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The Strength of Kindness

The Strength of Kindness

Kindness is one of the most powerful things we can give to another human being, and it costs us nothing.

Yet we don’t always feel like being kind. People can frustrate us, hurt us, misunderstand us, or even take advantage of our goodness. In those moments, kindness can feel like weakness. But it is not weakness at all. Kindness is strength.

It takes strength to stay gentle when you are angry. It takes strength to respond with grace when someone is speaking harshly to you. Sometimes the most powerful response in an argument is to answer with kindness and simply see what happens.

Galatians 5:22 reminds us that kindness is part of the fruit of the Spirit. Ephesians 4:32 tells us to be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other just as God has forgiven us. Kindness is not just a personality trait; it is a spiritual quality that reflects God’s heart.

There is something deeply attractive about a kind person. It does not matter their age, appearance, or status. Kindness gives a quiet beauty that people can feel. It makes others feel safe, valued, and seen. Everyone loves someone who is kind.

Kindness is more than a word. It is action. It shows up in patience, forgiveness, gentleness, generosity, and thoughtful responses. It is choosing words that build up instead of tear down. It is being tender-hearted in a world that often feels harsh.

Kindness outlives everything else. Beauty fades, strength changes, and circumstances shift, but kindness leaves a lasting legacy. It is what makes grandparents cherished, friendships deep, and families feel like home. It is what children remember and what strangers never forget.

We do not have to be perfect to be kind. We just have to be willing. Some days we will be tired. Some days we will be hurting. Some days people will test every ounce of patience we have. Those are the days kindness matters most.

Kindness does not mean ignoring truth or allowing mistreatment. It means responding with grace, wisdom, and love even when it would be easier to respond with anger. It means allowing the Holy Spirit to soften our hearts instead of hardening them.

Ask yourself: Am I known as a kind person? Do my words give grace to those who hear them? Am I tender-hearted and forgiving the way God forgave me?

The world does not just need more opinions. It needs more kindness. One kind response can calm anger. One kind word can change someone’s entire day. One kind heart can reflect the love of Christ more than a thousand arguments ever could.

So even when it is hard, choose kindness. Even when you are tired, choose kindness. Even when people do not deserve it, choose kindness. Not because they earned it, but because God shows kindness to us every single day.

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Love That Never Runs Out

People Are Like Hourglasses

People can be like hourglasses. For a season, the love feels steady and full, but over time the sand slowly slips away. Sometimes it runs out far sooner than we ever expected or hoped. Relationships change, priorities shift, and human love can come with conditions, expectations, and limitations. That reality can hurt, especially when we have given our whole heart.

But Jesus’ love is not like that.

His love is unconditional and never-ending. It does not run out, fade away, or depend on how well we perform. Jesus loved us enough to die on the cross so that we could be forgiven of every sin and live in grace. That kind of love is eternal—steady, faithful, and always present.

While human love may ebb and flow, God’s love remains constant. He does not place stipulations on His grace or walk away when we fall short. He stays. He forgives. He restores.

So when people disappoint you or seasons of love come and go, remember this truth: God’s love for you is forever. Don’t take that for granted. Hold onto it, rest in it, and let it remind you that you are never unloved and never alone.

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Wishing you a joyful and blessed week ahead.

As we step into a new week, let us pause and be grateful. Some of us may be forced to stay home due to the weather, while others must head out because we are virtual responders or essential workers. Wherever you find yourself, please take the time to stay safe.

Try not to see today as something you have to do, but as something you are blessed to do. Each morning you wake up is a gift. Whatever you do tomorrow, do it for the Lord. Whether you are working, going to school, or staying home, show gratitude that you woke up today.

Remember, it is easy to be unhappy, and it is just as easy to choose joy. Happiness often begins with gratitude. Please choose happy.

May your week be filled with peace, protection, and blessings.

Heavenly Father,

We lift up everyone facing severe weather across the South, the Midwest, and the North. Lord, we pray especially for areas experiencing snowfall they have never seen before—where inches have turned into feet. Please place Your hand of protection over every family, every traveler, every first responder, and every community.

We also pray for those who are not battling severe weather at this time. Lord, keep them safe as well, with hearts full of gratitude, peace, and joy. Help them to appreciate the calm, to enjoy their day, and to be mindful of those who are struggling.

Grant safety, warmth, wisdom, and provision to all. Calm the storms, strengthen those who must work through them, and bring peace to those sheltering at home.

Lord, please keep everyone safe.

In Jesus’ name we pray, Amen.

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Monday Morning Prayer

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for waking us up this Monday morning. Thank You for the gift of a new day and a brand-new week.

Lord, help us step into today with a good attitude. Fill our hearts with joy for the tasks ahead, with strength to do our best, and with a spirit that honors You in everything we do.

Whether we are men, women, teens, or kids, guide our minds, steady our thoughts, and help us be grateful for every blessing You’ve placed in our lives.

Let us work hard today, not for praise or attention, but for Your glory, remembering that every effort matters when it’s done with love.

Protect our families, bless our homes, and help us shine with kindness, patience, and positivity. May this Monday be filled with gratitude, steady focus, and a peaceful heart.

In Jesus’ name we pray, Amen.

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Faithful in small things

It’s amazing what God can do for a troubled heart when we learn to truly meditate on Him. Charles F. Stanley often spoke about this, and I’ve always appreciated his wisdom. As the founder of In Touch Ministries, he exemplified what a minister should be. Though he is now with the Lord, his teachings continue to bless so many, including me.

When motivation feels low, remember—motivation isn’t constant. It rises and falls, and that’s okay. Sometimes your soul is simply asking for rest, or the Holy Spirit is inviting you to slow down and be present instead of pushing yourself to produce. Yet there is also faithfulness in the small steps we take, even when we don’t feel like taking them.

So pause.

Feet on the floor.

Hands relaxed.

Take a deep breath and look around at where you are right now.

Ask yourself: What is the very next small task in front of me?

Not the whole list—just the next step.

You don’t need enthusiasm or guaranteed results. All God asks is that you show up in this moment with whatever strength you have.

Philippians 2:13 (NASB) reminds us, “For it is God who is at work in you, both to will and to work for His good pleasure.”

So when you go to work, try shifting your perspective from “I have to go” to “I get to work for the Lord today.”

Our thoughts shape our attitude, and small acts done for Him matter more than grand gestures.

Jesus tells us in Matthew 6:34, “Do not worry about tomorrow… Each day has enough trouble of its own.”

Today is what God has placed in your hands. He’s not asking you to move mountains—just to be faithful where you stand. The outcome is His. Showing up is yours.

Rest isn’t about having everything figured out. It’s about trusting a Father who sees, knows, and loves us completely.

Prayer:

Lord, thank You for Your steady love. Help me to show up for the task or person in front of me today and to trust You with the rest. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Go gently into your next task, knowing God sees your willingness and honors your faithfulness.

Have a blessed day.

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The Seven Nights of Kwanzaa: A Celebration of Unity, Purpose, and Joy

Kwanzaa is a meaningful celebration observed over seven nights, from December 26 through January 1. It is a time to honor culture, community, family, and shared values that uplift not just one group of people, but humanity as a whole.

Each night, a candle is lit on the Kinara, and one principle is reflected upon. Together, these principles remind us how deeply connected we all are and how powerful it is when we live with intention and compassion.

The Seven Principles of Kwanzaa (Nguzo Saba)

Night One – Umoja (Unity)

Unity within our families, communities, and the world. A reminder that we are stronger together.

Night Two – Kujichagulia (Self-Determination)

Defining ourselves, speaking our truth, and honoring who we are without apology.

Night Three – Ujima (Collective Work and Responsibility)

Lifting one another up and recognizing that when one of us struggles, we all feel it.

Night Four – Ujamaa (Cooperative Economics)

Supporting one another’s dreams, businesses, and growth, because shared success benefits everyone.

Night Five – Nia (Purpose)

Living with intention and using our gifts to serve something greater than ourselves.

Night Six – Kuumba (Creativity)

Leaving the world better than we found it through creativity, kindness, and action.

Night Seven – Imani (Faith)

Faith in ourselves, in one another, and in the belief that love, justice, and hope will always rise.

A Truth That Unites Us All

We all bleed red.

The only difference is the color of our skin,

and that difference should make no difference at all.

Kwanzaa reminds us that celebrating culture does not divide us. It teaches us understanding, respect, and how to uplift one another. Joy grows when we make room for everyone.

Whether you celebrate Kwanzaa or simply reflect at the close of the year, may these seven nights inspire unity, purpose, creativity, and faith that carries forward into the year ahead.

Happy Kwanzaa.

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Merry Christmas

Merry Christmas.

Today is more than lights, gifts, and gatherings. Today we celebrate the birth of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.

Jesus was born in a humble stable, laid in a manger, welcomed by shepherds, and announced by angels. God chose simplicity and humility to bring His Son into the world. From the very beginning, Jesus showed us that His message was for everyone.

Jesus came not with earthly power, but with love, mercy, and compassion. He lived a life of service—healing the sick, caring for the forgotten, forgiving freely, and teaching us to love one another.

As we celebrate Christmas, let us remember that being more like Jesus is not just for one day or one season. We are called to help others, show kindness, and live with love every day—not only on holidays, but all year long.

May we carry the meaning of Christmas in our hearts and in our actions, remembering that hope was born in a manger and love came into the world through Christ.

Merry Christmas. May the peace and love of Jesus fill your heart and your home.

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The True Meaning of Christmas: Gratitude, Love, and Reflection

As we approach Christmas, it’s important to remember what this season truly represents. At its core, Christmas is the celebration of the birth of our Lord Jesus Christ—God’s gift of love and hope to the world. It’s a time to reflect on the profound significance of His coming and what it means for our lives.

For many of us, Christmas is also about being together with family and friends. If you’re fortunate enough to see your loved ones, take a moment to be grateful. Make time to talk to them see them because you never know just how long we will be on this earth. Forgive and move on from pettiness and anger.

Many would love to see their loved ones again while others are too busy to appreciate the family they have.

These moments of love, warmth, and connection are precious gifts worth cherishing. Whether gathered around a table, sharing laughter, or simply enjoying each other’s presence, these are the blessings that make this season special.

However, we also remember those who may not be able to be with their loved ones—whether they are far away, separated by distance, or have passed on.

Our hearts go out to them, and we pray for their comfort. Let us lift them up in prayer, asking God to bring peace to those longing for the presence of loved ones and to comfort those grieving during this time.

Ultimately, Christmas calls us back to the true reason we celebrate—the birth of Jesus Christ, who came into the world to bring salvation, love, and eternal hope. Let’s open our hearts to divine love, extend kindness to those around us, and give thanks for the precious gift of life and faith.

May this season be a time of reflection, gratitude, and love—embracing the true meaning of Christmas in our hearts and sharing that love with others.

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Women of Scripture: Mary, the Mother of Jesus

Women of Scripture: Mary, the Mother of Jesus — Courage, Humility, and Obedient Faith

Mary, the mother of Our Lord Jesus stands as one of the most profound examples of faithful obedience in all of Scripture. Her story is not just a Christmas narrative—it is a daily invitation for how we, too, can live with courage, humility, and trust in God.

Mary was young, ordinary, and living a quiet life when God chose her for an extraordinary purpose. When the angel Gabriel appeared and told her she would conceive by the Holy Spirit, Mary faced a moment that could have been filled with fear, confusion, or refusal. Instead, she responded with words that still echo through generations:

“I am the Lord’s servant. May your word to me be fulfilled.”

Those words reveal the heart of Mary. She didn’t ask for guarantees. She didn’t demand explanations. She didn’t negotiate the cost. She trusted God completely—even knowing the personal risk, social judgment, and uncertainty that awaited her.

Mary’s Strength Was Quiet—but Unshakable

Mary’s faith was not loud or attention-seeking. It was steady, reflective, and deeply rooted in trust. Scripture often tells us that Mary “pondered these things in her heart.” She listened more than she spoke. She reflected before reacting. She trusted God’s promises even when she didn’t yet understand them.

From the manger to the cross, Mary remained faithful. She carried Jesus in her womb, raised Him with love, and later stood at the foot of the cross, witnessing unimaginable sorrow—yet still believing God’s plan was at work.

What We Can Learn from Mary Today

1. Say yes to God, even when it’s uncomfortable.

Mary teaches us that obedience doesn’t require full understanding—only trust. God often calls us into things that stretch us beyond our comfort.

2. Humility invites God’s power.

Mary didn’t see herself as important or worthy; she saw herself as available. God works mightily through humble hearts.

3. Faith means trusting God with your reputation.

Mary risked misunderstanding and judgment, choosing obedience over approval. Today, we are reminded to seek God’s will—not public opinion.

4. Strength doesn’t always look loud.

Mary’s strength was found in perseverance, reflection, and quiet endurance. In a noisy world, her example calls us back to stillness and trust.

5. Treasure God’s work in your heart.

Mary teaches us to slow down, reflect, and hold God’s promises close—especially in seasons of uncertainty.

Becoming More Like Mary

To be more like Mary today means living with surrendered faith. It means trusting God when the path is unclear, choosing obedience when it’s costly, and believing that God can work through our ordinary lives in extraordinary ways.

Mary reminds us that God doesn’t look for perfection—He looks for willingness.

May we, like Mary, respond to God with open hearts and willing spirits, saying each day:

“Lord, let it be done according to Your word.”

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The Meaning and Story of Hanukkah

Hanukkah, also known as the Festival of Lights, is a time of remembrance, faith, and hope. It is celebrated for eight nights and honors the power of light overcoming darkness, and faith standing strong even in difficult times.

The story of Hanukkah goes back over two thousand years to a time when the Jewish people were forbidden to practice their faith. After years of struggle, a small group known as the Maccabees stood up for their beliefs and fought for religious freedom. Against great odds, they reclaimed the Holy Temple in Jerusalem.

When it came time to rededicate the Temple, there was only a small amount of sacred oil left to light the menorah, enough for just one day. Miraculously, that oil burned for eight days, long enough for new oil to be prepared. This miracle is at the heart of Hanukkah.

Each night, a candle is lit on the menorah, adding more light as the days go on. This reminds us that even a small light can grow brighter, and that hope increases when it is shared.

Hanukkah is also a time for family and tradition. Families gather to light the menorah, say prayers, sing songs, share meals, and remember the importance of faith, perseverance, and gratitude. Games are played, gifts may be exchanged, and stories are shared from one generation to the next.

At its core, Hanukkah is a reminder to stand firm in who you are, to protect what is sacred, and to let your light shine in the world. Even in times of challenge, faith has the power to carry us through.

May this season of Hanukkah bring peace to your home, light to your heart, and hope that lasts far beyond these eight nights.

Happy Hanukkah.