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How do you use social media?
How do you use social media?
How do I use social media?
Honestly… it started the same way it does for most people—keeping up with family, old friends, seeing who’s doing what, who moved, who aged, who still looks the same (we all know those people 😂).
But somewhere along the way… it got real.
Now I use it to talk about things most people don’t see.
Living with osteonecrosis, osteoarthritis, spondylolisthesis, and chronic pain isn’t just “oh my knee hurts today.”
It’s daily. It’s constant. It changes how you walk, sit, sleep, plan your day… and sometimes whether you even have a plan.
Some days I’m doing good.
Some days I’m negotiating with my own body like, “listen… we just need to get through the grocery store, that’s it.”
And if you’ve never had to hype yourself up just to go run a basic errand… count your blessings.
But here’s the thing I care about sharing:
Life doesn’t end because it changes.
You learn to adjust.
You learn what your body will allow… and what it won’t.
You learn patience real quick (whether you wanted to or not).
I use social media to advocate—because there should be better options, better understanding, and way more awareness than there is right now.
I use it to push people to speak up, advocate for themselves, and yes—call the people in charge when things need to change.
And I use it to share my faith… because I’ll be honest, I would not have made it through the pain, the stress, the grief, the financial struggles—without God. Not even close.
So if my page feels like a mix of real life, truth, encouragement, and a little humor in between…
That’s because it is.
This isn’t a highlight reel.
It’s life… just told honestly.
And if you’re going through something—anything—you’re not alone in it.
So yeah… that’s how I use social media.
What about you?
And let’s be real for a minute…
We also need downtime. Time to unplug, disconnect, and step away from the highlight reels. Because if you stay on here too long, you’ll start thinking everyone is getting rich overnight, aging backwards, and living an stress-free, perfectly filtered life, but you ……
Meanwhile, in real life… we’re reheating coffee for the third time and trying to remember why we walked into the kitchen.
Social media can be a great tool—but it can also mess with your head if you’re not careful.
And let’s talk about AI for a second… it can be used for a lot of good (clearly 😄), but let’s not pretend people aren’t already using it to twist stories, spread nonsense, or flat-out make things up.
So no… not everything you see or hear is real. Not even close.
At the end of the day, it still comes down to using these tools wisely, taking breaks when you need to, and remembering that real life—the messy, unfiltered, imperfect kind—is actually where the good stuff is.
A Place to Be Still with God
A Place to Be Still with God
In a world that is constantly moving and filled with noise, we all need a place to be still. A place to pray, to reflect, and to meditate on God’s Word.
This place does not have to be a church. It can be a quiet corner in your home, your car before the day begins, or even a peaceful spot outside. What matters is not where you are, but that you are intentionally taking time to be one with God.
There is something powerful about having a private, holy, and quiet place. A place where distractions are removed, where your heart is open, and where you can speak freely with the Lord. In that stillness, you begin to hear Him more clearly and feel His presence more deeply.
Ephesians 6:10–18 reminds us to put on the full armor of God:
The belt of truth
The breastplate of righteousness
The gospel of peace
The shield of faith
The helmet of salvation
The sword of the Spirit, which is the Word of God
And prayer in the Spirit on all occasions
We cannot fully prepare ourselves spiritually without spending time with God. Putting on the armor of God requires quiet, intentional time in His presence.
Your private place becomes holy not because of where it is, but because of what happens there. It becomes sacred when you kneel, when you surrender, and when you seek Him with your whole heart.
Whatever you accomplish in life begins on your knees, in prayer. Strength is built in prayer. Direction is found in surrender. When we do as God asks, He leads us into greater things than we could ever imagine.
You do not have to be inside a church to be close to God. You are being one with Him wherever you are.
So find your place. Be still. Be quiet. Be with Him.
And watch what God will do.
Easter Sunday: More Than Eggs and Candy
Easter Sunday is often filled with bright baskets, colorful eggs, and sweet treats. Children laugh as they search for hidden treasures, and families gather to celebrate. While these traditions bring joy, they are not the true meaning of Easter.
Easter is the most important day for Christians. It is the day we remember that Jesus Christ rose from the dead—defeating sin and death, and giving us the gift of eternal life. Without Easter, there would be no foundation to our faith. This is the day that changed everything.
As it says in 1 Corinthians 15:17:
“And if Christ has not been raised, your faith is futile; you are still in your sins.”
But He did rise—and because He lives, we have hope.
On Easter Sunday, many will attend church. Some will come dressed in their Sunday best, while others will come in the best they have. And that’s okay. What matters most is showing up with a heart ready to receive.
I do believe we should present ourselves respectfully. It doesn’t mean expensive clothing—it can be simple. A nice pair of jeans, a clean shirt or blouse is perfectly fine. But we should remember where we are going. Church is a place of reverence.
We should avoid clothing that is too revealing—short shorts, low-cut tops, or shirts with distracting wording. Not out of judgment, but out of respect. Ask yourself: Is this how I would dress if I were meeting God face to face?
Because in a very real sense… we are.
At the same time, not everyone will sit in a church pew. Some will watch a service online, listen on the radio, or spend quiet time in prayer at home. That is okay too. God meets us where we are.
As Jesus said in Matthew 18:20:
“For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them.”
Easter is not about perfection—it’s about redemption.
It’s about the cross… and the empty tomb.
It’s about love so deep that Jesus willingly gave His life for us.
As written in John 3:16:
“For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life.”
This is the heart of Easter.
So yes—let the children hunt for eggs. Let families share meals and laughter. But let us not forget the true reason we celebrate.
Jesus is alive.
And because He lives, we are given grace, forgiveness, and a new beginning.
This Easter, come as you are—but come with a heart that honors Him.
Sunday: More Than Eggs and Candy
Easter Sunday is often filled with bright baskets, colorful eggs, and sweet treats. Children laugh as they search for hidden treasures, and families gather to celebrate. While these traditions bring joy, they are not the true meaning of Easter.
Easter is the most important day for Christians. It is the day we remember that Jesus Christ rose from the dead—defeating sin and death, and giving us the gift of eternal life. Without Easter, there would be no foundation to our faith. This is the day that changed everything.
As it says in 1 Corinthians 15:17:
“And if Christ has not been raised, your faith is futile; you are still in your sins.”
But He did rise—and because He lives, we have hope.
On Easter Sunday, many will attend church. Some will come dressed in their Sunday best, while others will come in the best they have. And that’s okay. What matters most is showing up with a heart ready to receive.
I do believe we should present ourselves respectfully. It doesn’t mean expensive clothing—it can be simple. A nice pair of jeans, a clean shirt or blouse is perfectly fine. But we should remember where we are going. Church is a place of reverence.
We should avoid clothing that is too revealing—short shorts, low-cut tops, or shirts with distracting wording. Not out of judgment, but out of respect. Ask yourself: Is this how I would dress if I were meeting God face to face?
Because in a very real sense… we are.
At the same time, not everyone will sit in a church pew. Some will watch a service online, listen on the radio, or spend quiet time in prayer at home. That is okay too. God meets us where we are.
As Jesus said in Matthew 18:20:
“For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them.”
Easter is not about perfection—it’s about redemption.
It’s about the cross… and the empty tomb.
It’s about love so deep that Jesus willingly gave His life for us.
As written in John 3:16:
“For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life.”
This is the heart of Easter.
So yes—let the children hunt for eggs. Let families share meals and laughter. But let us not forget the true reason we celebrate.
Jesus is alive.
And because He lives, we are given grace, forgiveness, and a new beginning.
This Easter, come as you are—but come with a heart that honors Him.
What Olympic sports do you enjoy watching the most?
What Olympic sports do you enjoy watching the most?
I don’t watch the Olympics the way I used to. Over the years, I’ve found myself missing when the focus felt more centered on the athletes, their dedication, and the pure spirit of competition.
I’ve always appreciated sports as a place where people from around the world come together to showcase years—often a lifetime—of hard work, discipline, and sacrifice. For me personally, I prefer when the spotlight stays on that: the performance, the talent, and the incredible achievements of these athletes. Sometimes it feels like other topics can take away from that, and I miss the simplicity of just watching the competition itself.
I also believe strongly in fairness in women’s sports, and that’s something that matters deeply to me.
That said, if I had to choose a favorite, it would absolutely be figure skating. There is something truly special about it that sets it apart from other sports. It’s not just athletic ability—it’s a blend of strength, precision, artistry, and emotion all rolled into one performance.
The level of talent it takes is extraordinary. These skaters train for years to master jumps, spins, and footwork that most of us can’t even begin to imagine attempting. The control and balance required just to glide across the ice with such ease is impressive on its own, but then they add in complex choreography, timing everything perfectly to music.
What I find most beautiful is the grace and expression. Every movement tells a story. Their posture, their lines, the way they carry themselves—it’s elegant and powerful at the same time. There’s also a vulnerability to it, because they are not just performing physically, but emotionally, connecting with the audience through their routines.
And when it all comes together—the music, the movement, the precision—it truly becomes something breathtaking to watch. It’s one of those sports where you can see not just the skill, but the heart behind it.
Holy Saturday
Holy Saturday: The Silence Between the Cross and the Promise
Holy Saturday is often the quietest and most overlooked day of Holy Week. It sits between the heartbreak of Good Friday and the victory of Easter Sunday. Jesus has been crucified, His body laid in the tomb, and the world seems still.
For the disciples, this day was filled with grief, confusion, and fear. The One they believed to be the Messiah was gone. The hope they held so tightly now felt uncertain.
But Holy Saturday is not a day without purpose.
It is a day of waiting.
“The women who had come with Him from Galilee followed and saw the tomb and how His body was laid. Then they returned and prepared spices and ointments. On the Sabbath they rested according to the commandment.”
— Luke 23:55–56
Even in their sorrow, they honored God. They rested. They waited.
Holy Saturday reminds us that God is still working—even when we cannot see it.
Behind the sealed tomb, something powerful was unfolding. What looked like the end was actually the beginning of the greatest victory in history.
“He is not here; He has risen!”
— Luke 24:6
But before the resurrection came the silence.
Before the miracle came the waiting.
And that is where many of us find ourselves at times—in our own “Holy Saturday” seasons.
Moments where prayers feel unanswered.
Moments where hope feels distant.
Moments where God seems quiet.
Yet Holy Saturday teaches us this truth:
Silence does not mean absence.
God was not finished.
The story was not over.
“Wait for the Lord; be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord.”
— Psalm 27:14
There is purpose in the pause.
There is growth in the waiting.
There is faith being built in the stillness.
Holy Saturday invites us to trust God in the in-between—to believe that even when nothing seems to be happening, everything is being prepared.
Because Sunday is coming.
Today is a sacred pause
Today is a sacred pause… a moment to step away from the noise of the world and truly reflect on what Jesus did for you—for all of us.
Good Friday is not just a day of sorrow, though it carries deep sorrow. It is a day of unfathomable love. A love so powerful that Jesus willingly endured suffering, humiliation, and death on the cross so that we could have life… eternal life.
He took on what we deserved—every sin, every failure, every broken moment—and bore it with grace.
“But God demonstrates His own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”
— Romans 5:8
Think about that for a second…
Not when we had it all together.
Not when we were perfect.
But while we were still sinners—He chose the cross.
🌿 What Good Friday Means
Good Friday reminds us that:
We are deeply loved We are forgiven We are never alone in our suffering
Jesus understands pain. He understands betrayal. He understands sorrow. And through it all, He chose obedience and love.
“He himself bore our sins in his body on the tree, that we might die to sin and live to righteousness. By his wounds you have been healed.”
— 1 Peter 2:24
❤️ A Moment to Reflect
Take time today—just a few quiet minutes—to think about His sacrifice.
What does it mean to you personally?
Where have you seen His grace in your life?
What burdens can you lay at the foot of the cross today?
“Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.”
— Luke 23:34
Even in His final moments… He chose forgiveness.
🙏 A Simple Prayer
Lord Jesus,
Thank You for the cross.
Thank You for loving me even when I fall short.
Help me to never take Your sacrifice for granted.
Teach me to walk in Your grace,
to love as You loved,
and to live a life that honors You.
Amen.
Today may feel heavy… but remember, Sunday is coming. ✨
The story doesn’t end at the cross—it leads to victory.
Take this day gently. Reflect. Be still.
And let your heart rest in His love. 💛
Consumed by the World or Filled with the Word?
Consumed by the World or Filled with the Word?
By Deb Andio
Today, many people claim to be Christians, yet their lives appear to be consumed more by the world than by the Word of God.
Scripture makes it very clear: you cannot serve two masters.
You cannot say you serve God while spending all your time chasing the things of the world.
I am not saying becoming a success is bad or wrong it’s not.
The world encourages greed, selfishness, pride, and showboating. People brag about what they own, what they donated, or how successful they are. Not sure if they intentionally want to make others feel less than or if they’re just that stuck in their own little bubble. But none of those things will get you into heaven.
God does not measure your heart by your possessions or your public displays of generosity. He measures your heart by your faith, obedience, humility, and love for Him.
One of the most dangerous things a person can do is proclaim to be a Christian yet never open their Bible.
If you call yourself a believer but never read the Word, rarely pray, and never attend church—either in person or even online—you are leaving yourself spiritually unprotected. When the Word of God is absent from your life, it becomes much easier for the enemy to creep in.
You will either allow the Word to fill your mind, or you will allow the world to fill it.
The world fills your mind with fear, anxiety, shame, anger, and temptation. It normalizes things that pull us away from God—drunkenness, gossip, greed, hate, pride, and selfish desires.
But the Word of God does the opposite.
The Word fills your mind with truth, peace, hope, wisdom, and strength.
When you are spiritually led, you are spiritually fed.
But you cannot ask God for a revelation while refusing to make time for His Word. Have you even read the Chapter of Genesis? The Bible is divided into two parts, the Old Testament and the New Testament, the Bible contains a total of 66 books.
You cannot expect deep understanding of God’s purpose if you have never even taken the time to read the beginning of the Bible.
Being a Christian is not just about what you say. It is about how you live.
Ask yourself some honest questions.
Do you help others—family, friends, even strangers?
When you help someone, do you expect something in return, or do you give freely from the heart?
Are you willing to help a stranger, but not your own family when they are in need?
Do you show kindness to some people but not to others?
True Christian character is shown in the way we treat people when there is nothing to gain.
God sees how we treat everyone, not just the people we choose to be kind to.
And we must also be careful not to let the emotions of this world control us. Anger, fear, bitterness, and hurt can easily take root in our hearts if we allow them. But those things do not come from God.
Do not allow anger, fear, or pain jealousy to control your life. Those things are tools the enemy uses to pull people away from God’s truth.
Instead, turn back to the Word.
If you truly want God to guide your life, then you must first make time for Him.
Start simple.
Before you check your phone.
Before you turn on the television.
Before the noise of the world begins.
Give God ten minutes in the morning.
Open your Bible.
Read a passage.
Pray.
Let His Word settle in your heart before the world has a chance to fill your mind.
Because the truth is simple:
If you fill your life with the world, you will think like the world.
But if you fill your life with the Word, you will begin to live like Christ.
So today, make the choice.
Get your head and your eyes back on God.
Open your Bible.
And let the Word lead your life.
International Women’s Day: Strength, Purpose, and Lifting Each Other Up
International Women’s Day: Strength, Purpose, and Lifting Each Other Up
Every year on March 8, the world celebrates International Women’s Day—a day to recognize the strength, resilience, and contributions of women everywhere.
But this day is about more than celebration. It is about respect, dignity, courage, and reminding every woman that she matters.
Women throughout history have shaped families, communities, and nations through their strength, compassion, leadership, and determination. International Women’s Day gives us an opportunity to pause and recognize not only the progress that has been made, but also the importance of continuing to support one another.
The History of International Women’s Day
International Women’s Day began in 1908, when thousands of women marched through the streets of New York City demanding better working conditions, fair wages, and the right to vote.
The following year, the United States observed the first National Women’s Day. In 1910, women’s rights advocate Clara Zetkin proposed the idea of an international day dedicated to women. By 1911, International Women’s Day was celebrated across several European countries.
Over time, the day grew into a worldwide movement recognizing women’s contributions to society while continuing to advocate for equality, opportunity, safety, and respect.
Today, women across the globe celebrate the achievements of women while encouraging future generations to continue building a world where every woman’s voice and value are recognized.
Every Woman’s Work Has Value
Whether a woman works inside the home or outside the home, her work matters and holds value.
Raising children, caring for family members, managing a household, building a career, running a business, volunteering in the community, or supporting others in quiet ways—all of these roles contribute to the strength of families and society.
A woman’s worth is not measured by a paycheck, title, or recognition. The work women do every day helps build homes, communities, and futures.
Honor the Women Who Came Before You
Every woman stands on the shoulders of those who came before her.
Your mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, and the generations of women in your family before you all lived lives filled with purpose and strength. They did the best they could with the times and circumstances they were given.
Some worked inside the home caring for families.
Some worked outside the home helping provide for their loved ones.
Many did both while carrying responsibilities and challenges few people ever saw.
Because of their strength, you are here today.
Take pride not only in who you are, but where you came from. The courage, resilience, and sacrifices of the women before you helped shape the path you walk today.
Always honor the women in your family.
Without them, none of us would be here.
Standing Strong as Women Today
International Women’s Day is also a reminder of how women should support and encourage one another today.
Stand Up for Each Other
Women are strongest when they support one another. Encouraging another woman’s success does not diminish your own—it strengthens the path for everyone.
Celebrate each other’s victories. Offer support during difficult times. Stand beside one another.
Be an Example of a Lady
Strength and kindness can exist together. Being a lady is not about perfection—it is about character, respect, integrity, and grace.
How we carry ourselves leaves an example for younger generations to follow.
Never Accept Abuse
No woman should ever feel that she must accept abuse—whether emotional, verbal, or physical.
Every woman deserves to live with dignity, safety, and respect.
Know That You Matter
Women often carry many responsibilities—family, work, caregiving, and supporting others. It can be easy to forget your own worth when you are always giving to everyone else.
But remember this:
You matter.
Your voice matters.
Stand firm in your faith.
Your life has purpose.
You are enough exactly as you are.
Rest Is Not Weakness
Strong women are not meant to carry everything alone.
Some days we lead.
Some days we fight.
And some days we simply rest.
Taking time to rest and care for yourself is not weakness—it is necessary.
Strong Women Lift Each Other Up
One of the most powerful things a woman can do is encourage another woman.
Offer kindness.
Celebrate success.
Stand beside each other during difficult times.
When women lift each other up, families grow stronger, communities grow stronger, and the future grows stronger.
A Final Thought
International Women’s Day is not just about one day of recognition.
It is about remembering—every day—that women are leaders, caregivers, advocates, mothers, daughters, sisters, and friends.
It is about courage.
It is about dignity.
And it is about standing together.
Never forget:
Strong women do not compete with one another.
Strong women lift each other up.
My take on
Punch the Monkey’s Message
I carry my little monkey everywhere I go,
because every heart needs something to hold onto.
We all need love.
No one—human or creature—was ever meant to feel unloved, bullied, shunned or abandoned.
Every living being on this earth was placed here
to love and to be loved. All part of Gods plan.
So if you’re feeling alone today, remember this:
You matter.
You are worthy of love.
And somewhere, someone is glad you’re here.
Punch — the young macaque – I made this using Sora
If you haven’t heard about it, here is the original story and the update where she lives in Japan for real I based my AI created image above on this cute little creature of God
Punch’s story began with hardship when he was abandoned by his mother shortly after he was born. To help him, zookeepers gave him a stuffed toy that he began dragging around everywhere he went.
Original story in February 2026 https://www.foxnews.com/video/6389491721112
Update March 2026 https://www.foxnews.com/health/punch-monkey-viral-star-experiences-dramatic-breakthrough-among-zoo-mates
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