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Starting Monday with Grace

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Starting Monday with Grace

Happy Monday! Today is a fresh start, a new opportunity to walk in God’s grace and renew our spirits. As we begin this week, remember to be gentle with yourself. No matter what yesterday brought, today is a new day full of possibilities. Give yourself permission to let go of any harsh self-judgment and step into this day with compassion and grace.

Take a moment to forgive those who may have hurt you or spoken unkind words—whether intentionally or not. Often times there are two sides to every story actually three sides there’s yours and the right one. I think often times we hold grudges for the wrong reasons. I personally don’t believe in holding a grudge, but there have been times where I’ve been angry at someone because I misunderstood something if you let that wall continue to build, especially if it’s with family or friends there’s going to come in time where there’s like a point of no return and then what good to set to anyone you’re both not doing God‘s word or doing his wishes which is forgiving others And honoring your family

Holding onto bitterness only weighs us down, but forgiveness frees us to move forward. Release any resentment into God’s hands and trust in His power to heal and restore.

Thank God for waking you up this morning. His mercy is new every morning, and His love never fails. No matter how big or small your problems seem, remember that you are never alone. God is always with you, guiding, comforting, and strengthening you through every challenge.

Whatever you’re facing this week, hold on to the promise that you will get through it. With faith and trust in the Lord, brighter days are ahead. Walk in confidence, knowing that His grace is sufficient, and His strength is made perfect in our weakness.

You are dearly loved and beautifully made. Have a blessed Monday and a wonderful new week ahead!

Scripture to remind us of His presence:

“Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, yes, I will help you, I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.” — Isaiah 41:10

“Casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you.” — 1 Peter 5:7

Start this week with faith, grace, and gratitude. God is with you—every step of the way.

Wishing everyone a blessed day

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Begin Your Day with Prayer

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Begin Your Day with Prayer

Loved child of God, before the world rushes in before the sun rises, before we get out of bed , to start our day with all its noise—traffic, stress, life’s chaos and demands—we must take just two minutes now to honor and connect with God.

This moment is sacred. It is powerful. Today, you rise with faith and prayer, choosing to put God first.

When you prioritize Him, all burdens lighten. Let go of yesterday’s worries—all those locked doors and past stresses—trust that everything will fall into place because you’ve set your focus on Him.

Remember Jesus’ words in Matthew 6:33:
“Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added unto you.”

Your peace, your protection, your health—everything you need is linked to God’s love. He is the Alpha and the Omega, the beginning and the end.

By starting your day with prayer, you silence the enemy’s voice and open your heart to divine guidance.

Begin with reading Psalm 5: “Lord, You hear me when I call.”

Today, we lift our voices and hearts to You, Creator of heaven and earth. Watch over us and those we love. Keep us safe, healthy, happy, and prosperous.

We refuse to let yesterday’s baggage control us today. As the sun rises, may its light dispel all darkness within and around us.

Clothe us in the full armor of God—shield us from illness, negativity, evil influences, and spiritual attacks. Surround us with guardian angels.

Today, Lord, we speak healing over our bodies, wisdom over our finances, and strength over our spirits. We ask for Your protection over every aspect of our lives and those we hold dear.

May we draw closer to You throughout the day, praying, listening, and trusting in Your divine plan.

Thank You for Your endless love and grace.

In Jesus’ name, we pray.
Amen.

Good Morning – Have A Blessed Day ✝️

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 The strength of a woman

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I seen an image on either TikTok or Instagram. It was a black-and-white photo and so I made my twist on it and I love art so when I seen it , I was very moved by it and so below is my version of the photo in color

This image vividly portrays a mother up to her neck in water, yet with unwavering strength, she holds her child high above the surface— some people thought that the woman was swimming out in the lake to drowned herself and her child, but that was not the case ; she was protecting, caring, and fighting to keep her little one safe amid overwhelming circumstances. It’s a powerful reminder that, despite the chaos and challenges we face—be it overwork, poverty, abuse, addiction, illness, or mental health struggles—we do everything we can for our children.

And there’s usually more to the story than what we see or what we think we see

People often don’t understand why women do what they do because they can’t see the full depth of someone’s reality. They assume, “If I were in her shoes, I’d do differently,” but each of us handles our struggles in our own way. As mothers, we do what’s best with the resources, strength, and knowledge we have. For women living in extreme poverty, working multiple jobs might be their only option to provide stability. Those in abusive relationships might shield their children temporarily by placing them with relatives, even though leaving is complicated—sometimes dangerous—because the threat of harm persists if they attempt to escape.

Women battling addiction or mental health issues may feel overwhelmed and unworthy, choosing to make heartbreaking decisions like giving up their children because they believe they’re not enough or fear they might harm them. Women with chronic pain or fighting life-threatening illnesses like cancer simply do their best to keep moving forward, even when exhaustion and suffering threaten to weigh them down.

We must resist judging these women. Instead, we should lift them up, offer grace, and understand that every woman is doing her best in her circumstances.

Sometimes, giving up a child through adoption is an act of profound love and self-sacrifice, not neglect or failure. You may not see the whole story, but that doesn’t mean you should judge.

Every woman faces struggles—whether in youth, education, relationships, addiction, poverty, illness, or mental health. Life is hard, and nobody’s journey is perfect. Our role isn’t to judge or criticize but to support and uplift one another. When wounds are inflicted by others, or if you disagree with how someone navigates their life, remember that everyone is fighting a battle you may never see.

Women have a unique bond. We should celebrate and nurture our relationships—whether between mothers and sons, mothers and daughters, or among friends—striving to understand and forgive, rather than condemn. I speak from experience, having had my own imperfections and regrets. My mother’s love and sacrifices, though not perfect, shaped who I am today. I wish I had appreciated her more when she was here.

If you’re estranged from a loved one, keep praying, keep loving, and trust that time and patience may heal wounds. We weren’t born to be distant or disconnected from our children and loved ones. It’s our responsibility as women to support each other, to build each other up, and to be the refuge in moments of despair.

This is my interpretation of the photo: a testament to resilience, sacrifice, and the unwavering maternal instinct to protect and nurture, even when life feels like it’s dragging us under. Let’s honor each woman’s journey, extend compassion, and band together in sisterhood—because we are stronger when we lift each other up.

Never underestimate the strength of a woman or mother— we love fiercely and do the best we can with what we have. People may not always see the full picture or understand the trials we face, so it’s unfair to judge. Instead, women should lift each other up with kindness and support, offering a hand, not a harsh word. Just because you would handle a situation differently doesn’t mean what I did was wrong, and vice versa. Let’s show each other grace, kindness, and respect, remembering that we’re all doing our best in the moments we’re given.

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Be Careful What You Pray For: The Power of Intent and Reflection

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Prayer is a deeply personal and powerful way to communicate with God. It’s a sacred act of seeking guidance, expressing gratitude, and stating our desires. But sometimes, in our enthusiasm or desperation, we focus so much on what we want that we forget to pause and reflect on whether those wishes are truly in our best interest.

Have you ever found yourself praying for something—be it fame, fortune, a new job, or even the departure of someone from your life, I don’t mean, wishing someone dead what I mean is a person who for some reason you don’t want in your life anymore you just wish they would go away or prayed that they would go away ; and then, once your prayer is answered, feeling surprised or even disappointed by the outcome? Sometimes, we get exactly what we ask for, but with it comes unforeseen consequences that catch us off guard.

Fame and Fortune:
Many of us have dreamed about achieving wealth or fame. While it can be tempting to envision a life of luxury and recognition, we often forget that fame can attract insincerity—people who only want us for our money or status. Suddenly, you have all these new and amazing friends, but are they really your friends or are they just out for what you have . And then there’s people that truly love you that you are now throwing in that category that they only want you for maybe your money or your fame when that’s not the case at all you see when you become famous sometimes you trust the wrong people and you don’t put your faith in those who have always been in your life Trying to do what’s best for you loving you caring for you accepting you for you .The love or admiration we seek might come with strings attached, or worse, superficial affection that leaves us feeling empty inside.

Praying for People to Leave:
On the other hand, we might pray for someone to stop being part of our lives, believing that their presence is toxic or unnecessary. Yet, when that person finally leaves, we may realize how much their presence was a source of comfort or stability. The absence leaves a void we didn’t anticipate, and we are left grappling with feelings of loneliness or regret. too proud to admit it and too stubborn to ask for forgiveness., yet you left someone who truly cared and loved you in the lurch.

Changing Jobs:
Similarly, we might pray for a new, better job, expecting a seamless transition into happiness and success. Sometimes, the new role turns out to be more stressful, demanding, or unfulfilling than the previous one we thought was so terrible. Conversely, we might pray for the current situation to improve, and when it does, our joy is immense because we see that our prayers have been answered.

The Power of Gratitude:
Have you ever taken a moment to reflect on a wish that has come true? The joy and gratitude that flood in when you realize, “Wow, I prayed for this—God answered my prayer”? That feeling of fulfillment is powerful. It reminds us that God’s plans are often better than our own, and sometimes, what we think we want isn’t what we need.

The Importance of Alignment in Prayer:
So, what’s the lesson here? It’s essential to ask ourselves whether our prayers are truly aligned with what is best for us. Instead of merely asking for something, we should seek God’s guidance to understand His will. Pray not just for the outcome we desire but for clarity, wisdom, and peace in whatever happens.

Remember that God isn’t a genie who grants wishes with a flick of a wand. His plans are often beyond our understanding, and sometimes, what we ask for may not be good for us—even if it seems perfect at the moment. Trusting God’s timing and His divine plan can turn moments of disappointment into opportunities for growth and deeper faith.


Next time you find yourself fervently praying for something, pause. Take a deep breath and ask for discernment. Seek God’s guidance to align your desires with His perfect plan. Be open to the possibility that what you pray for—and what you receive—might be part of a greater purpose, even if it doesn’t look exactly like what you imagined.

Because in the end, true peace and fulfillment come from trusting that God’s plans are for our good—even when they lead us through unexpected paths.

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Celebrating Our Unique Beauty and Embracing Every Age

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Everyone is beautifully unique in their own way. As we grow older, it’s natural to look in the mirror and feel a spark of longing—for the youthful glow, the fire in our eyes, or that carefree spirit we once had. Sometimes, we wish we could hold on to that “younger” version of ourselves, wanting to look and feel younger. It’s a common challenge, and I think many of us share those moments of nostalgia, wishing to preserve that vibrant youth.

They say that the eyes are the window to the soul, and I’ve always believed that. When I look into someone’s eyes, I try to see their pain, their joy, and the depth of who they are. It’s amazing how much the eyes reveal—everyone’s eyes are different, filled with stories, emotions, and life experiences. We are all wonderfully made, each with our own beauty crafted by God.

At almost 63, I sometimes wish I could go back to feeling 25, 30, or even 40. But I am grateful—truly grateful—for my life, my marriage, my daughter, my granddaughter, and my friends and family. I cherish every moment and every relationship, knowing that each day is a gift. And although there are days I notice the signs of aging—those little things that remind me I am not what I once was—I realize that I am still beautiful, just as I am.

Remember, we are perfect just as God made us. If you choose to tweak your appearance here or there—whether it’s a facelift, skincare, or simply embracing yourself as you are—that’s your choice. But always hold onto the truth that there is nothing wrong with growing older. Our age doesn’t define our worth or our beauty; God’s love does. And in His eyes, we are wonderfully made—flawed, loved, and perfectly crafted by His hands.

So, celebrate your age, cherish your journey, and know that beauty radiates from within—confidence, kindness, faith, and a love for who you are. Because in God’s eyes, you are exactly the way you’re meant to be.

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How Not to Be Like This Man: Lessons on Compassion, Respect, and Christian Conduct

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Recently, a disturbing incident unfolded in Florida where a man was arrested for repeatedly aiming sprinklers at students with disabilities as they waited for a school bus. Charged with stalking and battery, this man’s actions reflect a blatant disregard for human dignity and the teachings of Christ.

As followers of Christ, we are called to demonstrate love, compassion, and respect for all people, especially those who are vulnerable or in need. Jesus Himself set the perfect example:
“A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another; just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another.” (John 13:34)

How Not to Be Like This Man

  1. Disregard for Others’ Dignity
    This man attempted to harm or humiliate children with disabilities—an act profoundly contrary to the dignity we are all created with in God’s image. As Scripture reminds us,
    “So God created man in His own image, in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them.” (Genesis 1:27)
    Our actions should reflect respect for every person, regardless of their abilities or circumstances.
  2. Failure to Show Compassion
    Christ calls us to show compassion, especially to the vulnerable. In Matthew 25:40, Jesus teaches:
    “Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of Mine, you did for Me.”
    Instead of cruelty, Christians are called to be compassionate and kind.
  3. Lack of Self-Control and Love
    The Scriptures warn us about the importance of self-control and love. Galatians 5:22-23 states:
    “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control.”
    Acts of harassment and harm stem from a lack of these fruits. We must nurture them within ourselves.

The Lesson

This incident serves as a stark reminder of what it means to truly live out our faith. Christianity is not just about words; it’s about our actions—our respect, kindness, and the love we show to others.

How can we ensure we follow this path?

  • Treat everyone with dignity and respect, especially those who are vulnerable or different.
  • Show compassion and kindness in all our interactions.
  • Exercise self-control, resisting temptations to harm or belittle others.
  • Pray daily for a heart of love and the strength to act justly.

In Conclusion

Let us reflect on our actions and motivations. Are we demonstrating Christ’s love in our everyday lives? Remember Galatians 6:9-10:
“Let us not grow weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up. Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people…”

May we be inspired by Christ’s example to be kind, caring, and respectful—especially toward those most in need of love and compassion.

“Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” (Luke 6:31)

Heavenly Father,
Please soften the hearts of those who are cruel and callous. Convict them with Your love, and change their hearts to reflect Your kindness and mercy.
Transform them, Lord, and restore their compassion.
In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.

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What is the most important thing to carry with you all the time?

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What is the most important thing to carry with you all the time?

The Most Important Thing I Carry with Me Every Day: My Faith in God

When someone asks me, “What is the most important thing to carry with you all the time?”, I don’t think of an object like my keys or phone. Instead, I think of something much deeper—my faith and belief in God.

For me, this faith is my constant companion. It’s what brings comfort during my pain,struggles and also joy in my victories. No matter what challenges I face—whether good or not so good—I truly believe that I am never alone. God is with me, guiding me every step of the way, even when life feels uncertain, unfair or difficult.

Never Alone in Life’s Ups and Downs

Life is full of unexpected twists and turns. Sometimes, I encounter hurdles that leave me feeling overwhelmed or unsure. But my faith reminds me that I don’t have to face these moments on my own. Scripture reassures me: “I will never leave you nor forsake you” (Hebrews 13:5). This promise gives me peace and reassurance that I carry deep in my heart every day.

When I’m walking through challenges, I lean into my belief that God’s presence is constant. It’s a comforting thought—that I’m not alone in my struggles, and I don’t have to carry the weight of everything myself.

Faith as My Source of Strength

My belief in God doesn’t mean I don’t feel pain or face difficulties. It means I choose to trust that He is with me, giving me strength and courage. Even when I feel weak, my faith reminds me that His grace is sufficient. It’s this trust that helps me stay hopeful, resilient, and motivated to keep moving forward.

Living with Faith

Having faith isn’t just something I hold onto in times of trouble—it’s a daily way of life. It influences how I see the world, how I react to situations, and how I interact with others. Knowing that God always has my back gives me peace and confidence every morning I wake up.

My Personal Reflection

For me, carrying my faith in God is like carrying a precious treasure; it sustains me, renews me, and keeps me grounded. It’s the one thing I know I can rely on no matter what life throws my way. And in holding onto that belief, I find the strength to face each day with hope and gratitude.

So for me

The most important thing I carry with me is my faith—my unwavering trust in God’s love and presence. It’s perhaps the greatest gift I have, guiding me through life’s journey and constantly reminding me that I am never truly alone.

I’ve experienced many moments when God’s presence was my solace and strength. When I was a battered wife in my first marriage, I felt His comfort and protection. When I was grieving the loss of my parents, God was right there with me, offering peace in my sorrow. When I suffered second-degree burns after a doctor gave me the wrong medication and I almost died, I knew God was with me, holding me through the pain. Even in a frightening moment in high school, when a group of jocks attacked me, God was with me—protected and ultimately rescuing me through a friend who drove by and saw what was happening.

God has been with me in every joyful milestone: the birth of my daughter and granddaughter, my marriage to my second husband, family holidays past and present and countless moments filled with laughter and love.

With God, you are NEVER alone. Your family and friends may love you, and they may say they are there for you, but sometimes life’s frustrations, misunderstandings, illness, or silent moments make you feel isolated. During those times, I turn to God. His presence reminds me that even when I feel all alone, I am never truly without His love.

No matter what life throws your way, hold onto your faith — it’s your strongest refuge and your greatest source of peace. Remember, with God by your side, you are never alone.

“I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” — Philippians 4:13

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What Truly Makes a Good Marriage

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A good marriage isn’t about finding a perfect partner—because no one is perfect. It’s about two imperfect people committed to each other, refusing to give up on each other through sickness, health, wealth, poverty, or any challenge that life throws their way. They don’t allow abuse of any kind especially physical in a relationship. They respect each other.

That’s holiness; that’s sanctity—choosing to love and communicate even in the hardest times, and standing firm together in faith.

When you step into an engagement or marriage, you are doing so before God Himself, declaring that this person is above all others, even above your career or worldly pursuits. But for a marriage to last, God must be the center. Without Him, the union will struggle to survive; with Him, it can thrive. You go to church together.

You cannot disrespect, cheat, or mistreat your fiancé or spouse and expect everlasting love. Forgiveness is essential, but repeated mistakes—especially in areas of addiction, abuse, or disloyalty—are signs that you may be unequally yoked. If your partner struggles with gambling, drinking, drugs, or unhealthy behaviors, and they aren’t seeking change, it’s wise to pause before making lifelong commitments.

If you’re a believer, dating someone who does not share your Christian values or belief in Christ , it may lead to difficulties in your marriage. Unequally yoked couples often face serious challenges because their foundational principles are different.They don’t share the same reverence for God, they may think they are above God. But many things in their life may happen to them that is their wake up call and they refuse to see the signs.

Scriptures to Guide Your Heart:

  • 2 Corinthians 6:14
    “Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?”
  • Ephesians 5:25
    “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.”

Marriage is a lifelong journey built on Christ’s love, mutual respect, honesty, and faithfulness. Choose wisely, keep God at the center, and remember, true holiness is in loving each other as Christ loves us.

So if you have someone you don’t want to lose treat the right.

If the person you are it his not who you want to be linked to for a lifetime commitment look at the relationship before you marry.

God does not want you abused. If you are get help if you have addiction, abuse or narcissistic behaviors get help now.

A Prayer for All Married and Engaged Couples

Heavenly Father, we come before You today with humble hearts, lifting up all those who are married. I pray that You fill their hearts with Your love—so deep, so enduring—that they continue to love each other selflessly, putting You first in their relationship. May they cherish one another above all else, respecting, forgiving, and supporting each other through every challenge and blessing.

For those who are in marriages where they feel unequally yoked, Lord, I ask for Your healing and guidance. Break any chains of misunderstanding, resentment, or conflict. Restore their unity and help them to see Your plan for their marriage. Heal wounds, soften hardened hearts, and draw them into Your love.

For those engaged or contemplating marriage with someone who does not share their faith or values, I pray for Your divine insight. Open their eyes to see clearly, Lord—whether this relationship is aligned with Your will or if they need to wait and trust in Your perfect timing.

Lord, Your Word says in Proverbs 3:5-6, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.” We trust You to lead every couple on the path of righteousness and peace.

We ask all this in the mighty name of Jesus. Amen.

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Responding to Hardship: Trusting God’s Faithfulness in Every Season

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Life is filled with moments of joy and blessing, but it also brings hardships that test our faith and patience. When trials come—whether through health issues, loss, or unexpected struggles—our natural instinct may be to seek escape or relief. However, as followers of Christ, we are called to respond differently—anchored in hope, trust, and perseverance.

First, trust in God’s unfailing love.
The Bible reminds us repeatedly to trust in God’s faithfulness. Proverbs 3:5-6 encourages us: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” When we face difficulty, holding onto God’s promises and reflecting on His past faithfulness provides comfort and strength. Remember, our Heavenly Father has been faithful in every season of our lives—His Word is a firm foundation that sustains us in times of trouble.

Second, persevere with hope and prayer.
Perseverance is vital on the Christian journey. Even if the burden feels overwhelming, Scripture urges us not to give up. Galatians 6:9 encourages us: “Let us not grow weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.” During hardship, continue to seek God in prayer and immerse yourself in His Word. Praise Him not just in the good times, but also through the storm, trusting that He works all things together for good (Romans 8:28).

Third, rest in God’s sovereignty.
Our loving Heavenly Father is in control, even when circumstances seem chaotic. Romans 8:28 assures us that “God works for the good of those who love him.” He allows trials for purposes that often surpass our understanding—refining our faith, building character, and drawing us closer to Him. Just as gold is refined through fire (1 Peter 1:7), our faith is purified and strengthened through trials. Remember, God’s power is made perfect in our weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9), and He promises to be with us always (Matthew 28:20).

A Hope-Filled Response

When hardship strikes, let us remember: we are not alone. We serve a compassionate God who understands our pain and is actively working for our good. He gently invites us to trust Him, persevere in hope, and rest in His sovereign plan.

By responding with faith and kindness, we reflect Christ’s love and witness His transforming power to those around us. Through every trial, let us cling to Jesus—our Rock, Redeemer, and Sustainer—knowing that in Him, all things are possible.

“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” —Psalm 34:18

May we lean into His grace and find peace in His presence, trusting that every hardship is an opportunity for growth and a reminder of His unwavering love.

Dear Heavenly Father,
Thank You for Your unfailing love and presence in our lives. In times of hardship, help us to trust You, persevere in hope, and rest in Your sovereignty. Strengthen us to face each trial with faith, knowing You are working all things for good.

Fill our hearts with peace and remind us of Your comfort and grace. We put our trust in You, Lord, confident that You are always with us.

In Jesus’ name, we pray.
Amen.

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The Gift of Friendship: A Reflection on Love, Relationships, and God’s Blessing

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Growing up, I learned that loving people and valuing relationships was written deep on the tablet of my heart. My parents modeled this for me in their own special ways. My mom always had a circle of friends—that she treasured, and she had many people she was an acquaintance with who also loved her.

My dad, seemed to make a new friend every day! Though different in personality, both of my parents cherished their friendships and nurtured them with care and loyalty.

My father was Croatian, and my mother from what I’ve uncovered through Ancestry, has Switzerland/German and Irish roots. Interestingly, I found I have more Croatian DNA than Irish or German, which I think speaks to the strong, vibrant spirit of my father’s side of the family.

Croatian women, like my relatives, weren’t afraid to speak their minds and were loud and boisterous—making friends came naturally, me included! The men, although more quiet, were kind and well-loved by everyone. They were good souls eager to help anyone in need. They had many acquaintances and many friends and even if they didn’t know you, they would help you..

On my mother’s side, the story was a bit different. Her friends from childhood, her close family—her sisters and grandmother—they shared a bond that lasted a lifetime. The only time they were loud was when they all gathered together, sharing laughter that filled the room with warmth. They got along as adults, laughing freely, and that joy always stuck with me. You would end up laughing so hard just from hearing them laugh even though you had no idea what they said. It was so funny..

From both sides, I saw in them long-term friendships that stood the test of time. These relationships weren’t fleeting—they were built on loyalty, kindness, and love. That’s what touched my heart most.

Friendship is a gift from God that brings blessings that last a lifetime.

I can’t remember where I read it, but it said in my mind “True friendship is one of the sweetest things in life. Friends are chosen family; they cheer us on through discouraging seasons, celebrate with us in joy, and lift us up when life gets tough. The happiest moments are brighter because of those close to us.”

Throughout Scripture, we see how important relationships are. Proverbs speaks directly to the wisdom of choosing good friends and the dangers of bad company. The New Testament encourages us to pray for one another, to carry each other’s burdens, and to treat others as we want to be treated—these are the qualities of true friendship.

Over the past few months, I have truly come to realize how powerful and precious this gift of friendship is.

Good friends don’t disappoint; they don’t leave us empty-handed. They offer comfort, encouragement, and companionship—sometimes in big ways, sometimes in small. They stand with us in trials, rejoice in our victories, and show us unconditional love. They know who we are—past, present, and future—and love us still.

I am so grateful for the friends in my life. Some I’ve known for over 50 years. It’s astonishing to think that after all this time, when we reconnect, it feels like just yesterdayno judgment, lots of laughs and true concern for each other.

True friendship isn’t about seeing each other every week; it’s about the heart connection—being there when it matters most.

And I believe that this heart connection is one of God’s greatest blessings. Family can sometimes be influenced by their own struggles or biases, but friends often understand us in a way family cannot. They love us for who we are, not what they want us to be.

I am blessed beyond words, and I pray you are, too. May you cherish the friendships that bless your life, and may you always remember that true friendship is a divine gift—one that reflects God’s love and faithfulness.

Let us give thanks to God for placing special friends in our lives and for the eternal friendship We have in Him.