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What is the greatest gift someone could give you?

What is the greatest gift someone could give you?

The Liberating Gift of Forgiveness: A Journey to Freedom

In the intricate dance of self-discovery, forgiveness emerges as a crucial player. It involves a conversation with oneself, a release of pent-up emotions—anger, shame, bitterness—that serves as the ultimate gift we can bestow upon our own well-being. By focusing on self-love, forgiveness becomes a vehicle for healing past wounds and traumas.

Forgiveness is a profound gift that extends not only to others but, most importantly, to oneself. It is a transformative act that opens the door to freedom, unlocking the potential for inner peace and personal growth.

Choosing forgiveness is a reclamation of personal power, a deliberate step toward breaking free from the grip that offenses and offenders may have on us. It transcends the victim mentality, allowing us to rewrite our stories and reframe our narratives with a sense of empowerment.

At the core of healing lies the essence of forgiveness. It is the act of letting go, freeing ourselves from the shackles of past pain and suffering. Even when the other party seems undeserving, forgiveness becomes a tool for self-liberation. It is not about condoning the past but liberating oneself from its bondage.

True forgiveness reaches a point of equilibrium, recognizing the perfect balance in everything. As gratitude becomes the predominant emotion, forgiveness washes away past judgments and attachments, paving the way for inner peace. In the words of Eckhart Tolle, forgiveness is the recognition of the insubstantiality of the past, allowing a miracle of transformation within and without.

A prayer for forgiveness becomes a powerful acknowledgment of self-awareness, seeking absolution from misperceptions and cleansing the mind. It is a conduit for connecting with a power beyond the egoic self.

In conclusion, forgiveness is the key to healing, a journey of letting go, saying thank you, and reverting to the positive feelings one had before the need for forgiveness arose. It is the reflection of oneself in others, a manifestation of spiritual intelligence, and the embracing of love with child-like joy. Peace of mind is the ultimate reward, and through forgiveness, love flows freely, unblocking the barriers that may have existed before. In a world that often demands forgiveness, embracing this act often is not just a choice; it becomes a necessity for personal well-being and a contribution to a more compassionate world.

A Prayer for Forgiveness:

“For the errors I have made, I humbly seek forgiveness. May my Higher Awareness absolve my misperceptions, and may the cleansing power of Presence and forgiveness wash away any lingering shadows from my limited mind-perception. I acknowledge my limitations and call upon a power mightier than myself to guide me through this journey of self-forgiveness. Please forgive any mind-made-Karma, and cleanse my awareness through Your transformative presence.

Now, as I turn my gaze outward, I extend a prayer for those who have caused harm. Grant me the strength to forgive them, recognizing that forgiveness is a gift I give to myself. May they find the clarity to see beyond their actions and discover a path of healing. In the spirit of compassion, I release any resentment and judgment that may bind me to the past.

May the light of forgiveness illuminate our hearts, bringing peace to both the forgiven and the forgiver. In this act of grace, may we all find freedom from the burdens of our own mistakes and the wounds inflicted by others. Amen.”

Posted in Faith, Grateful, Storytelling

Letting Go: A Parable of Faith and Divine Peace

In the stillness of a night, a man found himself suspended between life and potential doom. As he clung to a concrete ledge, desperately crying for help amidst the clamor of construction, his pleas went unheard. Exhausted and fearing the worst, he finally relinquished his grip, only to discover a ledge mere inches below—a place of unexpected peace.

This parable mirrors the struggles many face, holding onto life’s uncertainties with fearful tenacity. How often do we live on the edge, gripped by anxiety and reluctance to let go? The tale invites introspection, urging us to release our fears and embrace the peace that lies just a step away.

Embedded within this narrative is a profound truth—one that transcends the story itself. The Bible teaches us in Philippians 4:6-7 (NIV): “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”

As we consider the man’s struggle and the six-inch fall to unexpected tranquility, the parallel with the scripture becomes clear. The invitation to let go aligns with the biblical wisdom of entrusting our anxieties to God through prayer. The promise of divine peace, beyond human comprehension, serves as a beacon of hope in times of uncertainty.

The narrative then transitions into a spiritual reflection, addressing the reader’s potential skepticism or distress. The author acknowledges not knowing the individual struggles but reaffirms the unwavering presence of God with believers. The encouragement to keep moving forward, rather than standing still, becomes a call to faith and action.

This narrative crescendos with a declaration of victory in the coming New Year. The call to come to God echoes the scriptural invitation to find peace through trust and prayer. The story serves not only as an engaging parable but as a reminder that in letting go and turning to God, we discover a peace that surpasses understanding—a peace available to all who choose to release their fears and come to Him.

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Read the Bible In a Year

It will be an amazing year. Let’s get into the Bible

Are you ready to read through the Bible? Here are four of our most popular Bible reading plans to make your journey through the Scriptures achievable. Simply select your plan below to sign up and start receiving your daily readings directly in your inbox today. Let’s discover the right Bible reading plan for you.

This year I will be reading the Psalms beginning on January 01,2024 then when those are completed I plan to go to The Daily Gospel .

Bible Study Tools Link 2024

Book order

Read from Genesis 1 to the end of Revelation

Duration :365 Days

Day 1

Genesis 1-4

Day 2

Genesis 5-8

Day 3

Genesis 9-12

Day 4

Genesis 13-17

Day 5

Genesis 18-20

Day 6

Genesis 21-23

Day 7

Genesis 24-25

Day 8

Genesis 26-28

Day 9

Genesis 29-31

Day 10

Genesis 32-35

Day 11

Genesis 36-38

Day 12

Genesis 39-41

Day 13

Genesis 42-43

Day 14

Genesis 44-46

Day 15

Genesis 47-50

Day 16

Exodus 1-4

Day 17

Exodus 5-7

Day 18

Exodus 8-10

Day 19

Exodus 11-13

Day 20

Exodus 14-16

Day 21

Exodus 17-20

Day 22

Exodus 21-23

Day 23

Exodus 24-27

Day 24

Exodus 28-30

Day 25

Exodus 31-34

Day 26

Exodus 35-37

Day 27

Exodus 38-40

Day 28

Leviticus 1-4

Day 29

Leviticus 5-7

Day 30

Leviticus 8-10

Day 31

Leviticus 11-13

Chronological

Read the Bible in the order that the events happened.

Duration: 365 Days

Day 1

Genesis 1-3

Day 2

Genesis 4-7

Day 3

Genesis 8-11

Day 4

Job 1-5

Day 5

Job 6-9

Day 6

Job 10-13

Day 7

Job 14-16

Day 8

Job 17-20

Day 9

Job 21-23

Day 10

Job 24-28

Day 11

Job 29-31

Day 12

Job 32-34

Day 13

Job 35-37

Day 14

Job 38-39

Day 15

Job 40-42

Day 16

Genesis 12-15

Day 17

Genesis 16-18

Day 18

Genesis 19-21

Day 19

Genesis 22-24

Day 20

Genesis 25-26

Day 21

Genesis 27-29

Day 22

Genesis 30-31

Day 23

Genesis 32-34

Day 24

Genesis 35-37

Day 25

Genesis 38-40

Day 26

Genesis 41-42

Day 27

Genesis 43-45

Day 28

Genesis 46-47

Day 29

Genesis 48-50

Day 30

Exodus 1-3

Day 31

Exodus 4-6

Chronological New Testament

Read the New Testament in the order that the events happened.

Duration: 92 Days

Day 1

Luke 1; John 1:1-14

Day 2

Matthew 1; Luke 2:1-38

Day 3

Matthew 2; Luke 2:39-52

Day 4

Matthew 3; Mark 1; Luke 3

Day 5

Matthew 4; Luke 4-5; John 1:15-51

Day 6

John 2-4

Day 7

Mark 2

Day 8

John 5

Day 9

Matthew 12:1-21; Mark 3; Luke 6

Day 10

Matthew 5-7

Day 11

Matthew 8:1-13; Luke 7

Day 12

Matthew 11

Day 13

Matthew 12:22-50; Luke 11

Day 14

Matthew 13; Luke 8

Day 15

Matthew 8:14-34; Mark 4-5

Day 16

Matthew 9-10

Day 17

Matthew 14; Mark 6; Luke 9:1-17

Day 18

John 6

Day 19

Matthew 15; Mark 7

Day 20

Matthew 16; Mark 8; Luke 9:18-27

Day 21

Matthew 17; Mark 9; Luke 9:28-62

Day 22

Matthew 18

Day 23

John 7-8

Day 24

John 9:1-41; John 10:1-21

Day 25

Luke 10; John 10:22-42

Day 26

Luke 12-13

Day 27

Luke 14-15

Day 28

Luke 16; Luke 17:1-10

Day 29

John 11

Day 30

Luke 17:11-37; Luke 18:1-14

Day 31

Matthew 19; Mark 10

Daily Psalm

Read one Psalm a day.

Duration :150 Days

Day 1

Psalms 1

Day 2

Psalms 2

Day 3

Psalms 3

Day 4

Psalms 4

Day 5

Psalms 5

Day 6

Psalms 6

Day 7

Psalms 7

Day 8

Psalms 8

Day 9

Psalms 9

Day 10

Psalms 10

Day 11

Psalms 11

Day 12

Psalms 12

Day 13

Psalms 13

Day 14

Psalms 14

Day 15

Psalms 15

Day 16

Psalms 16

Day 17

Psalms 17

Day 18

Psalms 18

Day 19

Psalms 19

Day 20

Psalms 20

Day 21

Psalms 21

Day 22

Psalms 22

Day 23

Psalms 23

Day 24

Psalms 24

Day 25

Psalms 25

Day 26

Psalms 26

Day 27

Psalms 27

Day 28

Psalms 28

Day 29

Psalms 29

Day 30

Psalms 30

Day 31

Psalms 31

Daily Wisdom

Find wisdom each day as you read straight through the Psalms, Proverbs, and Song of Solomon

Duration :60 Days

Day 1

Psalms 1; Psalms 2; Psalms 3; Psalms 4

Day 2

Psalms 5; Psalms 6; Psalms 7; Psalms 8

Day 3

Psalms 9; Psalms 10; Psalms 11; Psalms 12

Day 4

Psalms 13; Psalms 14; Psalms 15; Psalms 16

Day 5

Psalms 17; Psalms 18; Psalms 19; Psalms 20

Day 6

Psalms 21; Psalms 22; Psalms 23; Psalms 24

Day 7

Psalms 25; Psalms 26; Psalms 27; Psalms 28

Day 8

Psalms 29; Psalms 30; Psalms 31; Psalms 32

Day 9

Psalms 33; Psalms 34; Psalms 35; Psalms 36

Day 10

Psalms 37; Psalms 38; Psalms 39

Day 11

Psalms 40; Psalms 41; Psalms 42

Day 12

Psalms 43; Psalms 44; Psalms 45

Day 13

Psalms 46; Psalms 47; Psalms 48

Day 14

Psalms 49; Psalms 50; Psalms 51

Day 15

Psalms 52; Psalms 53; Psalms 54

Day 16

Psalms 55; Psalms 56; Psalms 57

Day 17

Psalms 58; Psalms 59; Psalms 60

Day 18

Psalms 61; Psalms 62; Psalms 63

Day 19

Psalms 64; Psalms 65; Psalms 66

Day 20

Psalms 67; Psalms 68; Psalms 69

Day 21

Psalms 70; Psalms 71; Psalms 72

Day 22

Psalms 73; Psalms 74; Psalms 75

Day 23

Psalms 76; Psalms 77; Psalms 78

Day 24

Psalms 79; Psalms 80; Psalms 81

Day 25

Psalms 82; Psalms 83; Psalms 84

Day 26

Psalms 85; Psalms 86; Psalms 87

Day 27

Psalms 88; Psalms 89; Psalms 90

Day 28

Psalms 91; Psalms 92; Psalms 93

Day 29

Psalms 94; Psalms 95; Psalms 96

Day 30

Psalms 97; Psalms 98; Psalms 99

Day 31

Psalms 100; Psalms 101; Psalms 102

Day 32

Psalms 103; Psalms 104; Psalms 105

Day 33

Psalms 106; Psalms 107; Psalms 108

Day 34

Psalms 109; Psalms 110; Psalms 111

Day 35

Psalms 112; Psalms 113; Psalms 114

Day 36

Psalms 115; Psalms 116; Psalms 117

Day 37

Psalms 118; Psalms 119; Psalms 120

Day 38

Psalms 121; Psalms 122; Psalms 123

Day 39

Psalms 124; Psalms 125; Psalms 126

Day 40

Psalms 127; Psalms 128; Psalms 129

Day 41

Psalms 130; Psalms 131; Psalms 132

Day 42

Psalms 133; Psalms 134; Psalms 135

Day 43

Psalms 136; Psalms 137; Psalms 138

Day 44

Psalms 139; Psalms 140; Psalms 141

Day 45

Psalms 142; Psalms 143; Psalms 144

Day 46

Psalms 145; Psalms 146; Psalms 147

Day 47

Psalms 148; Psalms 149; Psalms 150

Day 48

Proverbs 1; Proverbs 2; Proverbs 3

Day 49

Proverbs 4; Proverbs 5; Proverbs 6

Day 50

Proverbs 7; Proverbs 8; Proverbs 9

Day 51

Proverbs 10; Proverbs 11; Proverbs 12

Day 52

Proverbs 13; Proverbs 14; Proverbs 15

Day 53

Proverbs 16; Proverbs 17; Proverbs 18

Day 54

Proverbs 19; Proverbs 20; Proverbs 21

Day 55

Proverbs 22; Proverbs 23; Proverbs 24

Day 56

Proverbs 25; Proverbs 26; Proverbs 27

Day 57

Proverbs 28; Proverbs 29; Proverbs 30

Day 58

Proverbs 31; Song of Solomon 1; Song of Solomon 2

Day 59

Song of Solomon 3; Song of Solomon 4; Song of Solomon 5

Day 60

Song of Solomon 6; Song of Solomon 7; Song of Solomon 8

Daily Gospel

Focus on the record of the life of Christ by reading through all four gospels.

Duration: 45 Days

Day 1

Matthew 1; Matthew 2

Day 2

Matthew 3; Matthew 4

Day 3

Matthew 5; Matthew 6

Day 4

Matthew 7; Matthew 8

Day 5

Matthew 9; Matthew 10

Day 6

Matthew 11; Matthew 12

Day 7

Matthew 13; Matthew 14

Day 8

Matthew 15; Matthew 16

Day 9

Matthew 17; Matthew 18

Day 10

Matthew 19; Matthew 20

Day 11

Matthew 21; Matthew 22

Day 12

Matthew 23; Matthew 24

Day 13

Matthew 25; Matthew 26

Day 14

Matthew 27; Matthew 28

Day 15

Mark 1; Mark 2

Day 16

Mark 3; Mark 4

Day 17

Mark 5; Mark 6

Day 18

Mark 7; Mark 8

Day 19

Mark 9; Mark 10

Day 20

Mark 11; Mark 12

Day 21

Mark 13; Mark 14

Day 22

Mark 15; Mark 16

Day 23

Luke 1; Luke 2

Day 24

Luke 3; Luke 4

Day 25

Luke 5; Luke 6

Day 26

Luke 7; Luke 8

Day 27

Luke 9; Luke 10

Day 28

Luke 11; Luke 12

Day 29

Luke 13; Luke 14

Day 30

Luke 15; Luke 16

Day 31

Luke 17; Luke 18

Day 32

Luke 19; Luke 20

Day 33

Luke 21; Luke 22

Day 34

Luke 23; Luke 24

Day 35

John 1; John 2

Day 36

John 3; John 4

Day 37

John 5; John 6

Day 38

John 7; John 8

Day 39

John 9; John 10

Day 40

John 11; John 12

Day 41

John 13; John 14

Day 42

John 15; John 16

Day 43

John 17; John 18

Day 44

John 19; John 20

Day 45

John 21

The I Want to Read the Bible but I need 2 years plan.

If your life is crazy busy, work, kids, school travel, this plan will help you get through the Bible at a pace that works for you. You’ll read a short selection each day and complete the Bible in two years

Duration :720 Days

To Start -!

Day 1

Genesis 1:1-31; Genesis 2:1-10

Day 2

Genesis 2:11-25; Genesis 3:1-24

Day 3

Genesis 4:1-26; Genesis 5:1-29

Day 4

Genesis 5:30-32; Genesis 6:1-22; Genesis 7:1-22

Day 5

Genesis 7:23-24; Genesis 8:1-22; Genesis 9:1-17

Day 6

Genesis 9:18-29; Genesis 10:1-32; Genesis 11:1-20

Day 7

Genesis 11:21-32; Genesis 12:1-20; Genesis 13:1-13

Day 8

Genesis 13:14-18; Genesis 14:1-24; Genesis 15:1-13

Day 9

Genesis 15:14-21; Genesis 16:1-16; Genesis 17:1-20

Day 10

Genesis 17:21-27; Genesis 18:1-33; Genesis 19:1-2

Day 11

Genesis 19:3-38; Genesis 20:1-2

Day 12

Genesis 20:3-18; Genesis 21:1-27

Day 13

Genesis 21:28-34; Genesis 22:1-24; Genesis 23:1-15

Day 14

Genesis 23:16-20; Genesis 24:1-34

Day 15

Genesis 24:35-67; Genesis 25:1-11

Day 16

Genesis 25:12-34; Genesis 26:1-24

Day 17

Genesis 26:25-35; Genesis 27:1-33

Day 18

Genesis 27:34-46; Genesis 28:1-22; Genesis 29:1-3

Day 19

Genesis 29:4-35; Genesis 30:1-15

Day 20

Genesis 30:16-43; Genesis 31:1-13

Day 21

Genesis 31:14-52

Day 22

Genesis 31:53-55; Genesis 32:1-32; Genesis 33:1-9

Day 23

Genesis 33:10-20; Genesis 34:1-30

Day 24

Genesis 34:31-31; Genesis 35:1-29; Genesis 36:1-20

Day 25

Genesis 36:21-43; Genesis 37:1-27

Day 26

Genesis 37:28-36; Genesis 38:1-30; Genesis 39:1-1

Day 27

Genesis 39:2-23; Genesis 40:1-20

Day 28

Genesis 40:21-23; Genesis 41:1-43

Day 29

Genesis 41:44-57; Genesis 42:1-28

Day 30

Genesis 42:29-38; Genesis 43:1-27

Day 31

Genesis 43:28-34; Genesis 44:1-33

Reading the Bible Tips:
Begin your Bible reading journey today; no need to delay.
Allocate a daily specific time, whether in the morning or another consistent time that suits you.
Prioritize the relationship aspect over completion; read to connect rather than to finish.
Start with a brief prayer, seeking wisdom and understanding from the Holy Spirit before diving into the words.

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Things I Gift

I have been asked for a few gift ideas for those special occasions like Birthdays, Easter, Christians, or any occasion. I will update this often and keep prices very reasonable

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Indescribable displays the majesty of creation with scientific findings, photography, and original illustrations. These 100 devotions encourage awe at God’s creativity with an in-depth look at:

  • Space, galaxies, planets, and stars
  • Earth, geology, oceans, and weather
  • Animals: from hummingbirds to dinosaurs
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Indescribable: 100 Devotions About God & Science has sold over 100,000 copies! This book is perfect for children, ages 6-10 years old, and each devotional features a:

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Psalm 19:1 says, “The heavens tell the glory of God. And the skies announce what his hands have made.” It’s impossible to out-imagine God. He orchestrates time, creates light, and speaks things into existence–from the largest stars to the smallest starfish. God is the powerful, purposeful, personal, unparalleled Creator.

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A Victorious New Year: Embracing God’s Presence, Purpose, and Peace

As we now can say we rang in the New Year for many uncertainty looms in the world around us. Pictures of wars still going on, and personal trials can create a backdrop of anxiety. However, as a Christian, I find solace in the timeless truth that, no matter what the New Year holds, God will be with us.

Psalm 23:1 resonates deeply in my heart, reminding me that the Lord is my Shepherd, and I shall not want. This truth alone gives me cause for rejoicing and the ability to face the future without fear. The comforting presence of my Lord blesses me with a sense of security that transcends worldly uncertainties.

God’s will for us in the coming year is clear – to live victoriously. This victory is not about the absence of challenges but about our response to them. We can live without hopelessness, fear, and frustration if we commit to Christ and remain confident in His promises. Each day is an opportunity to live in a relationship with the living Savior, finding purpose and strength in Him.

In our quest for a positive New Year, let’s reflect on the unique ways people around the world seek blessings. While some partake in peculiar traditions like consuming black-eyed peas for health and wealth, or pork and sauerkraut for luck, I am reminded that true blessings come from a commitment to Christ and trust in His plans for us.

Amid a perilous world, the Apostle Paul’s experiences, as shared in 2 Corinthians 1:1-11, offer profound insights. He faced crisis after crisis but found inner strength and peace to rejoice in every situation through his unique relationship with the Lord. As we delve into Paul’s words, we uncover essential elements for a victorious New Year.

1. Salvation:
Our assurance of salvation provides a firm foundation for facing the uncertainties of the future. Paul’s unwavering confidence amidst suffering stemmed from the knowledge that salvation is not dependent on external conditions. Romans 8:28-39 reinforces this truth, assuring us that nothing can separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus.

2. Determination:
To live well in the New Year, we must remain determined to fulfill our God-given responsibilities. By concentrating on God’s will and bringing Him glory, we shift our focus from personal trials to the needs of others. Paul’s commitment to encouraging others amidst his own troubles exemplifies the determination needed for victorious living.

3. Appreciation:
An appreciation for God’s comforting presence in our lives leads to adoration, worship, and praise. Even in the valleys of life, David’s affirmation, “The Lord is my Shepherd,” echoes the divine peace that accompanies us through every trial. As we appreciate God’s goodness, we can face the New Year with a heart full of gratitude.

4. Dedication:
Rather than fleeting resolutions, a dedication to live in total dependence and commitment to Jesus is the key to a successful New Year. Placing all we are and have at His feet, we cast our cares upon Him, trusting in His promise to never leave nor forsake us (1 Peter 5:7).

In closing, let us approach the New Year with a sense of purpose, knowing that our victorious living is rooted in God’s presence, determination, appreciation, and dedication. As we navigate the uncertainties of the future, let’s do so with unwavering faith, embracing the promise that, no matter what lies ahead, God is with us, and in His presence, we find true victory.

Posted in Faith, Forgiveness, Life, Love, New Year, Peace

Embracing Positivity in the New Year: A Journey of Forgiveness and Love

As the new year dawns upon us, I find myself reflecting on the transformative power of forgiveness, love, and understanding. It’s not just a gift we bestow upon others; it’s a profound gift we give ourselves, lightening our spirits and keeping us aligned with the positive energy that emanates from God.

Entering the new year with a heart full of forgiveness is an act of divine grace. In the Bible, we are reminded that to receive forgiveness, we must extend it to others. “For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you.” (Matthew 6:14) This timeless truth emphasizes the reciprocity of forgiveness—our ability to receive it hinges on our willingness to grant it.

In the tapestry of life, forgiveness is the thread that weaves love and understanding into our relationships. The act of forgiving others is not merely a gesture of bidding goodbye to resentment; it’s a way of releasing the negative vibes that can weigh us down. As we embrace forgiveness, we free ourselves from the shackles of bitterness, creating space for love and positivity to flourish.

A quote that resonates with the essence of stepping into the new year with a positive mindset is, “Tomorrow is the first blank page of a 365-page book. Write a good one.” (Brad Paisley) Each day offers an opportunity for a new beginning, a chance to let go of past grievances and embrace a brighter, more positive future.

So, as we stand at the threshold of the new year, let’s commit to forgiveness, love, and understanding. In doing so, we not only gift others the grace of our forgiveness but also bestow upon ourselves the freedom to live in harmony with the divine positivity that surrounds us. May the coming year be a tapestry woven with threads of love, understanding, and the transformative power of forgiveness.

Posted in Forgiveness, Grateful, Peace, Uncategorized

Embracing Forgiveness: A Journey to a Lighter Heart

As I stand on the threshold of a new year, I reflect on the transformative power of forgiveness. This year, let’s embark on a journey to lighten our hearts by extending forgiveness to ourselves, to those who have hurt us, and by seeking forgiveness from those we’ve wronged.

Forgiving oneself is a profound act of self-love. Accept that mistakes are inevitable, and through each one, we gain wisdom and strength. Try your best, learn from each misstep, and remember, there’s always tomorrow. As I look back on my tumultuous relationship with my late mother, I grappled with guilt but found solace in making amends in my 30s. Despite the moments of regret, I now carry the lessons forward, honoring her memory by striving to be a better person every day. I wasn’t a terrible daughter but there were times I disrespected her that hurt her feelings and that bothers me. Because I was a mouthy teen and abused wife I sometimes yelled at her when I had no right and when she died I would dwell in my negative vs all the happy times and laughs we had.

When forgiving others, discern if the hurt was personal or a reflection of their struggles. Often, it’s the latter—borne out of insecurities or past traumas. Gift them forgiveness, even if they don’t apologize. Partial forgiveness is a start, and with time and commitment, complete forgiveness may follow. I’ve experienced the liberation of forgiving those who once caused me pain—it’s a gift to both parties.

Seeking forgiveness is a humbling process. Be honest, respect their decision, and commit to making amends. Facing rejection was once my greatest challenge, but with age comes the wisdom to admit mistakes promptly. Forgiving those who wronged me was equally liberating—I did it for myself. While some things may seem unforgivable, our capacity for forgiveness is immense if we earnestly try.

I encourage you to forgive everyone who has hurt you, one person at a time, at your own pace. Extend forgiveness to yourself—it’s a gift of peace you deserve. Have the courage to seek forgiveness from others; the effort alone brings a sense of closure. As we step into the new year, may we shed the weight of resentment and embrace the lightness that forgiveness brings—a lighter you, ready to face the world with a heart unburdened.

“Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” – Colossians 3:13

“But I say to you who hear, Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you.” – Luke 6:27

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Navigating Financial Stress: A Blueprint for a Secure Future

The festive season has come to a close, leaving many in reflection about their financial situations and the stress that comes with it. As we transition into a new year, it’s crucial to consider ways to alleviate financial burdens, reduce anxiety, and plan for a more secure future. You don’t wanna be paying for this Christmas next Christmas still so we need to plan ahead

1. Create a Budget with Purpose:

Start the new year by crafting a comprehensive budget. Identify your essential expenses, allocate funds for savings, and create a dedicated category for future celebrations and religious events. By giving each dollar a purpose, you gain control over your finances and pave the way for stress-free planning.

2. Establish an Emergency Fund:

Financial security begins with a safety net. Set aside a portion of your income for an emergency fund. This fund acts as a buffer, providing peace of mind during unexpected expenses and ensuring you won’t have to dip into savings meant for other goals.

3. Automate Savings for Special Occasions:

Plan for future celebrations, like Christmas, by setting up automated transfers to a separate savings account. This proactive approach ensures that when the holiday season arrives, you have a designated fund, sparing you the stress of last-minute financial strain.

4. Connect Your Finances to Your Faith:

Align your financial goals with your religious beliefs by incorporating your church into your budget. Consider setting aside a percentage of your income for tithing or donations. This not only supports your spiritual community but also reinforces the principle of giving back, fostering a sense of purpose and community.

5. Visualize Your Retirement:

Look beyond the immediate future and visualize your retirement. Explore retirement savings options like 401(k)s or IRAs. By planning for retirement early, you not only secure your financial future but also gain peace of mind, knowing that you are actively working towards a comfortable and stress-free retirement.

In summary, the key to financial freedom lies in proactive planning and purposeful budgeting. By creating a budget, establishing an emergency fund, automating savings for special occasions, connecting your finances to your faith, and visualizing your retirement, you can navigate the challenges of today while building a foundation for a secure and stress-free future. As the new year unfolds, let these financial resolutions guide you towards a path of financial well-being and freedom.

Practice the Snowball Effect

The Snowball Effect: Your Roadmap to Debt Freedom and Financial Resilience

Embarking on a journey towards financial freedom requires strategic planning and a commitment to prioritize debt repayment. Here’s a concise guide on how to tackle your debts and build a solid financial foundation.

Start by addressing your highest interest rate debt, typically credit cards. By focusing on these high-cost balances first, you minimize the interest that accrues, allowing you to pay off the principal amount more efficiently.

Once the highest interest debt is eliminated, redirect that monthly payment towards the next debt on your list. This cascading approach creates a snowball effect, gaining momentum as each debt is paid off. Tackle your debts one by one, celebrating each victory along the way.

This strategy extends beyond credit cards and can be applied to various financial obligations such as car payments, student loans, and even your mortgage. By channeling the funds previously allocated to the paid-off debts towards the remaining ones, you accelerate your journey to becoming debt-free.

As you approach financial liberation, consider diverting a portion of your income towards an emergency fund. Aim for a safety net equivalent to six to twelve months’ worth of living expenses. This financial cushion acts as a shield against unexpected expenses, ensuring that you won’t be forced to rely on credit in times of crisis.

Even as you focus on debt repayment, make a conscious effort to allocate a portion of your income towards savings. Once debt-free, redirect the funds that were once tied to monthly payments into savings and investments. This proactive approach ensures that you continue to build wealth and secure your financial future.

The journey to financial freedom involves a systematic approach to debt repayment, starting with high-interest debts and utilizing the snowball effect to gain momentum. As debts are eliminated, redirect those funds towards an emergency fund and future savings. By following this roadmap, you’ll not only achieve debt freedom but also build a resilient financial foundation for whatever life throws your way.

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Resolutions or Intentions: Navigating the Comedy Show of Self-Improvement


Let’s face it – changing habits is like trying to teach an old dog new tricks, and we’re all just here wondering if our resolutions are secretly laughing at us. This blog post delves into the drama of setting intentions that are more heartwarming than a rom-com.

Making Change: Not for the Faint of Heart
Breaking old habits is like peeling an onion – lots of layers, and it might make you cry. Our minds are like stubborn turtles, slow to embrace change even when we’re itching to break free. We’ve all been at that crossroads, debating whether to stick to the same old routine, go hardcore with resolutions, or take the scenic route with mindful intentions.

Resolutions vs. Intentions: The Clash of Titans
Resolutions are like the strict gym coach, judging everything as ‘good’ or ‘bad’, while intentions are the laid-back friend who’s all about the vibes. Sure, resolutions are clear and measurable, but intentions are the cool cats, embracing the journey and feeling it in their bones. It’s like choosing between a boot camp and a yoga retreat.

Why Resolutions Sometimes Fail
Ever wonder why resolutions often fall flat? It’s because life’s truth is like a Netflix series – it changes every minute. Intentions, on the other hand, let us dance with life’s twists and turns, exploring with a mix of curiosity and compassion.

Softening into Change: The Netflix and Chill Version
Opting for intentions is like giving your inner self a cozy blanket and some hot cocoa. It’s a gentle, compassionate way of saying, “Let’s figure this out together,” instead of forcing yourself into a shape that doesn’t fit. Intentions are like a warm hug for your highest self – because who doesn’t want a hug?

Heartfelt Intentions 101
Setting intentions is as chill as choosing your Netflix show for the night. Find a quiet spot, light a candle, maybe play some soft tunes – whatever floats your boat. Reflect on life’s realms, figure out where the energy is stuck or overflowing, and jot down your thoughts. Then, close your eyes, summon your inner poet, and craft a sentence like you’re writing a love letter to yourself.

Positive Quote for the upcoming New Year’s Day
“Cheers to a new year and another chance for us to try to get it right.”

Bible Verse
“Commit to the LORD whatever you do, and he will establish your plans.” – Proverbs 16:3