The Lord never got Mercy and he did nothing wrong.
Sean Diddy Combs now seeks and begs for mercy after physically and sexually abusing several women. The Bible reminds us, “The soul that sinneth, it shall die” (Ezekiel 18:20). Justice must be served—”He that troubleth his own house shall inherit the wind” (Proverbs 11:29).
You did the crime; now you must serve the time. It’s only fair—“Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap” (Galatians 6:7). Justice and accountability are part of God’s design.
Brutality and abuse, especially in the sight of others, are serious sins. You have caused deep trauma to these women, and repentance requires true penance and responsibility.
While the Lord is merciful and offers forgiveness to all—“Come now, and let us reason together, saith the Lord: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow” (Isaiah 1:18)—mercy does not exempt us from facing earthly consequences. “For rulers are not a terror to good works, but to the evil” (Romans 13:3).
It’s time to accept the justice that aligns with God’s commandments. Servant of the Lord, do not spurn His discipline, for “whom the Lord loveth he correcteth” (Proverbs 3:12).
I seen an image on either TikTok or Instagram. It was a black-and-white photo and so I made my twist on it and I love art so when I seen it , I was very moved by it and so below is my version of the photo in color
This image vividly portrays a mother up to her neck in water, yet with unwavering strength, she holds her child high above the surface— some people thought that the woman was swimming out in the lake to drowned herself and her child, but that was not the case ; she was protecting, caring, and fighting to keep her little one safe amid overwhelming circumstances. It’s a powerful reminder that, despite the chaos and challenges we face—be it overwork, poverty, abuse, addiction, illness, or mental health struggles—we do everything we can for our children.
And there’s usually more to the story than what we see or what we think we see
People often don’t understand why women do what they do because they can’t see the full depth of someone’s reality. They assume, “If I were in her shoes, I’d do differently,” but each of us handles our struggles in our own way. As mothers, we do what’s best with the resources, strength, and knowledge we have. For women living in extreme poverty, working multiple jobs might be their only option to provide stability. Those in abusive relationships might shield their children temporarily by placing them with relatives, even though leaving is complicated—sometimes dangerous—because the threat of harm persists if they attempt to escape.
Women battling addiction or mental health issues may feel overwhelmed and unworthy, choosing to make heartbreaking decisions like giving up their children because they believe they’re not enough or fear they might harm them. Women with chronic pain or fighting life-threatening illnesses like cancer simply do their best to keep moving forward, even when exhaustion and suffering threaten to weigh them down.
We must resist judging these women. Instead, we should lift them up, offer grace, and understand that every woman is doing her best in her circumstances.
Sometimes, giving up a child through adoption is an act of profound love and self-sacrifice, not neglect or failure. You may not see the whole story, but that doesn’t mean you should judge.
Every woman faces struggles—whether in youth, education, relationships, addiction, poverty, illness, or mental health. Life is hard, and nobody’s journey is perfect. Our role isn’t to judge or criticize but to support and uplift one another. When wounds are inflicted by others, or if you disagree with how someone navigates their life, remember that everyone is fighting a battle you may never see.
Women have a unique bond. We should celebrate and nurture our relationships—whether between mothers and sons, mothers and daughters, or among friends—striving to understand and forgive, rather than condemn. I speak from experience, having had my own imperfections and regrets. My mother’s love and sacrifices, though not perfect, shaped who I am today. I wish I had appreciated her more when she was here.
If you’re estranged from a loved one, keep praying, keep loving, and trust that time and patience may heal wounds. We weren’t born to be distant or disconnected from our children and loved ones. It’s our responsibility as women to support each other, to build each other up, and to be the refuge in moments of despair.
This is my interpretation of the photo: a testament to resilience, sacrifice, and the unwavering maternal instinct to protect and nurture, even when life feels like it’s dragging us under. Let’s honor each woman’s journey, extend compassion, and band together in sisterhood—because we are stronger when we lift each other up.
Never underestimate the strength of a woman or mother— we love fiercely and do the best we can with what we have. People may not always see the full picture or understand the trials we face, so it’s unfair to judge. Instead, women should lift each other up with kindness and support, offering a hand, not a harsh word. Just because you would handle a situation differently doesn’t mean what I did was wrong, and vice versa. Let’s show each other grace, kindness, and respect, remembering that we’re all doing our best in the moments we’re given.
What is the most important thing to carry with you all the time?
The Most Important Thing I Carry with Me Every Day: My Faith in God
When someone asks me, “What is the most important thing to carry with you all the time?”, I don’t think of an object like my keys or phone. Instead, I think of something much deeper—my faith and belief in God.
For me, this faith is my constant companion. It’s what brings comfort during my pain,struggles and also joy in my victories. No matter what challenges I face—whether good or not so good—I truly believe that I am never alone. God is with me, guiding me every step of the way, even when life feels uncertain, unfair or difficult.
Never Alone in Life’s Ups and Downs
Life is full of unexpected twists and turns. Sometimes, I encounter hurdles that leave me feeling overwhelmed or unsure. But my faith reminds me that I don’t have to face these moments on my own. Scripture reassures me: “I will never leave you nor forsake you” (Hebrews 13:5). This promise gives me peace and reassurance that I carry deep in my heart every day.
When I’m walking through challenges, I lean into my belief that God’s presence is constant. It’s a comforting thought—that I’m not alone in my struggles, and I don’t have to carry the weight of everything myself.
Faith as My Source of Strength
My belief in God doesn’t mean I don’t feel pain or face difficulties. It means I choose to trust that He is with me, giving me strength and courage. Even when I feel weak, my faith reminds me that His grace is sufficient. It’s this trust that helps me stay hopeful, resilient, and motivated to keep moving forward.
Living with Faith
Having faith isn’t just something I hold onto in times of trouble—it’s a daily way of life. It influences how I see the world, how I react to situations, and how I interact with others. Knowing that God always has my back gives me peace and confidence every morning I wake up.
My Personal Reflection
For me, carrying my faith in God is like carrying a precious treasure; it sustains me, renews me, and keeps me grounded. It’s the one thing I know I can rely on no matter what life throws my way. And in holding onto that belief, I find the strength to face each day with hope and gratitude.
So for me
The most important thing I carry with me is my faith—my unwavering trust in God’s love and presence. It’s perhaps the greatest gift I have, guiding me through life’s journey and constantly reminding me that I am never truly alone.
I’ve experienced many moments when God’s presence was my solace and strength. When I was a battered wife in my first marriage, I felt His comfort and protection. When I was grieving the loss of my parents, God was right there with me, offering peace in my sorrow. When I suffered second-degree burns after a doctor gave me the wrong medication and I almost died, I knew God was with me, holding me through the pain. Even in a frightening moment in high school, when a group of jocks attacked me, God was with me—protected and ultimately rescuing me through a friend who drove by and saw what was happening.
God has been with me in every joyful milestone: the birth of my daughter and granddaughter, my marriage to my second husband, family holidays past and present and countless moments filled with laughter and love.
With God, you are NEVER alone. Your family and friends may love you, and they may say they are there for you, but sometimes life’s frustrations, misunderstandings, illness, or silent moments make you feel isolated. During those times, I turn to God. His presence reminds me that even when I feel all alone, I am never truly without His love.
No matter what life throws your way, hold onto your faith — it’s your strongest refuge and your greatest source of peace. Remember, with God by your side, you are never alone.
“I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” — Philippians 4:13
A good marriage isn’t about finding a perfect partner—because no one is perfect. It’s about two imperfect people committed to each other, refusing to give up on each other through sickness, health, wealth, poverty, or any challenge that life throws their way. They don’t allow abuse of any kind especially physical in a relationship. They respect each other.
That’s holiness; that’s sanctity—choosing to love and communicate even in the hardest times, and standing firm together in faith.
When you step into an engagement or marriage, you are doing so before God Himself, declaring that this person is above all others, even above your career or worldly pursuits. But for a marriage to last, God must be the center. Without Him, the union will struggle to survive; with Him, it can thrive. You go to church together.
You cannot disrespect, cheat, or mistreat your fiancé or spouse and expect everlasting love. Forgiveness is essential, but repeated mistakes—especially in areas of addiction, abuse, or disloyalty—are signs that you may be unequally yoked. If your partner struggles with gambling, drinking, drugs, or unhealthy behaviors, and they aren’t seeking change, it’s wise to pause before making lifelong commitments.
If you’re a believer, dating someone who does not share your Christian values or belief in Christ , it may lead to difficulties in your marriage. Unequally yoked couples often face serious challenges because their foundational principles are different.They don’t share the same reverence for God, they may think they are above God. But many things in their life may happen to them that is their wake up call and they refuse to see the signs.
Scriptures to Guide Your Heart:
2 Corinthians 6:14 “Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?”
Ephesians 5:25 “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.”
Marriage is a lifelong journey built on Christ’s love, mutual respect, honesty, and faithfulness. Choose wisely, keep God at the center, and remember, true holiness is in loving each other as Christ loves us.
So if you have someone you don’t want to lose treat the right.
If the person you are it his not who you want to be linked to for a lifetime commitment look at the relationship before you marry.
God does not want you abused. If you are get help if you have addiction, abuse or narcissistic behaviors get help now.
A Prayer for All Married and Engaged Couples
Heavenly Father, we come before You today with humble hearts, lifting up all those who are married. I pray that You fill their hearts with Your love—so deep, so enduring—that they continue to love each other selflessly, putting You first in their relationship. May they cherish one another above all else, respecting, forgiving, and supporting each other through every challenge and blessing.
For those who are in marriages where they feel unequally yoked, Lord, I ask for Your healing and guidance. Break any chains of misunderstanding, resentment, or conflict. Restore their unity and help them to see Your plan for their marriage. Heal wounds, soften hardened hearts, and draw them into Your love.
For those engaged or contemplating marriage with someone who does not share their faith or values, I pray for Your divine insight. Open their eyes to see clearly, Lord—whether this relationship is aligned with Your will or if they need to wait and trust in Your perfect timing.
Lord, Your Word says in Proverbs 3:5-6, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.” We trust You to lead every couple on the path of righteousness and peace.
We ask all this in the mighty name of Jesus. Amen.
Growing up, I learned that loving people and valuing relationships was written deep on the tablet of my heart. My parents modeled this for me in their own special ways. My mom always had a circle of friends—that she treasured, and she had many people she was an acquaintance with who also loved her.
My dad, seemed to make a new friend every day! Though different in personality, both of my parents cherished their friendships and nurtured them with care and loyalty.
My father was Croatian, and my mother from what I’ve uncovered through Ancestry, has Switzerland/German and Irish roots. Interestingly, I found I have more Croatian DNA than Irish or German, which I think speaks to the strong, vibrant spirit of my father’s side of the family.
Croatian women, like my relatives, weren’t afraid to speak their minds and were loud and boisterous—making friends came naturally, me included! The men, although more quiet, were kind and well-loved by everyone. They were good souls eager to help anyone in need. They had many acquaintances and many friends and even if they didn’t know you, they would help you..
On my mother’s side, the story was a bit different. Her friends from childhood, her close family—her sisters and grandmother—they shared a bond that lasted a lifetime. The only time they were loud was when they all gathered together, sharing laughter that filled the room with warmth. They got along as adults, laughing freely, and that joy always stuck with me. You would end up laughing so hard just from hearing them laugh even though you had no idea what they said. It was so funny..
From both sides, I saw in them long-term friendships that stood the test of time. These relationships weren’t fleeting—they were built on loyalty, kindness, and love. That’s what touched my heart most.
Friendship is a gift from God that brings blessings that last a lifetime.
I can’t remember where I read it, but it said in my mind “True friendship is one of the sweetest things in life. Friends are chosen family; they cheer us on through discouraging seasons, celebrate with us in joy, and lift us up when life gets tough. The happiest moments are brighter because of those close to us.”
Throughout Scripture, we see how important relationships are. Proverbs speaks directly to the wisdom of choosing good friends and the dangers of bad company. The New Testament encourages us to pray for one another, to carry each other’s burdens, and to treat others as we want to be treated—these are the qualities of true friendship.
Over the past few months, I have truly come to realize how powerful and precious this gift of friendship is.
Good friends don’t disappoint; they don’t leave us empty-handed. They offer comfort, encouragement, and companionship—sometimes in big ways, sometimes in small. They stand with us in trials, rejoice in our victories, and show us unconditional love. They know who we are—past, present, and future—and love us still.
I am so grateful for the friends in my life. Some I’ve known for over 50 years. It’s astonishing to think that after all this time, when we reconnect, it feels like just yesterdayno judgment, lots of laughs and true concern for each other.
True friendship isn’t about seeing each other every week; it’s about the heart connection—being there when it matters most.
And I believe that this heart connection is one of God’s greatest blessings. Family can sometimes be influenced by their own struggles or biases, but friends often understand us in a way family cannot. They love us for who we are, not what they want us to be.
I am blessed beyond words, and I pray you are, too. May you cherish the friendships that bless your life, and may you always remember that true friendship is a divine gift—one that reflects God’s love and faithfulness.
Let us give thanks to God for placing special friends in our lives and for the eternal friendship We have in Him.
As we wrap up the week, it’s a wonderful moment to pause and thank God for His blessings. No matter what challenges we faced, there’s always something to be grateful for—whether it’s waking up to a new day, the little victories, or simply His constant presence in our lives.
Thanking God creates a heart of gratitude that refreshes our spirit and renews our faith. It’s an act of worship, acknowledging that everything good in our lives comes from Him.
Bible verses to inspire gratitude:
“Give thanks to the Lord, for He is good; His love endures forever.” — Psalm 107:1
“In everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” — 1 Thessalonians 5:18
Take a moment today to silently thank God for the blessings, big and small. Gratitude opens our eyes to His goodness and reminds us of His everlasting love.
Let’s walk into the weekend with thankful hearts, trusting that God’s grace is sufficient for all our needs. Truly, every day is a gift—let’s give thanks and praise His holy name.
Thank God for Every Day: Embracing Monday with Gratitude
Most of us look forward to Friday—the end of a long, sometimes frustrating week, and the promise of the weekend. We read a good book, relax, and finally put our feet up. But how many of us thank God for Monday?
I’m one of those who does, I enjoy going to work I enjoy serving others and I believe we all should. Because God doesn’t want us to sit around waiting for better days. He calls us to be active, to work diligently, and to find purpose in each day. Even if you’re retired, that doesn’t mean doing nothing; it means finding ways to serve—volunteering at your local church, food bank, or community center. Staying busy is not only good for our health but aligns with God’s principles for living a fulfilling life.
So this Monday, as you wake up, thank God for this day. Whether you go to work or take time to volunteer, be grateful for the opportunity to serve. Every day is a blessing—another chance to do good, to love, and to honor God’s purpose for your life.
Never look at any day as just an ordinary day. Each one is a gift and a new opportunity to serve our Heavenly Father. So, thank God for Monday, and may your day be filled with purpose and joy.
Wishing everyone a blessed day!
Here are a few Bible scriptures that highlight the importance of working and diligent effort:
Colossians 3:23 “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters.”
Proverbs 14:23 “All hard work brings a profit, but mere talk leads only to poverty.”
Ecclesiastes 9:10 “Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with all your might.”
2 Thessalonians 3:10 “The one who is unwilling to work shall not eat.”
Proverbs 13:4 “The soul of the sluggard craves and gets nothing, while the soul of the diligent is richly supplied.”
Today, we celebrate the birth of our nation—an anniversary of freedom, courage, and faith. On July 4, 1776, America declared independence from British rule, establishing a nation built on ideals of liberty, justice, and unalienable rights. It was a pivotal moment where brave men and women fought for freedom, paving the way for a nation founded on hope and faith in God.
As Christians living in today’s world, we are called to be good citizens—models of love, patience, and integrity amidst a society often marked by anger, greed, and division. Romans 13:1 reminds us, “Let everyone be subject to the governing authorities, for there is no authority except that which God has established.” We are instructed to honor those in authority and to reflect Christ in our actions.
In a world that can sometimes seem abrasive or materialistic, our role as Christian citizens is crucial. We can stand out by practicing kindness, advocating for justice, and living with humility. Our words and actions should draw others to Christ, shining His light in dark times.
This Independence Day, let’s celebrate the freedoms we have, but also remember our true freedom lies in Christ (Galatians 5:1). May our patriotic spirit inspire us to serve others with love and integrity, making our communities better and showing the love of Jesus through everything we do.
Happy Independence Day! Let’s honor God by being faithful, responsible citizens—and by loving others just as He loves us.
In a society obsessed with perfection and constant improvement, it’s easy to forget one fundamental truth: you are enough—just as you are right now. Whether you’re eating healthier, starting a new workout, taking up walking, or making career changes, remember that self-love begins with acceptance.
There are so many negative people in this world that everyone will find something wrong with you at some point if not always that’s their problem not yours. If you’re fat, you’re lazy if you’re too skinny, you must be on drugs. Somebody’s always got something negative to say just stop listening. Let them say what they want. You know you.
We have to love our self right now, exactly where we are, but we also must move forward and grow…
Loving yourself doesn’t mean you’re complacent or that you stop growing. It means you recognize your worth today, embracing your current self with kindness. From there, you can confidently take steps to improve—ever striving, but never measuring your value by your progress.
Whatever your goals—eating better, working out more, enjoying daily walks, or pursuing a new career—love yourself right now. Appreciate how far you’ve come. Celebrate your unique journey. Know that your worth is already complete because you’re God’s beautiful creation.
Then, let that love fuel your motivation to grow. Every small step forward is a victory and a testament to your strength and resilience.
Biblical Encouragement:
“Love your neighbor as yourself.” — Mark 12:31 This reminds us that loving ourselves is an essential part of loving others. Recognize your God-given worth and treat yourself with the same kindness.
“For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made.” — Psalm 139:13-14 God’s word affirms that you are a masterpiece, crafted by His own hands. Embrace this truth and love yourself as His beloved.
Motivational Quote:
“It’s never too late to become what you’re meant to be.” — George Eliot No matter your age—whether you’re in your 40s, 50s, 60s, or beyond—every day is an opportunity for renewal. Start where you are, take small steps, and watch as your life transforms. Age is just a number; your dreams and growth are timeless.
Remember: Loving yourself today gives you the foundation to reach new heights tomorrow. Be kind, patient, and celebrate who you are—while never stopping the journey of becoming your best self.
Your next chapter begins now—and it’s beautifully yours.
Closing Prayer
Heavenly Father, Thank You for creating us exactly as we are—unique and loved. Help us to embrace ourselves with kindness and gratitude, knowing that we are Your masterpieces. Strengthen us to pursue growth with patience and humility, trusting that You guide every step. Fill our hearts with your peace as we take steps toward better health, new opportunities, and personal development. Remind us daily that our worth is rooted in Your love, and help us to love ourselves as You love us. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.
Tips for Loving and Improving Yourself
Start Small: Focus on one thing—whether it’s adding a fruit to your meals or a 10-minute walk. Small changes lead to lasting habits.
Be Patient: Growth takes time. Celebrate progress, no matter how minor, and don’t be discouraged by setbacks.
Practice Self-Compassion: Speak to yourself like you would to a friend. Be forgiving of your mistakes and celebrate your efforts.
Set Realistic Goals: Whether it’s a new career, fitness, or health goal, make sure your goals are achievable and tailored to your lifestyle.
Stay Consistent: Consistency beats perfection. Doing a little each day ensures progress over time.
Surround Yourself with Positivity: Fill your environment with supportive people, uplifting messages, and inspiration.
Stay Connected with Your Faith: Keep reading your Bible, praying, and trusting God’s plan for your growth and well-being.
The Deception of a Hardened Heart: True Spiritual Growth Comes from Forgiveness and Love
As believers, we often speak of grace, love, and forgiveness. We attend church, sing the hymns, and profess our faith publicly. But what happens when our hearts are hardened by hatred, resentment, and un-forgiveness? The answer is simple yet profound: We will never spiritually grow up.
Jesus Himself made it clear in Matthew 6:14-15: “For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.”
Holding onto hate is a contradiction to the very faith we claim to uphold. It poisons our spirit, clouds our judgment, and prevents us from experiencing the fullness of God’s love.
Going to Church for Show vs. Gaining Biblical Growth
Attending church isn’t what transforms us—it’s the condition of our heart before God that determines our spiritual maturity. If we go to church simply to be seen, yet leave with bitterness still intact, we’ve missed the purpose entirely.
James 1:22 tells us: “Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says.”
Proverbs 10:12 states that “hatred stirs up strife, but love covers all offenses
Hebrews 12:15 describes hatred as the “root of bitterness,” which can defile other
The Christian walk isn’t just about appearances; it’s about a genuine transformation rooted in Christ.
Steps to Overcome Hate and Embrace Biblical Love
Recognize the weight of un-forgiveness – Holding onto grudges doesn’t punish the one who wronged you—it punishes you.
Pray for a softened heart – Ask God to reveal areas of resentment and give you the strength to release them.
Take responsibility – If you’re harboring hate, it’s not just about others; it’s about you allowing it to remain. Letting go is a choice. Most of the time you are holding
Practice forgiveness daily – It’s not a one-time decision. It’s a posture of grace that reflects Christ’s love.
Love your enemies – Jesus Himself said in Matthew 5:44, “But I say to you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.” Imagine the spiritual freedom in loving those who least deserve it!
At the end of the day, true Christianity isn’t measured by church attendance, titles, or outward devotion—it’s reflected in the way we love. A heart filled with hate will never grow spiritually. But a heart surrendered to God, even in pain, will flourish.
Will we be Christians in name only, or will we reflect the love of Christ in action? The choice is ours.
How does this feel, Deborah? Would you like to refine it further to match your personal message and experience? I’m happy to adjust the tone or add more Scripture if needed.
Will we be Christians in name only, or will we reflect the love of Christ in action? The choice is ours.
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