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Faithful in small things

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It’s amazing what God can do for a troubled heart when we learn to truly meditate on Him. Charles F. Stanley often spoke about this, and I’ve always appreciated his wisdom. As the founder of In Touch Ministries, he exemplified what a minister should be. Though he is now with the Lord, his teachings continue to bless so many, including me.

When motivation feels low, remember—motivation isn’t constant. It rises and falls, and that’s okay. Sometimes your soul is simply asking for rest, or the Holy Spirit is inviting you to slow down and be present instead of pushing yourself to produce. Yet there is also faithfulness in the small steps we take, even when we don’t feel like taking them.

So pause.

Feet on the floor.

Hands relaxed.

Take a deep breath and look around at where you are right now.

Ask yourself: What is the very next small task in front of me?

Not the whole list—just the next step.

You don’t need enthusiasm or guaranteed results. All God asks is that you show up in this moment with whatever strength you have.

Philippians 2:13 (NASB) reminds us, “For it is God who is at work in you, both to will and to work for His good pleasure.”

So when you go to work, try shifting your perspective from “I have to go” to “I get to work for the Lord today.”

Our thoughts shape our attitude, and small acts done for Him matter more than grand gestures.

Jesus tells us in Matthew 6:34, “Do not worry about tomorrow… Each day has enough trouble of its own.”

Today is what God has placed in your hands. He’s not asking you to move mountains—just to be faithful where you stand. The outcome is His. Showing up is yours.

Rest isn’t about having everything figured out. It’s about trusting a Father who sees, knows, and loves us completely.

Prayer:

Lord, thank You for Your steady love. Help me to show up for the task or person in front of me today and to trust You with the rest. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Go gently into your next task, knowing God sees your willingness and honors your faithfulness.

Have a blessed day.

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The Seven Nights of Kwanzaa: A Celebration of Unity, Purpose, and Joy

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Kwanzaa is a meaningful celebration observed over seven nights, from December 26 through January 1. It is a time to honor culture, community, family, and shared values that uplift not just one group of people, but humanity as a whole.

Each night, a candle is lit on the Kinara, and one principle is reflected upon. Together, these principles remind us how deeply connected we all are and how powerful it is when we live with intention and compassion.

The Seven Principles of Kwanzaa (Nguzo Saba)

Night One – Umoja (Unity)

Unity within our families, communities, and the world. A reminder that we are stronger together.

Night Two – Kujichagulia (Self-Determination)

Defining ourselves, speaking our truth, and honoring who we are without apology.

Night Three – Ujima (Collective Work and Responsibility)

Lifting one another up and recognizing that when one of us struggles, we all feel it.

Night Four – Ujamaa (Cooperative Economics)

Supporting one another’s dreams, businesses, and growth, because shared success benefits everyone.

Night Five – Nia (Purpose)

Living with intention and using our gifts to serve something greater than ourselves.

Night Six – Kuumba (Creativity)

Leaving the world better than we found it through creativity, kindness, and action.

Night Seven – Imani (Faith)

Faith in ourselves, in one another, and in the belief that love, justice, and hope will always rise.

A Truth That Unites Us All

We all bleed red.

The only difference is the color of our skin,

and that difference should make no difference at all.

Kwanzaa reminds us that celebrating culture does not divide us. It teaches us understanding, respect, and how to uplift one another. Joy grows when we make room for everyone.

Whether you celebrate Kwanzaa or simply reflect at the close of the year, may these seven nights inspire unity, purpose, creativity, and faith that carries forward into the year ahead.

Happy Kwanzaa.

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Merry Christmas

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Merry Christmas.

Today is more than lights, gifts, and gatherings. Today we celebrate the birth of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.

Jesus was born in a humble stable, laid in a manger, welcomed by shepherds, and announced by angels. God chose simplicity and humility to bring His Son into the world. From the very beginning, Jesus showed us that His message was for everyone.

Jesus came not with earthly power, but with love, mercy, and compassion. He lived a life of service—healing the sick, caring for the forgotten, forgiving freely, and teaching us to love one another.

As we celebrate Christmas, let us remember that being more like Jesus is not just for one day or one season. We are called to help others, show kindness, and live with love every day—not only on holidays, but all year long.

May we carry the meaning of Christmas in our hearts and in our actions, remembering that hope was born in a manger and love came into the world through Christ.

Merry Christmas. May the peace and love of Jesus fill your heart and your home.

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The True Meaning of Christmas: Gratitude, Love, and Reflection

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As we approach Christmas, it’s important to remember what this season truly represents. At its core, Christmas is the celebration of the birth of our Lord Jesus Christ—God’s gift of love and hope to the world. It’s a time to reflect on the profound significance of His coming and what it means for our lives.

For many of us, Christmas is also about being together with family and friends. If you’re fortunate enough to see your loved ones, take a moment to be grateful. Make time to talk to them see them because you never know just how long we will be on this earth. Forgive and move on from pettiness and anger.

Many would love to see their loved ones again while others are too busy to appreciate the family they have.

These moments of love, warmth, and connection are precious gifts worth cherishing. Whether gathered around a table, sharing laughter, or simply enjoying each other’s presence, these are the blessings that make this season special.

However, we also remember those who may not be able to be with their loved ones—whether they are far away, separated by distance, or have passed on.

Our hearts go out to them, and we pray for their comfort. Let us lift them up in prayer, asking God to bring peace to those longing for the presence of loved ones and to comfort those grieving during this time.

Ultimately, Christmas calls us back to the true reason we celebrate—the birth of Jesus Christ, who came into the world to bring salvation, love, and eternal hope. Let’s open our hearts to divine love, extend kindness to those around us, and give thanks for the precious gift of life and faith.

May this season be a time of reflection, gratitude, and love—embracing the true meaning of Christmas in our hearts and sharing that love with others.

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Women of Scripture: Mary, the Mother of Jesus

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Women of Scripture: Mary, the Mother of Jesus — Courage, Humility, and Obedient Faith

Mary, the mother of Our Lord Jesus stands as one of the most profound examples of faithful obedience in all of Scripture. Her story is not just a Christmas narrative—it is a daily invitation for how we, too, can live with courage, humility, and trust in God.

Mary was young, ordinary, and living a quiet life when God chose her for an extraordinary purpose. When the angel Gabriel appeared and told her she would conceive by the Holy Spirit, Mary faced a moment that could have been filled with fear, confusion, or refusal. Instead, she responded with words that still echo through generations:

“I am the Lord’s servant. May your word to me be fulfilled.”

Those words reveal the heart of Mary. She didn’t ask for guarantees. She didn’t demand explanations. She didn’t negotiate the cost. She trusted God completely—even knowing the personal risk, social judgment, and uncertainty that awaited her.

Mary’s Strength Was Quiet—but Unshakable

Mary’s faith was not loud or attention-seeking. It was steady, reflective, and deeply rooted in trust. Scripture often tells us that Mary “pondered these things in her heart.” She listened more than she spoke. She reflected before reacting. She trusted God’s promises even when she didn’t yet understand them.

From the manger to the cross, Mary remained faithful. She carried Jesus in her womb, raised Him with love, and later stood at the foot of the cross, witnessing unimaginable sorrow—yet still believing God’s plan was at work.

What We Can Learn from Mary Today

1. Say yes to God, even when it’s uncomfortable.

Mary teaches us that obedience doesn’t require full understanding—only trust. God often calls us into things that stretch us beyond our comfort.

2. Humility invites God’s power.

Mary didn’t see herself as important or worthy; she saw herself as available. God works mightily through humble hearts.

3. Faith means trusting God with your reputation.

Mary risked misunderstanding and judgment, choosing obedience over approval. Today, we are reminded to seek God’s will—not public opinion.

4. Strength doesn’t always look loud.

Mary’s strength was found in perseverance, reflection, and quiet endurance. In a noisy world, her example calls us back to stillness and trust.

5. Treasure God’s work in your heart.

Mary teaches us to slow down, reflect, and hold God’s promises close—especially in seasons of uncertainty.

Becoming More Like Mary

To be more like Mary today means living with surrendered faith. It means trusting God when the path is unclear, choosing obedience when it’s costly, and believing that God can work through our ordinary lives in extraordinary ways.

Mary reminds us that God doesn’t look for perfection—He looks for willingness.

May we, like Mary, respond to God with open hearts and willing spirits, saying each day:

“Lord, let it be done according to Your word.”

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The Meaning and Story of Hanukkah

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Hanukkah, also known as the Festival of Lights, is a time of remembrance, faith, and hope. It is celebrated for eight nights and honors the power of light overcoming darkness, and faith standing strong even in difficult times.

The story of Hanukkah goes back over two thousand years to a time when the Jewish people were forbidden to practice their faith. After years of struggle, a small group known as the Maccabees stood up for their beliefs and fought for religious freedom. Against great odds, they reclaimed the Holy Temple in Jerusalem.

When it came time to rededicate the Temple, there was only a small amount of sacred oil left to light the menorah, enough for just one day. Miraculously, that oil burned for eight days, long enough for new oil to be prepared. This miracle is at the heart of Hanukkah.

Each night, a candle is lit on the menorah, adding more light as the days go on. This reminds us that even a small light can grow brighter, and that hope increases when it is shared.

Hanukkah is also a time for family and tradition. Families gather to light the menorah, say prayers, sing songs, share meals, and remember the importance of faith, perseverance, and gratitude. Games are played, gifts may be exchanged, and stories are shared from one generation to the next.

At its core, Hanukkah is a reminder to stand firm in who you are, to protect what is sacred, and to let your light shine in the world. Even in times of challenge, faith has the power to carry us through.

May this season of Hanukkah bring peace to your home, light to your heart, and hope that lasts far beyond these eight nights.

Happy Hanukkah.

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Women of Scripture: Elizabeth — Faithful Waiting, Quiet Strength

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Elizabeth, the mother of John the Baptist, is one of the most beautiful examples in Scripture of faithful waiting, humble obedience, and unwavering trust in God.

For many years, Elizabeth lived with deep disappointment. She and her husband, Zechariah, longed for a child, yet none came. In biblical times, barrenness carried not only sorrow but social shame. Still, Scripture tells us Elizabeth was righteous before God, living faithfully even when her prayers seemed unanswered. Her life reminds us that faith is not proven by blessings—but by perseverance.

Then, when Elizabeth was well beyond childbearing years, God did the impossible. Through His grace, she conceived a son. That child became John the Baptist, the prophet chosen to prepare the way for Jesus Christ. What felt like a lifetime of silence was suddenly transformed into a miracle with eternal purpose.

Elizabeth’s story teaches us something powerful: God’s timing is not late. What He promises, He fulfills—often in ways that exceed anything we imagined.

But Elizabeth’s faith didn’t stop with her miracle. When Mary came to visit her, newly pregnant with Jesus, Elizabeth responded not with jealousy or comparison, but with joy, humility, and spiritual insight. She recognized God’s work in Mary immediately and spoke blessing instead of doubt. Her words lifted another woman up instead of centering herself.

What We Can Learn from Elizabeth Today

1. Faithful waiting matters.

Elizabeth trusted God even when years passed without answers. Waiting does not mean God has forgotten—it often means He is preparing something greater.

2. Obedience doesn’t require understanding.

She lived righteously without knowing how her story would end. Faith is walking forward without the full picture.

3. Celebrate others, even in your own season.

Elizabeth rejoiced in Mary’s calling while still carrying her own miracle. She shows us how to encourage, not compete.

4. God uses ordinary lives for extraordinary purposes.

Elizabeth wasn’t famous or powerful, yet her obedience placed her in God’s redemptive plan for the world.

Elizabeth’s life reminds us that no season is wasted, no prayer is unheard, and no woman is overlooked by God. When we remain faithful—especially in the waiting—we open ourselves to blessings far greater than we could imagine.

May we learn to wait like Elizabeth: with patience, trust, humility, and hope—believing that God is still working, even when we cannot yet see it

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Women of Scripture: Deborah – Strength, Courage, and God-Given Authority

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Deborah’s story, found in Judges chapters 4–5, stands as one of the most powerful examples of spiritual strength and leadership in Scripture. At a time when Israel was oppressed and fearful, Deborah rose—not by force or ambition—but by obedience, wisdom, and trust in God.

Deborah’s Story

Deborah was both a prophetess and a judge of Israel, the only woman to hold this role. She sat beneath the Palm of Deborah, where people came to her for counsel and justice. When God revealed that Israel would be delivered from oppression, He spoke through Deborah and instructed her to summon Barak to lead the army.

Barak hesitated. He would only go if Deborah went with him. Deborah agreed but she made it clear that the victory would ultimately highlight God’s power, not human pride. As foretold, the enemy commander Sisera was defeated, and the final blow came through another woman, Jael, reinforcing the truth that God often works through those the world underestimates.

Deborah’s leadership was not loud or domineering. It was anchored in faith, discernment, and courage. She trusted God’s word fully and acted decisively when the moment required it.

Deborah’s Strength

Deborah’s strength came from:

Listening to God before acting Speaking truth boldly, even when others were afraid Stepping forward when leadership was needed, not waiting to be asked Trusting God’s power over her own limitations

She did not doubt that God would show up—she moved because she knew He already had.

Drawing Strength as Deborah Did

Like Deborah, we are often called to step into moments that feel overwhelming—family challenges, leadership roles, advocacy, or simply standing firm when it would be easier to stay silent. Deborah reminds us that strength is not about physical power or position. It is about obedience, faith, and courage rooted in God.

When we pause to listen, trust what God places on our hearts, and move forward despite fear, we access the same strength Deborah did. God does not call the equipped—He equips the called.

Scripture for Strength

Judges 4:14 (NIV)

“Then Deborah said to Barak, ‘Go! This is the day the Lord has given Sisera into your hands. Has not the Lord gone ahead of you?’”

Judges 5:7 (NIV)

“Village life in Israel ceased, ceased until I, Deborah, arose, arose a mother in Israel.”

A Prayer for Strength When We Must Rise

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for the example of Deborah—her faith, her courage, and her obedience to You. When fear tries to silence us or doubt clouds our path, remind us that You go before us. Help us listen for Your voice and trust the strength You place within us. Give us wisdom to speak truth, courage to act when called, and peace knowing that victory belongs to You. When we must rise, let us rise in faith, just as Deborah did. Amen.

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A Thankful Thanksgiving- Story

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The sun had barely risen when Sarah placed her last pumpkin loaf on the counter. The house was quiet—too quiet for Thanksgiving morning. For the first time in years, her family was scattered: one child away at Texas A&M college, another living across the country in Maine, a daughter who was angry at a brother chose to stay in Arkansas and her husband working a holiday shift at the hospital.

She sighed, poured herself a cup of cinnamon coffee, and sat by the window. “Lord,” she whispered, “I know this day is supposed to be full of gratitude, but it feels a little empty.”

Just then, her phone buzzed. A message. Then another. Photos from her kids. A silly selfie from her husband. A “Happy Thanksgiving, love you” from an old friend.

As she scrolled, her heart warmed. She remembered what her pastor always said:

“Thanksgiving isn’t about who’s at the table—it’s about Who we’re giving thanks to.”

Sarah set her phone down, folded her hands, and smiled. She wasn’t alone at all. God was with her, filling the quiet house with His peace. She felt wrapped in a gentle presence, like a soft blanket around her shoulders.

And as she bowed her head, her gratitude poured out—not for the feast, or the noise, or the perfect gathering—but for the simple truth that God shows up in every place, every season, every kind of Thanksgiving.

Prayer for Thanksgiving

Heavenly Father,

On this day of gratitude, we thank You for Your goodness, Your presence, and Your unfailing love. Whether we celebrate surrounded by family, gathered with friends, or sitting quietly on our own, remind us that we are never truly alone—because You are always near.

For those who feel lonely today, wrap them in Your comfort. Let Your peace settle gently into their homes and hearts. For those celebrating with others, fill their gatherings with joy, patience, and kindness.

Bless the food, bless the hands that prepared it, and bless every soul reading this prayer. May our hearts be filled with thanksgiving, not just today, but every day, as we remember Your faithfulness.

In Jesus’ name, Amen.

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Obedience — Living in Love

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Obedience — Living in Love

When you accept Jesus as Lord of your life, you declare your trust and commitment to obey Him because of His incredible love for us. True faith produces obedience—it’s the natural response to God’s grace. As Paul taught in Romans, obedience of faith is vital, and disobedience stems from unbelief. If we truly believe in Jesus, our actions will reflect that belief; we will walk in love.

Reflection and Application:

  • What does it mean to be connected to Jesus?
    Being connected to Jesus means trusting Him completely, following His teachings, and allowing His love to guide our actions.
  • Have you been involved in church or small groups?
    Engaging in fellowship helps us grow in faith and walk in obedience. If you’re not yet involved, consider joining a community of believers.
  • Have you been baptized or are working toward it?
    Baptism is a step of obedience that publicly declares your faith in Christ.
  • Are you spending regular time with God in His Word and prayer?
    Daily devotional time helps deepen your relationship with God and reinforces your faith.

What Is True Love? (1 Corinthians 13:4-7)
Love is patience, kindness, humility, and endurance. It’s not jealous, boastful, proud, rude, self-seeking, easily angered, or keeps records of wrongs.


Most challenging?
Being patient and forgiving is often hardest to practice. Because people can hurt our feelings, especially those we love. When they are mean to us or do foolish things.


How to allow the Spirit to produce this love?
Pray daily, ask the Holy Spirit to fill you with love, and practice these qualities intentionally.

The Fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23)
Love is just one fruit of the Spirit. Others include joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.

What qualities need growth?
If you notice a lack of patience or gentleness, ask the Spirit to cultivate these traits.


How to let the Spirit work?
Stay close to God through prayer and Bible study, and be receptive to His guidance.

Loving God and Others
Jesus summarized the greatest commandments: Love God and love your neighbor.

  • Why two commands?
    Because loving God naturally leads to loving others, and vice versa. They’re inseparable.
  • What does it mean to love God with all your heart, soul, and mind?
    To love Him completely—putting Him first in everything, seeking His will, and obeying His Word.
  • How does loving God influence loving others?
    It fills us with His love, making us more compassionate, forgiving, and patient.
  • Who is my neighbor?
    Anyone in need—family, friends, strangers, even those difficult to love.
  • Who are the people in your life who may not feel loved?

Living in Full Obedience
Obedience to God isn’t optional; it’s about living all His Word—both the easy and the hard parts. Don’t come to church for appearances or pick what fits your lifestyle. Live fully in His love, practicing what He teaches, and let His Spirit guide you toward genuine obedience.

Heavenly Father, Guide our hearts and minds to walk faithfully in Your way. Help us to be obedient to Your will and draw closer to You each day. Fill us with Your Spirit so that we may shine Your light brightly to others, illuminating their paths with love and truth. May our lives be a beacon of hope and grace, bringing glory to Your name. Amen.