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How to Love Your Mother

Posted on by ChronicallyGratefulDeb

Do you love your mother?

Does she know you love her?

How does she know?

Have you told her?

Have you ever hurt her feelings? Have you ever apologized?

If someone asked you to describe your mother, how would you describe her?

Do you really know your mother, or do you simply go by what you think you know?

If someone asks, “Why do you love your mother?” and your answer is, “Because she’s my mother,” that’s not really an answer.

Many people say they love their mothers, but they have never stopped to think about what that love actually looks like.

How you love your mother says a great deal about the kind of person you are.

No matter how good—or how imperfect—you believe your mother was, she gave you life.

Because of her, you are here.

Because of her, you have the children, grandchildren, and relationships that have brought joy into your life.

Many people will do whatever is necessary to care for their mothers. Others take their mothers for granted until it is too late.

Then they live with painful words:

“If only I would have…”

“I should have…”

“I wish I had one more chance, one more day.”

The truth is that how you treat your mother often reflects your character.

What you sow is often what you reap.

One day, many of us will find ourselves in the same position our parents once were—older, needing help, hoping our children will remember the love and sacrifices we made.

Jesus gave us a beautiful example.

In John 19:26-27, while hanging on the cross in unimaginable pain, Jesus looked down at His mother and made sure she would be cared for.

Even in His dying moments, He was concerned about Mary.

Can you imagine what she was feeling?

Perhaps she remembered holding Him as a baby.

Teaching Him as a child.

Watching Him grow into the man He would become.

Yet while carrying the weight of the world’s sin, Jesus still showed compassion and concern for His mother.

What an example for us all.

So how do we love our mothers?

Love Her Verbally

Tell your mother you love her.

Not just on Mother’s Day.

Not just on holidays.

Tell her often.

Say, “I love you, Mom.”

Then tell her why.

Words matter.

Words heal.

Words encourage.

Never assume she knows.

Love Her Physically

Hug your mother.

Some people struggle to show affection.

But mothers need affection too.

She carried you for nine months.

She held you the moment you entered this world.

She comforted you when you were sick, afraid, or hurting.

Don’t just say hello.

Hug her.

Hold her hand.

Let her feel your love.

Love Her Patiently

Mothers are not perfect.

They make mistakes.

They say things we don’t always agree with.

They have flaws just like everyone else.

That is not a reason to avoid them or withhold your love.

Patience is one of the greatest gifts you can give another person.

Love Her Gratefully

Be grateful.

Your mother gave you life.

No mother is perfect because no person is perfect.

Yet gratitude recognizes the sacrifices she made, the worries she carried, and the love she gave.

A grateful heart sees blessings where others only see shortcomings.

Love Her Generously

Not just at Christmas.

Not just on Mother’s Day.

Take her out for coffee and conversation

Be There for Her all year long if you live fairly close by.

Listen to your mother. Not taking orders but listen when she falls.

I’m not talking about spending a lot of money.

If she is sick, take her to the doctor.

If she is struggling financially and you can help, help her.Pay a bill and surprise her.

If you truly love your mother, you will listen for what she wants and what she needs.

Most mothers will never ask.

Most mothers do not want to be a burden.

So keep your ears open.

Look around.

Pay attention.

Notice what she doesn’t have.

Notice what would make her life easier.

It doesn’t take much to make a mother happy. A new coffee mug, a warm hug, a phone call…….

Most mothers don’t want a new fishing rod, boat, a new car

Most mothers don’t want extravagant gifts. Because they know most people cannot afford that.

They want to be loved.

They want to be appreciated.

They want to know they matter.

Love Her Tenderly

Speak to your mother with tenderness.

Listen when she talks.

Even if you have heard the story ten times before, listen as though it were the first time.

Be sensitive to her feelings.

Encourage her often.

Tell her she matters.

Tell her she is loved.

Tell her she made a difference in your life.

As parents age, they often wonder whether anyone still notices them.

Make sure your mother never has to wonder.

Love Her Forgivingly

Many people blame their mothers for this or that.

Maybe there were hurts.

Maybe there were mistakes.

Maybe there were wounds.

But write this down:

There is never an excuse for refusing to forgive your mother.

Paul teaches us to forgive others just as Christ forgave us.

How many times has your mother forgiven you?

How many mistakes did she overlook?

How many times did she give you another chance?

We all grew up differently.

Some mothers had very little education but possessed tremendous wisdom.

Some could barely read.

Some were abused.

Some struggled with addiction.

Some worked long hours.

Some raised children alone.

Some carried burdens their children never knew about.

No matter what your mother’s life looked like, she loved you.

She did the best she could with what she knew and what she had at the time.

If your mother has passed away, honor her memory.

If she is still here, call her.

Visit her.

Tell her you love her while you still can.

Never be too prideful to forgive.

Someday you may need forgiveness too.

Love Her Devotedly

Do not bad-mouth your mother.

Defend her.

Protect her.

Support her.

Stand beside her.

Be loyal to her.

When others speak negatively about her, stand up for her.

A devoted son or daughter remains present even when life becomes busy.

Love Her Cheerfully

Your mother wants to hear about your life.

Tell her about your day.

Share your victories.

Share your joys.

Make her laugh.

Create memories.

Focus on bringing happiness into her life.

If your mother has passed away, remember her laughter.

Remember her stories.

Remember the good times.

Talk about those memories.

That is a gift that honors her.

Love Her Honorably

Ephesians 6:2-3 tells us:

“Honor your father and mother”—which is the first commandment with a promise—“so that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth.”

Be a godly son.

Be a godly daughter.

Live in a way that honors your mother.

One way we dishonor our parents is by living recklessly, ignoring their wisdom, treating them disrespectfully, or wasting the life God has given us.

Every day should be Mother’s Day.

Not because of gifts.

But because of love.

Honor.

Respect.

And if you are a husband, love your wife well.

Treat her with kindness and respect.

Your children are watching.

They are learning from your example.

They see how you speak to her.

They see how you treat her.

You are teaching them how mothers should be loved.

Never be too prideful.

Because one day you may hurt your own children.

Wouldn’t you want forgiveness?

That is what Jesus expects from us.

After all, He continually forgives us.

So if your mother is still here, tell her you love her.

Call her.

Visit her.

Hug her.

Thank her.

And if she is gone, honor her memory and thank God for the time you had.

Because one day, all that will remain are the memories, the lessons, and the love.

How to Love Your Mom

• Verbally
• Physically
• Patiently
• Gratefully
• Generously
• Tenderly
• Forgivingly
• Devotedly
• Cheerfully
• Honorably

Posted in Prayer

National Day of Prayer — Maybe We Should Make It a Daily Subscription

Posted on by ChronicallyGratefulDeb

Today is the National Day of Prayer, and honestly… maybe every day should be one.

Because let’s face it — life has a way of humbling us pretty quickly. One minute you’re feeling organized and productive, and the next minute you’re standing in the grocery store wondering why you walked into aisle seven in the first place. Or you’re praying your car makes it another six months without a mysterious dashboard light coming on. Again.

Prayer has a funny way of grounding us.

Some people picture prayer as needing perfect words, folded hands, or long speeches. But sometimes prayer is simply:
“Lord, help me.”
“Thank You.”
“I’m trying.”
“Please give me patience before I lose my mind in traffic.”

And if we’re being honest, some of our most sincere prayers happen in waiting rooms, at 2 a.m., during difficult phone calls, while paying bills, or sitting quietly after life knocks the wind out of us a little.

The beautiful thing is that God never asked us to come to Him perfectly polished. He just asks us to come.

Today is special because millions of people across the country are stopping to pray — for their families, their health, their communities, this nation, and the people they love. In a world that often feels loud, divided, rushed, and exhausted, prayer reminds us we are not carrying everything alone.

And maybe that’s the biggest comfort of all.

Prayer won’t always instantly remove every hardship, but it can give peace in the middle of chaos, strength when you feel weak, and hope when life feels uncertain.

So today, take a few moments.

Our Country and our World and the people running it.


Pray for your family.
Pray for the hurting. Pray for the abused. Pray for the grieving

Pray for the homeless
Pray for the lonely.
Pray for healing.
Pray for wisdom.
Pray for yourself too — yes, that matters.

And remember:
God already knows your heart, even when you can’t find the words.

Happy National Day of Prayer.
May your day be filled with peace, comfort, strength, and many reminders that you are deeply loved.

— Deb Andio
www.joyful-echoes.com

www.joint-purpose.com

Heavenly Father,

Today on this National Day of Prayer, we come before You with grateful hearts. Thank You for the gift of another day, for the breath in our lungs, and for the blessings we often overlook in the busyness of life.

Lord, we lift up our leaders to You — local leaders, state leaders, and national leaders. Grant them wisdom, integrity, compassion, and discernment. Help them make decisions that protect, strengthen, and unite people rather than divide them. Guide their hearts toward peace, fairness, and truth.

We pray for our families today. Protect our homes, our marriages, our children, grandchildren,our parents, grandparents, aunts,uncles and cousins friends, and loved ones.

Bring comfort where there is hurt, healing where there is sickness, and restoration where there is brokenness. Help us show more patience, kindness, forgiveness, and love toward one another.

Father, we especially pray for anyone who is suffering right now — those battling illness, chronic pain, grief, depression, loneliness, abuse, fear, financial hardship, those who work and never seem to get ahead, those with addiction, or those living with any uncertainty. Remind them they are not forgotten and never alone. Wrap Your arms around them and give them strength for each new day.

We pray for our military, first responders, healthcare workers, caregivers, and all those carrying heavy burdens while helping others. Bless and protect them.

And Lord, in a world filled with noise, anger, and chaos, help us remember that kindness still matters, compassion still matters, and faith still matters. And forgiveness goes a long way.

May we lean on You not only today, but every day.

In Jesus’ name we pray,
Amen.

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God Is The Same -Maybe it’s Us…..

Posted on by ChronicallyGratefulDeb

God Is an Awesome God… All the Time

God is an awesome God—all the time.

Sometimes life knocks the wind out of us.

We face illness, grief, broken relationships, financial struggles, job loss, or unexpected moves. In those moments, it can be easy to let fear take over. We may stop praying. We may stop reading God’s Word. We may begin to wonder if God has forgotten us.

But the truth is this:

God is still the same awesome God He has always been.

People often ask, “If God is so awesome, why does He allow sickness, suffering, and loss?”

My honest answer is simple: I don’t know.

What I do know is that God is an awesome God—loving, faithful, and always present. He invites us to lean on Him, trust Him, and believe that He is working even when we cannot understand what is happening.

God is not a genie who waves a magic wand and makes life perfect.

We are only seeing one small piece of a much larger puzzle.

We question the broken pieces because we cannot see the full picture.

But God sees the finished masterpiece.

And He knows exactly what He is doing.

Remember this:

  • A yes from God blesses you.
  • A no from God protects you.
  • A wait from God prepares you.

Waiting is never easy, but God is using that season to strengthen your faith and prepare you for what He already knows is coming.

So if you are walking through a difficult season, keep trusting.

Keep praying.

Keep reading His Word.

Keep believing.

Because God is an awesome God—all the time.

And even when life doesn’t make sense, God is still an awesome God.

“God’s gift to me is today; my gift to Him is how I live it.”

Deb Andio

💙 www.joyful-echoes.com

Posted in Prayer

Say This Every Day: A Prayer of Presence

Posted on by ChronicallyGratefulDeb

Some days feel heavy before they even begin. Your body aches, your mind races, and the world feels louder than your peace. In those moments, we don’t always need a long prayer—we need something simple, steady, and powerful.

God before me, God behind me,
God above me, God below me,
God to my left, God to my right,
God flows through me all my life.

These words are a reminder that you are never walking alone—not in the pain, not in the uncertainty, not even in the quiet moments no one else sees.

God before you means He’s already in your tomorrow.
God behind you means He’s covered your back and your past.
God above you reminds you who’s in control.
God below you means you are held up when you feel like falling.
God to your left and right means you are surrounded.

And most powerful of all—God flows through you. In your strength, your kindness, and your resilience.

You are not alone.
You are not forgotten.
You are not without strength.

Say it in the morning.
Say it in the hard moments.
Say it at night.

Let it become your peace.

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How do you use social media?

Posted on by ChronicallyGratefulDeb

How do you use social media?

How do I use social media?

Honestly… it started the same way it does for most people—keeping up with family, old friends, seeing who’s doing what, who moved, who aged, who still looks the same (we all know those people 😂).

But somewhere along the way… it got real.

Now I use it to talk about things most people don’t see.

Living with osteonecrosis, osteoarthritis, spondylolisthesis, and chronic pain isn’t just “oh my knee hurts today.”
It’s daily. It’s constant. It changes how you walk, sit, sleep, plan your day… and sometimes whether you even have a plan.

Some days I’m doing good.
Some days I’m negotiating with my own body like, “listen… we just need to get through the grocery store, that’s it.”

And if you’ve never had to hype yourself up just to go run a basic errand… count your blessings.

But here’s the thing I care about sharing:

Life doesn’t end because it changes.

You learn to adjust.
You learn what your body will allow… and what it won’t.
You learn patience real quick (whether you wanted to or not).

I use social media to advocate—because there should be better options, better understanding, and way more awareness than there is right now.

I use it to push people to speak up, advocate for themselves, and yes—call the people in charge when things need to change.

And I use it to share my faith… because I’ll be honest, I would not have made it through the pain, the stress, the grief, the financial struggles—without God. Not even close.

So if my page feels like a mix of real life, truth, encouragement, and a little humor in between…

That’s because it is.

This isn’t a highlight reel.
It’s life… just told honestly.

And if you’re going through something—anything—you’re not alone in it.

So yeah… that’s how I use social media.

What about you?

And let’s be real for a minute…

We also need downtime. Time to unplug, disconnect, and step away from the highlight reels. Because if you stay on here too long, you’ll start thinking everyone is getting rich overnight, aging backwards, and living an stress-free, perfectly filtered life, but you ……

Meanwhile, in real life… we’re reheating coffee for the third time and trying to remember why we walked into the kitchen.

Social media can be a great tool—but it can also mess with your head if you’re not careful.

And let’s talk about AI for a second… it can be used for a lot of good (clearly 😄), but let’s not pretend people aren’t already using it to twist stories, spread nonsense, or flat-out make things up.

So no… not everything you see or hear is real. Not even close.

At the end of the day, it still comes down to using these tools wisely, taking breaks when you need to, and remembering that real life—the messy, unfiltered, imperfect kind—is actually where the good stuff is.

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A Place to Be Still with God

Posted on by ChronicallyGratefulDeb

A Place to Be Still with God

In a world that is constantly moving and filled with noise, we all need a place to be still. A place to pray, to reflect, and to meditate on God’s Word.

This place does not have to be a church. It can be a quiet corner in your home, your car before the day begins, or even a peaceful spot outside. What matters is not where you are, but that you are intentionally taking time to be one with God.

There is something powerful about having a private, holy, and quiet place. A place where distractions are removed, where your heart is open, and where you can speak freely with the Lord. In that stillness, you begin to hear Him more clearly and feel His presence more deeply.

Ephesians 6:10–18 reminds us to put on the full armor of God:

The belt of truth

The breastplate of righteousness

The gospel of peace

The shield of faith

The helmet of salvation

The sword of the Spirit, which is the Word of God

And prayer in the Spirit on all occasions

We cannot fully prepare ourselves spiritually without spending time with God. Putting on the armor of God requires quiet, intentional time in His presence.

Your private place becomes holy not because of where it is, but because of what happens there. It becomes sacred when you kneel, when you surrender, and when you seek Him with your whole heart.

Whatever you accomplish in life begins on your knees, in prayer. Strength is built in prayer. Direction is found in surrender. When we do as God asks, He leads us into greater things than we could ever imagine.

You do not have to be inside a church to be close to God. You are being one with Him wherever you are.

So find your place. Be still. Be quiet. Be with Him.

And watch what God will do.

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Easter Sunday: More Than Eggs and Candy

Posted on by ChronicallyGratefulDeb

Easter Sunday is often filled with bright baskets, colorful eggs, and sweet treats. Children laugh as they search for hidden treasures, and families gather to celebrate. While these traditions bring joy, they are not the true meaning of Easter.

Easter is the most important day for Christians. It is the day we remember that Jesus Christ rose from the dead—defeating sin and death, and giving us the gift of eternal life. Without Easter, there would be no foundation to our faith. This is the day that changed everything.

As it says in 1 Corinthians 15:17:

“And if Christ has not been raised, your faith is futile; you are still in your sins.”

But He did rise—and because He lives, we have hope.

On Easter Sunday, many will attend church. Some will come dressed in their Sunday best, while others will come in the best they have. And that’s okay. What matters most is showing up with a heart ready to receive.

I do believe we should present ourselves respectfully. It doesn’t mean expensive clothing—it can be simple. A nice pair of jeans, a clean shirt or blouse is perfectly fine. But we should remember where we are going. Church is a place of reverence.

We should avoid clothing that is too revealing—short shorts, low-cut tops, or shirts with distracting wording. Not out of judgment, but out of respect. Ask yourself: Is this how I would dress if I were meeting God face to face?

Because in a very real sense… we are.

At the same time, not everyone will sit in a church pew. Some will watch a service online, listen on the radio, or spend quiet time in prayer at home. That is okay too. God meets us where we are.

As Jesus said in Matthew 18:20:

“For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them.”

Easter is not about perfection—it’s about redemption.

It’s about the cross… and the empty tomb.

It’s about love so deep that Jesus willingly gave His life for us.

As written in John 3:16:

“For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life.”

This is the heart of Easter.

So yes—let the children hunt for eggs. Let families share meals and laughter. But let us not forget the true reason we celebrate.

Jesus is alive.

And because He lives, we are given grace, forgiveness, and a new beginning.

This Easter, come as you are—but come with a heart that honors Him.

Sunday: More Than Eggs and Candy

Easter Sunday is often filled with bright baskets, colorful eggs, and sweet treats. Children laugh as they search for hidden treasures, and families gather to celebrate. While these traditions bring joy, they are not the true meaning of Easter.

Easter is the most important day for Christians. It is the day we remember that Jesus Christ rose from the dead—defeating sin and death, and giving us the gift of eternal life. Without Easter, there would be no foundation to our faith. This is the day that changed everything.

As it says in 1 Corinthians 15:17:

“And if Christ has not been raised, your faith is futile; you are still in your sins.”

But He did rise—and because He lives, we have hope.

On Easter Sunday, many will attend church. Some will come dressed in their Sunday best, while others will come in the best they have. And that’s okay. What matters most is showing up with a heart ready to receive.

I do believe we should present ourselves respectfully. It doesn’t mean expensive clothing—it can be simple. A nice pair of jeans, a clean shirt or blouse is perfectly fine. But we should remember where we are going. Church is a place of reverence.

We should avoid clothing that is too revealing—short shorts, low-cut tops, or shirts with distracting wording. Not out of judgment, but out of respect. Ask yourself: Is this how I would dress if I were meeting God face to face?

Because in a very real sense… we are.

At the same time, not everyone will sit in a church pew. Some will watch a service online, listen on the radio, or spend quiet time in prayer at home. That is okay too. God meets us where we are.

As Jesus said in Matthew 18:20:

“For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them.”

Easter is not about perfection—it’s about redemption.

It’s about the cross… and the empty tomb.

It’s about love so deep that Jesus willingly gave His life for us.

As written in John 3:16:

“For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life.”

This is the heart of Easter.

So yes—let the children hunt for eggs. Let families share meals and laughter. But let us not forget the true reason we celebrate.

Jesus is alive.

And because He lives, we are given grace, forgiveness, and a new beginning.

This Easter, come as you are—but come with a heart that honors Him.

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Today is a sacred pause

Posted on by ChronicallyGratefulDeb

Today is a sacred pause… a moment to step away from the noise of the world and truly reflect on what Jesus did for you—for all of us.

Good Friday is not just a day of sorrow, though it carries deep sorrow. It is a day of unfathomable love. A love so powerful that Jesus willingly endured suffering, humiliation, and death on the cross so that we could have life… eternal life.

He took on what we deserved—every sin, every failure, every broken moment—and bore it with grace.

“But God demonstrates His own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”

— Romans 5:8

Think about that for a second…

Not when we had it all together.

Not when we were perfect.

But while we were still sinners—He chose the cross.

🌿 What Good Friday Means

Good Friday reminds us that:

We are deeply loved We are forgiven We are never alone in our suffering

Jesus understands pain. He understands betrayal. He understands sorrow. And through it all, He chose obedience and love.

“He himself bore our sins in his body on the tree, that we might die to sin and live to righteousness. By his wounds you have been healed.”

— 1 Peter 2:24

❤️ A Moment to Reflect

Take time today—just a few quiet minutes—to think about His sacrifice.

What does it mean to you personally?

Where have you seen His grace in your life?

What burdens can you lay at the foot of the cross today?

“Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.”

— Luke 23:34

Even in His final moments… He chose forgiveness.

🙏 A Simple Prayer

Lord Jesus,

Thank You for the cross.

Thank You for loving me even when I fall short.

Help me to never take Your sacrifice for granted.

Teach me to walk in Your grace,

to love as You loved,

and to live a life that honors You.

Amen.

Today may feel heavy… but remember, Sunday is coming. ✨

The story doesn’t end at the cross—it leads to victory.

Take this day gently. Reflect. Be still.

And let your heart rest in His love. 💛

Posted in Palm Sunday

Palm Sunday: A Call to Draw Closer to God

Posted on by ChronicallyGratefulDeb

Today is Palm Sunday already! Today is a powerful reminder of the day Jesus entered Jerusalem, welcomed by crowds who waved palm branches and shouted, “Hosanna! Blessed is He who comes in the name of the Lord!” (John 12:13). It was a moment filled with praise, hope, and expectation.

Yet, what makes Palm Sunday so meaningful is not just the celebration—but what follows. The same voices that cried out in worship would, days later, fall silent or even turn away. It’s a sobering reminder of how easy it is to be close to God in moments of joy, but distant when life becomes difficult or uncertain.

Palm Sunday invites us to examine our own hearts.

Are we walking closely with God daily—or only when it’s convenient?

Why Reading Your Bible Matters

God’s Word is not just a book—it is life, truth, and guidance. When we read the Bible, we learn who God is, how deeply He loves us, and how we are called to live. Without it, we are more easily influenced by the world—its noise, its fears, and its distractions.

A closer walk with God doesn’t happen by accident. It comes through intentional time with Him—through prayer, through reading His Word, and through seeking Him daily.

Even a few minutes a day can begin to transform your heart and mind.

God Wants a Relationship With You

No matter what you’ve done.

No matter where you’ve been.

No matter how far you feel.

God loves you.

He is not waiting for you to be perfect—He is waiting for you to come to Him. Palm Sunday is a reminder that Jesus came humbly, willingly, and lovingly… for you.

He sees you.

He knows your struggles.

And He desires a real, personal relationship with you.

Take a Step Today

Let today be more than just a date on the calendar. Let it be a turning point.

Open your Bible.

Say a simple prayer.

Talk to God like you would a friend.

Because that’s what He truly wants—a relationship, not just religion.

Hosanna—Lord, save us. And thank You… for loving us first.

Posted in Life

What strategies do you use to cope with negative feelings?

Posted on by ChronicallyGratefulDeb

What strategies do you use to cope with negative feelings?

What strategies do you use to cope with negative feelings?

I used to turn to food when I felt stressed or overwhelmed. It wasn’t the healthiest way to cope, and I realized it was only a temporary comfort. I’m not perfect and sometimes I still slip into old habits, but I’m working on changing them one step at a time.

Sometimes life brings moments when negative feelings try to take over. Loneliness, chronic pain, grief,estranged family, and missing people we love can weigh heavily on the heart. These emotions can play tricks on the mind. One feeling can lead to another, and before you know it, months—even years can pass and you feel stuck in an emotional sinkhole that feels like it’s filling with quicksand. The harder you try to get out, the more it seems to pull you in.

To me, this can also be a spiritual battle.

There have been times in my life when I have felt stuck, or when these feelings come in waves. I noticed this all started when I was abused in my 1st marriage, it was a way to cope to control over something.

On those days, now I remind myself to slow down, breathe, and take care of myself—especially my mind and heart. A broken heart, a lonely heart, a grieving heart, or a life that seems to have more downs than ups can be exhausting.

One strategy that has always helped me is spending time in nature. When I was able to, I would take quiet walks by the beach. The sound of the waves, the fresh ocean breeze, and the peaceful view of the water helped clear my thoughts and calm my spirit. Nature has a way of reminding me that storms pass and peace eventually returns.

For the past seven months, however, I was unable to do that. Because I was in a walking boot, limited weight bearing; I couldn’t go for walks—no beach, no outings, nothing. During that time I had to stay indoors, so I turned to other things that helped. And yes sometimes I resorted from boredom to food. I also gained 15 lbs.

It was time to steer clear of the ship in a different direction.

Music became very important. Good music relaxes my mind, lifts my mood, and helps me process my emotions in a healthy way. I also listen to Christian talk radio, which is very uplifting.

Writing is great. It helps to get your negative emotions out, and work through things.

Back home in Ohio, another thing that helped was surrounding myself with the right people. Choosing positive company matters. I tried to surround myself with people who bring encouragement, understanding, and kindness—those who uplift rather than add more burdens.

Here in Florida, it has been very lonely at times. So lonely that sometimes you wonder why you even moved here. It certainly hasn’t been the close family experience we were told it would be. Some parts are fun, but if I’m honest, my husband and I sometimes feel more lonely now than before.

After seven months in a walking boot, I am still limited in what I can do, but thankfully I am now allowed short walks in the neighborhood.

Even these small walks help. The fresh air calms my mind and gives me space to think clearly. It reminds me that difficult seasons are part of life, but they do not last forever.

Another strategy I always turn to is prayer and quiet reflection. Talking to God helps me release the heavy emotions I’m carrying. It gives me peace and renewed hope that tomorrow will be better.

Finally, I try to focus on doing something positive—helping someone else or completing a small task I enjoy. Shifting my attention from the problem to something meaningful helps restore my strength.

Coping with negative feelings is not about ignoring them. It’s about facing them with patience, faith, and positive action. Through quiet reflection, music, nature, prayer, and supportive people, I eventually find balance again.

Negative feelings may come, but with the right mindset and environment, they don’t have to stay.