very best they could with the knowledge, resources, and circumstances they had at the time.

Could they have made mistakes?

Absolutely.

But so have we all.

Life is far too short to let pride, anger, and stubbornness keep families apart.

One day, there will be no opportunity to pick up the phone, hear her voice, or say, “I love you,” “I’m sorry,” or “Thank you.”

So if your mother or grandmother is still here, cherish them.

Call them.
Visit them.
Hug them.
Listen to their stories—even the ones you’ve heard a hundred times.
Ask for the recipe.
Take the photo.
Make the memory.

And if you are the mother or grandmother waiting and praying for your family to reconnect, may God comfort your heart and remind you that your love still matters.

If you are grieving today, may God surround you with His peace and remind you that love never truly leaves us.

And no matter what this day looks like for you, never forget this:

You matter.
You are loved.
You are seen.
And in God’s eyes, you are precious beyond measure.

Happy Mother’s Day to all mothers, grandmothers, and the extraordinary women who make life sweeter. ❤️

Dear Heavenly Father,

Today we thank You for all mothers and grandmothers.

Thank You for their love, their sacrifices, their wisdom, and the countless ways they care for their families. Thank You for the hugs that comfort us, the prayers they whisper on our behalf, and the strength they show even when no one else sees their struggles.

Bless every mother and grandmother today.

Fill their hearts with peace, joy, and the deep assurance that they are loved and appreciated. Comfort those who are grieving, strengthen those who are weary, and bring hope to those carrying heavy hearts.

Surround them with Your love and remind them how precious they are in Your sight.

In Jesus’ name we pray,

Amen. ❤️

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Happy Mom’s Day

🌷 Happy Mother’s Day! 🌷

Today, I want to take a moment to honor all the incredible mothers out there—and remind you how special you are. Whether you’re a mom to a child or a beloved pet, remember that God chose you for this important role. Your love and care reflect His heart. 💖

We might not always feel appreciated; after all, people often see what they want to see in us. But as moms, we learn to forgive, just as our Heavenly Father forgives us. I know I challenged my own mom growing up. I was mouthy—an only child learning to navigate my own feelings. While some may have thought I was spoiled, I was fortunate enough to be taught the value of kindness , giving of your time to others volunteering, helping those in need and respect. Sometimes I took the respect thing for granted. But as I got older, I really respected and appreciated my mother. She was a very strong woman, a very loving woman, and I was fortunate to have her as my mother..

Though my relationship with my mom had its ups and downs, I grew to appreciate her wisdom more as I matured. My mom passed away 25 years ago at the age of 65, and not a day goes by that I don’t miss her. We didn’t always see eye to eye, but over time, we found mutual respect. And she knew no matter what I always loved her and I knew no matter what she always loved me .

Your times when our children don’t understand why we do the things we do or say the things we say we know it’s for their own good but sometimes they don’t often see it that way we can only hope that in time they will understand that we did the best we could And what we did was out of love.

Being a mom is a gift, and being a grandmother is a treasure. So whether you’re celebrating today with your family, remembering a mom who has passed on, or even finding joy in your role as a mother figure, know that your love is unique and irreplaceable. 💞 There is no love quite like that of a mother or grandmother, and it is truly unconditional.

Let us find strength and encouragement in God’s Word as we celebrate motherhood today:

“Her children rise up and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her.” — Proverbs 31:28

Happy Mother’s Day! 🙏💐

Psalm 139:13:

“For you formed my inmost being; you knitted me together in my mother’s womb.” This verse emphasizes God’s role in shaping the physical and spiritual aspects of the individual, even before birth

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Remembering Mom on Mother’s Day: A Tribute to Betty

On this Mother’s Day, I find myself thinking of you, Mom , more than ever because I cannot even visit your grave now that I moved . The day is bittersweet, filled with love and longing.

Mom, you are missed beyond measure. How I wish we could sit down together,, talk like we used to. Though we may be apart, know I still talk to you often. In moments of joy, and in moments of stress, you are always in my thoughts.

Your love surrounds me, guiding me, supporting me. Your presence is felt in every step I take, and every decision I make.

So on this special day, I want to express my love and gratitude to you, Mom. You are forever in my heart, forever cherished, forever missed.

I am adding pictures of my daughter and granddaughter because I love them with all my heart.

And even though we still do not see each other daily as we are in different parts of the state, I am beyond grateful to have a beautiful smart and intelligent daughter and wish we seen each other more.

But so grateful for my granddaughter who is just simply amazing in every way. I am so glad we see each other a few times a week.

With all my love,

Your forever grateful daughter,

Debbie

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Mothers Day to Those Who Buried A Child

Losing a child young or old is a pain that no parent should have to endure, and my heart goes out to all those who have experienced this kind of loss. It’s difficult to find the right words to say in times like these, but the most important thing is to show compassion, empathy, and support for those who are grieving.

For mothers who have lost a child, Mother’s Day can be an especially difficult day. It’s a reminder of the child they have lost and the love they continue to hold for them.

As someone who hasn’t experienced this kind of loss, it’s important for me to acknowledge that my words may not fully capture the depth of their pain. I remember how sad my grandmother was losing one of her daughters, I watched my Aunt grieving over the loss of her son to cancer, then to a daughter with recurring meningioma than just 6 months later losing a 3rd child to cancer.

I have watched cousins lose adult children and friends also lose a children to car accidents, addiction, cancer, depression, suicide.

What we can do as a community is to offer love, support, and listening ears to those who need it. This may mean reaching out to a friend or family member who has experienced this kind of loss, sending a thoughtful message or card, or participating in a charity event that supports families who are grieving.

As I think about the mothers who have had to bury a child, I am reminded of the story of Mary, the mother of Jesus. She watched as her son was crucified in front of her eyes, yet she still found the strength to carry on and become a pillar of the early Christian Church. Mary’s strength and resilience in the face of such unbearable pain are an example to all.

Another story from the Bible that speaks to the strength of mothers is the story of Hannah. Hannah was barren and longed for a child, but God blessed her with a son, Samuel. When Samuel was weaned, Hannah gave him up to serve in the temple. It took a tremendous amount of strength and faith for Hannah to let go of Samuel, but she knew that he was meant for something greater. Her love and dedication to her son are an inspiration to us all.

Finally, the Proverbs 31 woman is a beautiful depiction of a strong and capable mother. She works tirelessly to provide for her family, and her children rise up and call her blessed. She is a true example of the strength and love that all mothers possess.

To all the moms who have had to bury a child, young or adult I want to say that you are not alone.

Your strength and resilience in the face of such unimaginable pain are a testament to the love that you have for your child. May God bless you and give you the strength to carry on. Happy Mother’s Day. #StrengthofMothers #Love #Resilience #MothersDay

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Mothers Day

Mother’s Day is a day to celebrate and honor the women in our lives – our mothers and grandmothers. These strong, loving and nurturing women play such a significant role in shaping our lives, and it is important that we take the time to show them how much they mean to us.

It is essential, however, that we remember that our mothers and grandmothers, like all humans are not perfect and are doing the best they can for the situation they are in. They may make mistakes or fall short of our expectations at times, but we should always show them respect and appreciation for all the hard work and love they have poured into raising us.

Whether it’s a phone call, a lunch date, or a heartfelt card, taking the time to reach out and show our mothers and grandmothers how much they are loved and appreciated can go a long way. It is an opportunity to strengthen our relationships with these important figures in our lives and make them feel valued and cherished.

But what if your mom has passed away? Celebrating Mother’s Day can be a difficult and emotional experience for those who have lost their mothers. It’s natural to feel sadness and longing, but that doesn’t mean you can’t still honor and celebrate the memory of your mother. One way to do so is by cooking her favorite meal and sharing it with loved ones while reminiscing about fond memories with her. Visiting her grave or planting flowers or a tree in her honor can also be a meaningful gesture. Looking at old family photos and recalling funny stories or moments can bring comfort and help keep her memory alive. While it may be hard to accept that our mothers are no longer physically with us, celebrating and honoring their memory can provide a sense of connection and comfort on Mother’s Day and throughout the year.

So, let us take this Mother’s Day as an opportunity to celebrate the wonderful women who have influenced and shaped us, and to let them know just how much they mean to us!

Regardless of our age, it’s important to always show respect to our mothers and grandmothers. These women have played crucial roles in our lives, often serving as our primary caregivers and role models. They have stood by us through thick and thin, providing us with unconditional love and support. No matter what we say or do, they are there to cheer us on and offer advice when we need it most. Never shut your mother or grandmother out of your life : in fact they are they first people you go to.

Always make time for her or them. They are always so happy when you reach out to them.

Our mothers and grandmothers only want what’s best for us and have our best interests at heart. It’s important to cherish and honor these special women in our lives, as they have helped shape us into the people we are today.

Remember, no one will ever love you more than your mother and grandmother because you are a part of them.

Wishing all a beautiful and happy Mother’s Day.

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Mothers Day When Mom as Passed On.

Mother’s Day is a time to celebrate and honor the women who have played crucial roles in our lives. However, for those of us who have lost our mothers, this day can be bittersweet. While we may not be able to physically celebrate with them, it’s important to remember that they are still with us in spirit.

One way to honor our mothers who are no longer with us is to continue their legacy. Think about the values your mother held dear, and strive to incorporate those values into your own life. Did she volunteer at a local charity? Consider doing the same. Did she have a passion for gardening? Plant a flower in her memory.

Another way to honor your mother is to create a special memorial. This can be as simple as lighting a candle or displaying a photo of her in a special place. You could also make a donation to a cause she cared about in her memory.

Lastly, remember that it’s okay to feel sadness and grief on Mother’s Day. Take the time to reflect on your memories and emotions, and know that your mother will always hold a special place in your heart.