Do you ever sit back and wonder if you’re doing a good job as a mother? Trust me, you’re not alone. We’ve all said things we regret, made choices we wish we could change, and had days that left us questioning ourselves. But let’s take a moment to reflect on the extraordinary journey of motherhood, filled with love, challenges, and little victories.
Picture this: A mom, exhausted from a long day, she works part time or maybe she works full-time. She has kids that are involved in soccer and dance, so she’s the family taxi and she finally finds a quiet moment in her living room after catching up on the news.
Her kids are wrapping up their homework, and her husband is chatting with her about his day. As she glances at the clock and realizes it’s already 7:30 PM, fatigue washes over her. She thinks to herself, “Maybe I should just head to bed.” so she tells her husband and her children that she’s tired had a long day and she just wants to go up and go to bed. So everyone tells her good night gives her a hug and they go about what they’re doing.
She thinks but first, there are a few little things that demand her attention—things that often go unnoticed.
She heads into the kitchen, pulling food from the freezer for dinner tomorrow, packing lunches, and tidying up the mess she just made in the process. It’s a familiar routine, but one that takes effort and time. She preps the coffee for the morning, folds laundry from the dryer, and remembers that she needs to start another load.
Amidst this whirlwind of activity, she notices the dog’s bowl is empty—so she fills it up with water and food. Then, a gentle reminder pops into her mind: it’s her friend’s birthday tomorrow. She signs a card and quickly fills out permission slips for the kids’ school events. Just when she thinks she might finally unwind, her husband playfully reminds her, “Aren’t you supposed to be getting to bed?”
But her heart knows better. She’s putting in the late hours to ensure everything runs smoothly for her family. She heads upstairs, hangs up the freshly ironed uniforms, and checks in on her kids to make sure they’re tucked in tight. Finally, she settles down with her Bible for a moment of peace.
Just then, the call of duty beckons again—“Mom! Can you help me with my homework?” And off she goes, ready to assist. After helping her child finish up, she takes a deep breath and prepares to sleep while also remembering to take her medication and toss yet another load of laundry in the dryer. By now, her husband is tired and says well I think I’ll go to bed and he did . She chooses to read a few minutes of her Bible just because it’s now totally quiet and then she finally turns off the lights, ready to surrender to rest.
This beautiful chaos is a testament to the incredible women in our lives—moms, daughters, granddaughters sisters, cousins, aunts partners, and friends—who juggle countless responsibilities with grace. Whether you’re a stay-at-home mom, a working mom, or someone who plays the role of a caregiver, your efforts are nothing short of amazing. Remember, women rock!
To the men out there, please take a moment to appreciate the remarkable women in your lives. Recognize the love and dedication they put into every detail, from folding laundry to planning family meals. Those small tasks may seem insignificant, but they’re a labor of love that deserves recognition.
For those women facing tougher battles—perhaps struggling in an abusive relationship or questioning their worth during a divorce—hear this: You are doing your best. Every decision comes from a place of love for yourself and your children, even if it’s not always obvious to others. Don’t let the opinions of others dim your shine. It’s their loss if they can’t see the incredible person you are.
So, give yourself some grace. Forgive yourself for not meeting every expectation, and show yourself the love and respect you so abundantly give to others. You deserve it!
Let’s lift each other up instead of tearing ourselves down. Take a moment to breathe, appreciate your journey, and recognize the strength within you. And don’t forget to say thank you to the women in your life it means more than you can imagine.
Remember, motherhood is not only about perfection; it’s about love, resilience, and the countless ways we care for one another. So here’s to all the amazing mothers out there, mom’s with children moms with pets mom’s of all kinds—keep shining, keep loving, and continue to embrace the beautiful journey of motherhood with kindness towards yourself. ❤️
Joyful-Echoes 