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Palm Sunday: A Call to Draw Closer to God

Today is Palm Sunday already! Today is a powerful reminder of the day Jesus entered Jerusalem, welcomed by crowds who waved palm branches and shouted, “Hosanna! Blessed is He who comes in the name of the Lord!” (John 12:13). It was a moment filled with praise, hope, and expectation.

Yet, what makes Palm Sunday so meaningful is not just the celebration—but what follows. The same voices that cried out in worship would, days later, fall silent or even turn away. It’s a sobering reminder of how easy it is to be close to God in moments of joy, but distant when life becomes difficult or uncertain.

Palm Sunday invites us to examine our own hearts.

Are we walking closely with God daily—or only when it’s convenient?

Why Reading Your Bible Matters

God’s Word is not just a book—it is life, truth, and guidance. When we read the Bible, we learn who God is, how deeply He loves us, and how we are called to live. Without it, we are more easily influenced by the world—its noise, its fears, and its distractions.

A closer walk with God doesn’t happen by accident. It comes through intentional time with Him—through prayer, through reading His Word, and through seeking Him daily.

Even a few minutes a day can begin to transform your heart and mind.

God Wants a Relationship With You

No matter what you’ve done.

No matter where you’ve been.

No matter how far you feel.

God loves you.

He is not waiting for you to be perfect—He is waiting for you to come to Him. Palm Sunday is a reminder that Jesus came humbly, willingly, and lovingly… for you.

He sees you.

He knows your struggles.

And He desires a real, personal relationship with you.

Take a Step Today

Let today be more than just a date on the calendar. Let it be a turning point.

Open your Bible.

Say a simple prayer.

Talk to God like you would a friend.

Because that’s what He truly wants—a relationship, not just religion.

Hosanna—Lord, save us. And thank You… for loving us first.

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Rules for Being a Good Christian Woman

In case your mama or grandma didn’t teach you… I’ll step in as your friend for a minute.

But remember—above all, be the woman God created you to be.

Put God first! Before your parents, boyfriend, spouse, children. Period

Here are some things every woman should know:

Wear the lipstick. Even if it’s just to the grocery store… especially then. But don’t forget, true beauty comes from within.

Learn how to cook from scratch. Not everything should come from a box. Taking care of your home and others is a blessing.

Put on earrings. It instantly makes you feel more put together. Take care of yourself—you are God’s creation.

Good shoes can carry an entire outfit. You can wear something simple, but the right pair of shoes elevates everything.

Hairspray isn’t optional. It’s insurance. When you’re going out and in a humid state especially.

Chew your gum quietly. I love you, but we’re not out here chewing cud like a cow in a pasture. So chew with your mouth closed.

If you’re going to wear heels, learn how to walk in them. Confidence is in how you carry yourself—with grace and dignity. Don’t buy and wear 5 in heels if you look odd walking in them.

Wear a nude bra. It goes with everything and saves you from learning the hard way.

Know the time and place for low-cut clothing. You’re not a display case. Be classy, covered, and still beautiful. Honor your body. Not at family functions, or church. Capisci?

Diamonds, pearls, and gold are timeless and always a good investment.

If you can’t lose it… tan it. A little glow goes a long way.

Small, medium, large, 2X or 6X Love the body you’re in today. Care for it, respect it, and don’t tear it down.Work toward better health—not out of shame, but because you value the life God gave you.

Etiquette is free to learn, so learn it. Manners and kindness reflect your heart.

Always RSVP promptly. Respect people’s time and effort.

When invited to someone’s home, bring a small hostess gift. Thoughtfulness matters. If you bring flowers bring odd numbers as even numbers are for funerals.

Keep your cell phone out of sight during meals and conversations. Be present. Time with others is a gift. And it’s rude.

Receive compliments with a simple “thank you,” and don’t be afraid to give genuine compliments to others.

Make your bed every day. It sets the tone for everything else.

A messy home creates a messy mind. It doesn’t have to be perfect, but it should have order.

Keep your home ready. When someone stops by, you want to welcome them, not scramble.

Allow people to drop by. Not everything needs a phone call first. Back in the day, people just stopped in—if you were home, great, if not, they left. It wasn’t rude, it was friendly. And that’s what we need more of today. Let people feel welcome. Our home is open—just don’t come if you’re sick.

Plant a garden, or at least have some plants. It’s good to get your hands in the soil. There is something grounding and peaceful about it.

Raised gardens are best for outside more on that another day.

What you sow, you will reap. That goes for planting crops, houseplants, and life.

If you sow hate, cruelty, and disrespect, you will get that back—now or eventually. If you sow love, kindness, and respect, that is what will come back to you.

Always look before crossing a street or parking lot. Never assume a car will stop. Look left, right, and left again—and teach your kids the same.

Don’t think there is always time to mend relationships. Tomorrow is not promised.

Honor your mother and your grandmother. They are part of the reason you exist. This matters.

Don’t allow anyone to come between you and your mama , grandmother or your family. If it wasn’t for them you would not exist.

If you have issues with your mother, grow up and work to fix that relationship before it’s too late. Pray about it, and take the first step.

You only get one mama and one daddy. If they are still alive and you don’t know them well, make the effort now.

Ask yourself… are you creating division in your family, or bringing peace?

What you’ve been through may have shaped you, but it does not have to define you. Work through the hurt. Forgive. Rebuild. Don’t stay stuck reliving the past or burying it—heal from it. And don’t judge others. You don’t know what they’ve survived or what it took for them to keep going. Show grace, just as God shows grace to you.

Just because someone else is angry doesn’t mean you have to carry that same anger. Choose peace.

Don’t leave out people you love just because someone else doesn’t want them around. Stand up for what is right.

If someone in your family—boyfriend, spouse, or anyone—is intentionally keeping you from loved ones, from holidays, from connection… recognize it for what it is. That is not right. Set boundaries and stand firm.

Don’t ever let people bad mouth your family. Those are not your friends. And if it’s family keeping you away from family, be a woman and stand up for the ones you love who are being alienated and isolated.

Give to your church. Help your family when they are in need. Help the homeless, the needy, and battered women. Be a blessing where you can.

You don’t always have to shop for yourself. Save your money. Or do something good with it for someone who may need it and won’t ask.

You don’t have to give money to have friends. If that’s what it takes, they are not your friends.

Don’t be fake. You can’t claim happiness or success if you can’t show kindness—especially to your own family. God sees your heart.

And always be a good host. Open your home. Feed people well. Make them feel seen, comfortable, and cared for.

Because being a woman isn’t just about how you look…

It’s about how you carry yourself… and how people feel when they’re around you.

And most importantly… how you reflect God in your life.

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What strategies do you use to cope with negative feelings?

What strategies do you use to cope with negative feelings?

What strategies do you use to cope with negative feelings?

I used to turn to food when I felt stressed or overwhelmed. It wasn’t the healthiest way to cope, and I realized it was only a temporary comfort. I’m not perfect and sometimes I still slip into old habits, but I’m working on changing them one step at a time.

Sometimes life brings moments when negative feelings try to take over. Loneliness, chronic pain, grief,estranged family, and missing people we love can weigh heavily on the heart. These emotions can play tricks on the mind. One feeling can lead to another, and before you know it, months—even years can pass and you feel stuck in an emotional sinkhole that feels like it’s filling with quicksand. The harder you try to get out, the more it seems to pull you in.

To me, this can also be a spiritual battle.

There have been times in my life when I have felt stuck, or when these feelings come in waves. I noticed this all started when I was abused in my 1st marriage, it was a way to cope to control over something.

On those days, now I remind myself to slow down, breathe, and take care of myself—especially my mind and heart. A broken heart, a lonely heart, a grieving heart, or a life that seems to have more downs than ups can be exhausting.

One strategy that has always helped me is spending time in nature. When I was able to, I would take quiet walks by the beach. The sound of the waves, the fresh ocean breeze, and the peaceful view of the water helped clear my thoughts and calm my spirit. Nature has a way of reminding me that storms pass and peace eventually returns.

For the past seven months, however, I was unable to do that. Because I was in a walking boot, limited weight bearing; I couldn’t go for walks—no beach, no outings, nothing. During that time I had to stay indoors, so I turned to other things that helped. And yes sometimes I resorted from boredom to food. I also gained 15 lbs.

It was time to steer clear of the ship in a different direction.

Music became very important. Good music relaxes my mind, lifts my mood, and helps me process my emotions in a healthy way. I also listen to Christian talk radio, which is very uplifting.

Writing is great. It helps to get your negative emotions out, and work through things.

Back home in Ohio, another thing that helped was surrounding myself with the right people. Choosing positive company matters. I tried to surround myself with people who bring encouragement, understanding, and kindness—those who uplift rather than add more burdens.

Here in Florida, it has been very lonely at times. So lonely that sometimes you wonder why you even moved here. It certainly hasn’t been the close family experience we were told it would be. Some parts are fun, but if I’m honest, my husband and I sometimes feel more lonely now than before.

After seven months in a walking boot, I am still limited in what I can do, but thankfully I am now allowed short walks in the neighborhood.

Even these small walks help. The fresh air calms my mind and gives me space to think clearly. It reminds me that difficult seasons are part of life, but they do not last forever.

Another strategy I always turn to is prayer and quiet reflection. Talking to God helps me release the heavy emotions I’m carrying. It gives me peace and renewed hope that tomorrow will be better.

Finally, I try to focus on doing something positive—helping someone else or completing a small task I enjoy. Shifting my attention from the problem to something meaningful helps restore my strength.

Coping with negative feelings is not about ignoring them. It’s about facing them with patience, faith, and positive action. Through quiet reflection, music, nature, prayer, and supportive people, I eventually find balance again.

Negative feelings may come, but with the right mindset and environment, they don’t have to stay.

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Consumed by the World or Filled with the Word?

Consumed by the World or Filled with the Word?

By Deb Andio

Today, many people claim to be Christians, yet their lives appear to be consumed more by the world than by the Word of God.

Scripture makes it very clear: you cannot serve two masters.

You cannot say you serve God while spending all your time chasing the things of the world.

I am not saying becoming a success is bad or wrong it’s not.

The world encourages greed, selfishness, pride, and showboating. People brag about what they own, what they donated, or how successful they are. Not sure if they intentionally want to make others feel less than or if they’re just that stuck in their own little bubble. But none of those things will get you into heaven.

God does not measure your heart by your possessions or your public displays of generosity. He measures your heart by your faith, obedience, humility, and love for Him.

One of the most dangerous things a person can do is proclaim to be a Christian yet never open their Bible.

If you call yourself a believer but never read the Word, rarely pray, and never attend church—either in person or even online—you are leaving yourself spiritually unprotected. When the Word of God is absent from your life, it becomes much easier for the enemy to creep in.

You will either allow the Word to fill your mind, or you will allow the world to fill it.

The world fills your mind with fear, anxiety, shame, anger, and temptation. It normalizes things that pull us away from God—drunkenness, gossip, greed, hate, pride, and selfish desires.

But the Word of God does the opposite.

The Word fills your mind with truth, peace, hope, wisdom, and strength.

When you are spiritually led, you are spiritually fed.

But you cannot ask God for a revelation while refusing to make time for His Word. Have you even read the Chapter of Genesis? The Bible is divided into two parts, the Old Testament and the New Testament, the Bible contains a total of 66 books.

You cannot expect deep understanding of God’s purpose if you have never even taken the time to read the beginning of the Bible.

Being a Christian is not just about what you say. It is about how you live.

Ask yourself some honest questions.

Do you help others—family, friends, even strangers?

When you help someone, do you expect something in return, or do you give freely from the heart?

Are you willing to help a stranger, but not your own family when they are in need?

Do you show kindness to some people but not to others?

True Christian character is shown in the way we treat people when there is nothing to gain.

God sees how we treat everyone, not just the people we choose to be kind to.

And we must also be careful not to let the emotions of this world control us. Anger, fear, bitterness, and hurt can easily take root in our hearts if we allow them. But those things do not come from God.

Do not allow anger, fear, or pain jealousy to control your life. Those things are tools the enemy uses to pull people away from God’s truth.

Instead, turn back to the Word.

If you truly want God to guide your life, then you must first make time for Him.

Start simple.

Before you check your phone.

Before you turn on the television.

Before the noise of the world begins.

Give God ten minutes in the morning.

Open your Bible.

Read a passage.

Pray.

Let His Word settle in your heart before the world has a chance to fill your mind.

Because the truth is simple:

If you fill your life with the world, you will think like the world.

But if you fill your life with the Word, you will begin to live like Christ.

So today, make the choice.

Get your head and your eyes back on God.

Open your Bible.

And let the Word lead your life.

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International Women’s Day: Strength, Purpose, and Lifting Each Other Up

International Women’s Day: Strength, Purpose, and Lifting Each Other Up

Every year on March 8, the world celebrates International Women’s Day—a day to recognize the strength, resilience, and contributions of women everywhere.

But this day is about more than celebration. It is about respect, dignity, courage, and reminding every woman that she matters.

Women throughout history have shaped families, communities, and nations through their strength, compassion, leadership, and determination. International Women’s Day gives us an opportunity to pause and recognize not only the progress that has been made, but also the importance of continuing to support one another.

The History of International Women’s Day

International Women’s Day began in 1908, when thousands of women marched through the streets of New York City demanding better working conditions, fair wages, and the right to vote.

The following year, the United States observed the first National Women’s Day. In 1910, women’s rights advocate Clara Zetkin proposed the idea of an international day dedicated to women. By 1911, International Women’s Day was celebrated across several European countries.

Over time, the day grew into a worldwide movement recognizing women’s contributions to society while continuing to advocate for equality, opportunity, safety, and respect.

Today, women across the globe celebrate the achievements of women while encouraging future generations to continue building a world where every woman’s voice and value are recognized.

Every Woman’s Work Has Value

Whether a woman works inside the home or outside the home, her work matters and holds value.

Raising children, caring for family members, managing a household, building a career, running a business, volunteering in the community, or supporting others in quiet ways—all of these roles contribute to the strength of families and society.

A woman’s worth is not measured by a paycheck, title, or recognition. The work women do every day helps build homes, communities, and futures.

Honor the Women Who Came Before You

Every woman stands on the shoulders of those who came before her.

Your mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, and the generations of women in your family before you all lived lives filled with purpose and strength. They did the best they could with the times and circumstances they were given.

Some worked inside the home caring for families.

Some worked outside the home helping provide for their loved ones.

Many did both while carrying responsibilities and challenges few people ever saw.

Because of their strength, you are here today.

Take pride not only in who you are, but where you came from. The courage, resilience, and sacrifices of the women before you helped shape the path you walk today.

Always honor the women in your family.

Without them, none of us would be here.

Standing Strong as Women Today

International Women’s Day is also a reminder of how women should support and encourage one another today.

Stand Up for Each Other

Women are strongest when they support one another. Encouraging another woman’s success does not diminish your own—it strengthens the path for everyone.

Celebrate each other’s victories. Offer support during difficult times. Stand beside one another.

Be an Example of a Lady

Strength and kindness can exist together. Being a lady is not about perfection—it is about character, respect, integrity, and grace.

How we carry ourselves leaves an example for younger generations to follow.

Never Accept Abuse

No woman should ever feel that she must accept abuse—whether emotional, verbal, or physical.

Every woman deserves to live with dignity, safety, and respect.

Know That You Matter

Women often carry many responsibilities—family, work, caregiving, and supporting others. It can be easy to forget your own worth when you are always giving to everyone else.

But remember this:

You matter.

Your voice matters.

Stand firm in your faith.

Your life has purpose.

You are enough exactly as you are.

Rest Is Not Weakness

Strong women are not meant to carry everything alone.

Some days we lead.

Some days we fight.

And some days we simply rest.

Taking time to rest and care for yourself is not weakness—it is necessary.

Strong Women Lift Each Other Up

One of the most powerful things a woman can do is encourage another woman.

Offer kindness.

Celebrate success.

Stand beside each other during difficult times.

When women lift each other up, families grow stronger, communities grow stronger, and the future grows stronger.

A Final Thought

International Women’s Day is not just about one day of recognition.

It is about remembering—every day—that women are leaders, caregivers, advocates, mothers, daughters, sisters, and friends.

It is about courage.

It is about dignity.

And it is about standing together.

Never forget:

Strong women do not compete with one another.

Strong women lift each other up.

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My take on

Punch the Monkey’s Message

I carry my little monkey everywhere I go,
because every heart needs something to hold onto.

We all need love.
No one—human or creature—was ever meant to feel unloved, bullied, shunned or abandoned.

Every living being on this earth was placed here
to love and to be loved. All part of Gods plan.

So if you’re feeling alone today, remember this:
You matter.
You are worthy of love.
And somewhere, someone is glad you’re here.

I created this AI video of my version of
Punch — the young macaque – I made this using Sora

If you haven’t heard about it, here is the original story and the update where she lives in Japan for real I based my AI created image above on this cute little creature of God

Punch’s story began with hardship when he was abandoned by his mother shortly after he was born. To help him, zookeepers gave him a stuffed toy that he began dragging around everywhere he went.

Original story in February 2026 https://www.foxnews.com/video/6389491721112

Update March 2026 https://www.foxnews.com/health/punch-monkey-viral-star-experiences-dramatic-breakthrough-among-zoo-mates