Hello, beautiful souls! 🌼

Today, I want to talk about something that weighs heavily on many of our hearts—the challenge of letting go of relationships that no longer nourish our spirits. It’s a difficult path, one that often comes with feelings of heartache and confusion. But sometimes, we must release the people we love, not out of indifference, but out of a deep-seated care for our own well-being.

Life is a beautiful tapestry woven together by the many relationships we cherish family , friends, co workers etc. However, it’s important to remember that not every thread remains strong forever. There are times when the connections we hold dear begin to fray. If you’ve ever found yourself in a situation where you feel like you’re giving more than you’re receiving, it can leave you feeling drained and unappreciated.

I’m not talking about giving money or gifts … I’m talking about giving of one’s self, our love.

Letting go doesn’t mean that we stop loving those individuals. As believers, we are called to love others as Christ loves us. This love transcends boundaries; it is patient, kind, and forgiving. We can continue to pray for those we once held close, wishing them happiness and fulfillment, even if our paths are diverging. Remember, our prayers can be powerful, and they can bring peace not just to them but to us as well.

Yet, in the midst of this love, we also need to recognize our worth. When it becomes clear that we don’t matter to someone as much as they matter to us, it’s essential to honor ourselves and our emotional health. It’s okay to step back and create space. Sometimes, the greatest act of love we can show ourselves is the willingness to let go.

Sure, it can be painful. We may find ourselves wishing for that phone call, that coffee date, or even just a simple text to check in. But instead of holding onto those hopes, we can choose to focus on our growth and healing. The Bible beautifully reminds us, “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” (Jeremiah 29:11). Trust that God has good things in store for you.

As we move forward, let’s embrace the beauty of new beginnings. Spend time nurturing relationships that lift you up and cultivate friendships that bring joy into your life. Surround yourself with those who support you, uplift you, and see your value.

So, if you’re in a season of letting go, remember: it’s okay to prioritize your heart. Continue to pray for those you’ve had to step away from, but also keep moving forward with an open heart, ready to receive the love and support that God has in store for you.

You’re not alone in this journey; we’re all learning and growing together. Let’s keep lifting each other up as we navigate the complexities of love, loss, and new beginnings.

With love and blessings,

Deb ✝️

I always felt the pressure to have the utmost respect for the Pope. Sometimes, it seemed like the faith placed him on a pedestal, almost alongside God. But personally, I never fully shared that reverence. After all, he is a man—not Jesus, not God—and I haven’t always agreed with everything he had to say.

My experiences in Catholic school shaped my perspective. I witnessed moments where not all nuns and priests embodied the very Christian values they preached. It was disheartening to see acts of punishment, like being smacked with paddles, or swated with a pojer ( the long stick they used to point at things on the black board or slam on the test when too many of us were talking in class) that certainly didn’t feel loving or compassionate. I know, because on once or twice I was on the receiving end of that long poker and paddle , and the verbal abuse was regular.

Because I approached my faith differently, I often faced criticism. The principal who was a nun and the Monsignor labeled me as not being a “good “ Catholic all because I had a mind of my own and thoughts.

Despite that, today, I offer prayers for those mourning the loss of the Pope and for those wondering who will follow in his footsteps.

Pope Francis was a kind and dedicated man, who truly devoted his life to serving God and his faith. May his family and followers find comfort, knowing he is now resting with our Father in Heaven.

I left the Catholic faith after my divorce of being married to an abuser for 10 years and the church kept trying to convince me to stay even longer;

And when I didn’t, they decided to excommunicate me which was fine and that’s when I found Highway, Tabernacle in the shield of faith ministry and make sure my daughter got a Christian education just not Catholic education although she is baptized Catholic

You see I may not have been a good catholic girl based on their opinions, but I was a good Christian. I never recall in religion class learning about the Bible. Just how to act.

I don’t hold my experience against all catholic church’s :

Because I find the beauty of the Catholic Church in their services.

The beauty of the altar- I still till this day will often visit various churches of all denominations to sit there in silence, and say a prayer.

Prayer in Remembrance of Pope Francis

Heavenly Father,

Today we come before You as we remember the life and legacy of Pope Francis. We thank You for the gift of his leadership, wisdom, and compassion that inspired millions around the world. He dedicated his life to serving others, promoting peace, and spreading Your love.

Lord, may we carry forward his teachings of humility, kindness, and love.

In this time of mourning, we ask for Your comfort for all who are grieving his passing. May Your peace surround them and the Church and guide us as we continue on our spiritual journeys.

We pray for Pope Francis’ soul, asking that he finds eternal rest in Your loving embrace. May his example continue to encourage us to live with faith, hope, and charity, reaching out to those in need and advocating for justice and mercy.

In Your name, we pray. Amen.

Dear Lord,
Thank You for this beautiful Sunday morning, a new beginning adorned with Your grace. I am truly grateful for Your boundless love and for the gift of Your Son, Jesus, who sacrificed everything for me. Guide me today through Your Holy Spirit, filling me with the courage to face challenges and the wisdom to walk in Your ways. May my heart remain light, my actions be filled with kindness, and my faith steadfast, trusting that You hold my future in Your hands. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Sunday is a time for reflection and worship. Rejoice in the Lord and remember that His mercies are new every morning. Thank you for your Grace.

Today your heart be filled with hope and gratitude.

Ephesians 2:8–9

For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast. For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them. 

By grace refers to God’s favor upon those who have transgressed his law and sinned against him. But grace may also be understood as a “power” in these verses. God’s grace not only offers salvation but also secures it. Saved refers to deliverance from God’s wrath at the final judgment (Rom. 5:9); “by grace you have been saved” is repeated from Eph. 2:5 for emphasis. The verb form for “have been saved” (Gk. sesōsmenoi, perfect tense) communicates that the Christian’s salvation is fully secured. through faith.Faith is a confident trust and reliance upon Christ Jesus and is the only means by which one can obtain salvation. this. The Greek pronoun is neuter, while “grace” and “faith” are feminine. Accordingly, “this” points to the whole process of “salvation by grace through faith” as being the gift of God and not something that we can accomplish ourselves. This use of the neuter pronoun to take in the whole of a complex idea is quite common in Greek (e.g., 6:1); its use here makes it clear that faith, no less than grace, is a gift of God. Salvation, therefore, in every respect, is not your own doing.