Tag: Love

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Handpicked

Posted on by ChronicallyGratefulDeb

God handpicked you, even if you feel like an outsider. Regardless of your past, background, or perceived inadequacies, God chooses you. The world may say you’re not qualified or that you don’t fit in, but God’s response is, “You’re exactly who I’m looking for.” He specializes in choosing strangers, those who don’t conform to societal expectations, those with flaws and weaknesses.

In Jeremiah 1:5, God declares that He knew and approved you before you were even formed in your mother’s womb. You’re not just chosen; you have a calling and greatness within you. Don’t let the enemy’s lies make you feel left out or unworthy. God has a history of choosing unexpected individuals, like David, a shepherd boy who became the king of Israel, and Moses, who led the Israelites despite his flaws.

Even Jesus, instead of choosing the expected candidates, picked fishermen and tax collectors as his disciples. He didn’t go for the most qualified; he chose those with imperfections. Similarly, God’s choice of you isn’t based on your flaws or background. He knew every mistake you would make, every struggle you’d face, and still, He chose you.

Don’t disqualify yourself; God’s calling on your life is unchangeable. Start each day acknowledging that you are chosen and approved by the Creator of the universe. You are a masterpiece, fearfully and wonderfully made. People may disapprove or look down on you, but their opinions don’t matter when you have Almighty God’s approval.

Your past struggles and setbacks haven’t disqualified you; they’ve prepared you for where God is taking you. You are a perfect fit for your assignment. Instead of dwelling on what could have been, embrace the fact that God considered everything and still chose you. Hold your head high, knowing that your worth comes from being chosen by God.

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Just A Nobody

Posted on by ChronicallyGratefulDeb

I listen to Z88.3 Orlando it’s a Christian radio station and I just love all the talks, music etc….

I listened to KLOVE when I lived in Ohio.

One of my favorite songs is by Casting Crowns called Nobody.

It’s basically saying what I have thought for the past few years, why me? Why was I selected and lead to take ministry classes? To be ordained when I am so flawed? We all have flaws but I wonder why God lead me to take classes the ultimately led me to become ordained.

Was it to teach me how to become better, wiser?

I’m just an ordinary person spreading the word about Jesus. In ways of stories I create , thoughts I have . And teachings I have studied as well as my own Life experiences etc..

The mystery of why You chose me Lord has persisted throughout my life. I’ve often been told that I belong at the end of the line with the Not-Quites and the Never-Get-It-Rights and How can you be a minister you used to swear smoke, etc….

As the song goes

I’m just a nobody, sharing the story of Somebody who saved my soul. Since You rescued me, my heart now sings a song,

In moments of doubt, when the devil questions my worth, I confidently respond that I’m just a nobody proclaiming Somebody great.

The stories of Moses’ stage fright and David facing a sword with a rock remind me that outsiders like the twelve You picked can change the world. Everyone has a purpose, and when the devil questions my identity, I assert that I’m just a nobody proclaiming Somebody who saved my soul.

Thank you Lord for saving me and allowing me to spread your word

And in the spirit of the message, let’s reflect on Psalm 27:1 – “The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? The Lord is the stronghold of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?”

Here is the song by the casting crowns enjoy. Called Nobody

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Prioritizing Love in 2024

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In the midst of setting the usual New Year’s resolutions – diet, exercise, and spending less time online – there’s one goal that promises not just commitment, but genuine enjoyment: spending quality time with your spouse or partner in 2024.

Our lives are busier than ever, consumed by work, job searches, shuttling kids to various activities, and the demands of daily life. It’s easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of responsibilities, often neglecting the foundation of our support system – our relationships.

Putting conscious effort into spending more time with your partner can be a game-changer. Amidst the chaos, taking a moment to hold their hand signifies a simple yet powerful act of connection. It’s a reminder that amidst the hustle, the heart of your life lies in the bond you share.

Here are six ways to spend quality time with your partner and foster a thriving relationship:

  1. Weekly Date Nights: Set aside dedicated time each week for a date night. Whether it’s a cozy dinner at home, a movie night, or a spontaneous adventure, prioritizing this time enhances intimacy.
  2. Technology-Free Time: Create windows where both of you disconnect from devices. This allows for undivided attention, fostering deeper conversations and strengthening emotional bonds.
  3. Shared Hobbies: Identify activities you both enjoy and make time for them together. Whether it’s cooking, hiking, or even learning something new, shared interests deepen your connection.
  4. Express Gratitude: Regularly express appreciation for each other. Small gestures of gratitude, like a heartfelt compliment or a thoughtful note, contribute to a positive and affirming relationship.
  5. Travel Together: Plan a getaway, even if it’s just a short weekend trip. Exploring new places creates lasting memories and provides an opportunity to reconnect away from the routines of daily life.
  6. Volunteer as a Couple: Giving back to the community as a team is not only fulfilling but also strengthens your bond. Find a cause that resonates with both of you and contribute your time together.

Bible Verse: Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 (NIV)
“Two are better than one because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up.”

In essence, this verse emphasizes the power of unity and mutual support, underscoring the importance of having a partner by your

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New Beginnings

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In 2 Corinthians 5:14-21, the message is clear: “If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation.” As we enter the end of the first week of the New Year, people often make resolutions to change, but true new beginnings come only from God. Unlike human efforts, God can fundamentally transform us through the work of Jesus Christ on the cross.

To experience a genuine new beginning, we must recognize three areas where God might be calling us to change: Personally, Communally, and Missionally.

  1. Personally: Our vision for our lives should align with God’s plan – conformity to the image of Christ. This involves growing in maturity, experiencing God’s grace, and putting on the character of Christ. Let’s reflect and pray, asking God to reveal how we can conform to Jesus in the coming year.
  2. Communally: As a church community, we’re challenged to manifest God’s presence by growing in unity, love, and service. This includes intentional hospitality, encouraging conversations, discipleship, and addressing the needs within our community. Let’s seek God’s guidance on how we can mature spiritually and practically as a church.
  3. Missionally: God calls us to reach out to those outside His kingdom with love, grace, and truth. We need to see people as Jesus does – sheep without a shepherd. Our hope in the Gospel should renew our perspective on our city, state, and world. Let’s pray for God to touch our hearts and show us how to engage our city with the transformative power of the Gospel.

Remember all things are possible with God. By continually beholding the Lord in His word, we can be transformed into His likeness. As we commit ourselves to this, we’ll discern God’s calling for our lives personally, communally, and missionally.

Posted in Faith, Forgiveness, Life, Love, New Year, Peace

Embracing Positivity in the New Year: A Journey of Forgiveness and Love

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As the new year dawns upon us, I find myself reflecting on the transformative power of forgiveness, love, and understanding. It’s not just a gift we bestow upon others; it’s a profound gift we give ourselves, lightening our spirits and keeping us aligned with the positive energy that emanates from God.

Entering the new year with a heart full of forgiveness is an act of divine grace. In the Bible, we are reminded that to receive forgiveness, we must extend it to others. “For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you.” (Matthew 6:14) This timeless truth emphasizes the reciprocity of forgiveness—our ability to receive it hinges on our willingness to grant it.

In the tapestry of life, forgiveness is the thread that weaves love and understanding into our relationships. The act of forgiving others is not merely a gesture of bidding goodbye to resentment; it’s a way of releasing the negative vibes that can weigh us down. As we embrace forgiveness, we free ourselves from the shackles of bitterness, creating space for love and positivity to flourish.

A quote that resonates with the essence of stepping into the new year with a positive mindset is, “Tomorrow is the first blank page of a 365-page book. Write a good one.” (Brad Paisley) Each day offers an opportunity for a new beginning, a chance to let go of past grievances and embrace a brighter, more positive future.

So, as we stand at the threshold of the new year, let’s commit to forgiveness, love, and understanding. In doing so, we not only gift others the grace of our forgiveness but also bestow upon ourselves the freedom to live in harmony with the divine positivity that surrounds us. May the coming year be a tapestry woven with threads of love, understanding, and the transformative power of forgiveness.

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Happy Kwanzaa

Posted on by ChronicallyGratefulDeb

Kwanzaa is a week-long celebration starting on December 26th and ending on January 1st. It honors African heritage and cultural values. The holiday was created in 1966 by Dr. Maulana Karenga and is observed mainly in the United States.

Each day of Kwanzaa focuses on a specific principle, known as the Nguzo Saba, which are seven guiding values: Umoja (unity), Kujichagulia (self-determination), Ujima (collective work and responsibility), Ujamaa (cooperative economics), Nia (purpose), Kuumba (creativity), and Imani (faith). These principles are represented by lighting seven candles in a kinara, a traditional candleholder.

Celebrants also decorate their homes with African art, wear traditional clothing, and exchange educational and cultural gifts. Kwanzaa encourages reflection on the past, present, and future, fostering unity and community building.

Kwanzaa is a meaningful celebration that promotes unity, cultural pride, and the application of positive values in daily life. It lasts for seven days, offering a unique opportunity to reflect on one’s heritage and contribute to the well-being of the community.

“Creator of all, on this day of Kwanzaa, we gather in unity to honor our heritage and celebrate the principles that guide us. Grant us the strength to uphold Umoja, fostering unity among our people. May Kujichagulia empower us to determine our destiny with purpose and pride. Let Ujima inspire collective responsibility, working together for the greater good.

Bless our efforts in Ujamaa, promoting cooperative economics and shared prosperity. Guide us in pursuing Nia, fulfilling our purpose with dedication. Infuse our endeavors with Kuumba, sparking creativity that enriches our lives and community. Finally, instill in us Imani, a steadfast faith that propels us toward a brighter future.

As we light the candles of the kinara, may their glow symbolize the illumination of these principles in our hearts and homes. Amen.”

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Joseph’s Silent Strength: A Perspective on the Birth of Jesus

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The night that changed the world

Advent is a unique time of year when the Church remembers the gifts Christ brought to all of creation on that first Christmas. That moment changed everything, and it truly was a holy night.

The story of the birth of Jesus is undoubtedly one of the most beautiful narratives ever told. Often, the focus is on Mary, the shepherds, and the Magi, (The biblical Magi —also known as the Three Wise Men, Three Kings, and the Three Magi—were distinguished foreigners in the Gospel of Matthew and Christian tradition. They are said to have visited Jesus after his birth, bearing gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh)

but there’s another crucial character in this divine drama – Joseph. Imagine the myriad of emotions he must have experienced throughout this extraordinary journey.

In Matthew 1:18-25, we catch a glimpse of Joseph’s side of the story. A good and godly man, Joseph faced a dilemma when he discovered Mary’s unexpected pregnancy. Considering a quiet divorce, he must have been torn between his love for Mary and the societal expectations of the time.

Yet, Joseph’s character shines through when an angel of the Lord appears to him in a dream. This divine intervention transforms his confusion into understanding and obedience. In a world quick to judge, Joseph’s silent strength and obedience to God’s plan demonstrate an extraordinary level of faith and humility.

Consider the weight on Joseph’s shoulders – accepting a miraculous conception, embracing Mary and the imminent role of being Jesus’ earthly father. A carpenter by trade, Joseph not only provided for his family but also played a pivotal role in shaping the life of the Messiah. He taught Jesus earthly skills, imparted wisdom, and guided Him in the ways of faith.

Joseph’s journey wasn’t without challenges, yet he demonstrated profound understanding and compassion. In a society quick to cast judgment, he chose the path of grace. Can we fathom the depth of Joseph’s love and faithfulness?

Reflecting on Joseph’s perspective challenges us to emulate his qualities – understanding, humility, and obedience to God’s plan. In a world often filled with judgment and condemnation, Joseph’s silent strength speaks volumes.

So, would you be as understanding as Joseph? His story encourages us to extend grace, embrace the unexpected, and trust in the divine plan even when faced with uncertainties. In Joseph’s obedience, we find a lesson that goes beyond his role in the nativity story – a lesson in unwavering faith and the transformative power of understanding.

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The True Meaning of Christmas: Reflecting on the King in a Manger and the Essence of the Season

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In a humble manger, a king lay to rest, a symbolic beginning to a profound story. Haverstraw, with its own tales to tell, becomes a backdrop to a narrative of grace and sacrifice. The king in the manger, deserving of more than he received, embarked on a journey that transcends material celebrations.

Christmas, often clouded by the allure of gifts and festivities, finds its true purpose in the birth of our Lord Jesus Christ. It’s not merely about the exchange of presents, Santa Claus, or fleeting merriment. The essence lies in recognizing the significance of the divine arrival on this sacred day.

Amidst the commercial clamor, it’s perplexing why some celebrate a holiday rooted in faith without subscribing to its spiritual core. Beyond the superficial trappings of the season, the heartbeat of Christmas resonates in acknowledging the savior’s birth.

The temptation to focus on temporary pleasures or fleeting family perfection should yield to the profound reality that Christmas is a celebration of spiritual renewal. Beyond the tinsel and lights, it’s a call to reflect on our connection with the divine, a reminder of the eternal gift that arrived in the form of a child.

For those seeking salvation, Christmas serves as an invitation to embrace the transformative power of faith. As you embark on the journey of becoming born again, consider the words of Scripture:

  1. John 3:16 – “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.”
  2. Isaiah 9:6 – “For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.”

The true meaning of Christmas is encapsulated in the profound love and sacrifice embodied by the birth of Jesus. As you navigate this season, remember that salvation is the ultimate gift, and the path to the kingdom of heaven lies in faith and acceptance.

“In the quiet miracle of Christmas, we find the greatest gift of all – the promise of salvation, the hope of eternal life, and the boundless love of our Savior.”

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Christmas Blessings & Miracles

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As I stand on the threshold of the holiday season, I am reminded of the incredible power that lies in expecting miracles in our lives, particularly during moments of adversity and challenges. Life, with its twists and turns, often throws unexpected obstacles our way—be it health struggles, personal challenges, or the ups and downs that accompany our journey. Yet, in the face of these difficulties, maintaining a positive outlook becomes not just a choice but a beacon of hope, especially as Christmas approaches, promising the potential for miracles.

It’s easy to become bogged down by the weight of challenges, feeling overwhelmed by the magnitude of life’s trials. However, I’ve come to realize that in those moments of darkness, expecting a miracle can be a transformative mindset. This time of year, with the spirit of Christmas in the air, serves as a poignant reminder of the extraordinary possibilities that lie within the realm of hope.

In the tapestry of belief and positivity, Christmas embodies the essence of miracles. The very story of Christmas, with the miraculous birth of Jesus, emphasizes that extraordinary events can unfold in the most humble and unexpected circumstances. It encourages us to anticipate the miraculous, even in our own lives.

Turning to the timeless wisdom found in the Bible, one verse that resonates deeply with the theme of expecting miracles is Jeremiah 29:11: “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.” This verse instills a profound sense of assurance that, even in the face of challenges, there is a divine plan at play—one that holds the promise of a hopeful future.

Another scripture that echoes the sentiment of anticipating miracles is Philippians 4:13: “I can do all things through him who strengthens me.” This verse reminds us that, with faith and reliance on a higher power, we can navigate challenges with resilience and openness to the possibility of miraculous outcomes.

In the spirit of cultivating a positive mindset, let’s embrace the day with this quote: “Miracles happen every day; we just need to notice them.” This simple yet powerful reminder encourages us to be mindful of the small wonders that unfold in our lives, paving the way for a greater sense of hope and expectation.

As we approach the holiday season, let’s carry the anticipation of miracles in our hearts. Expecting a Christmas miracle is not just a hopeful sentiment; it’s an invitation for extraordinary possibilities to manifest in our lives. May this season be a testament to the miraculous potential that resides within each day, guiding us through challenges with unwavering hope and positivity.