Month: August 2024

Posted in Blogging, Obeying God

The Power to Obey: Activating Faith Through Action”

Posted on by ChronicallyGratefulDeb


Today we are called to explore a powerful theme that lies at the heart of our faith: obedience.

In a world filled with challenges, misunderstandings, and unmet expectations, we often find ourselves grappling with how to respond to those who hurt us, how to step into roles that stretch our capabilities, and how to follow God’s instructions even when they seem daunting. The power to obey is not merely about following rules; it is an act of faith that transforms our hearts and our lives.

The Challenge of Forgiveness
Let’s begin with forgiveness. When someone hurts us deeply, our instinct may be to hold on to that pain, to seek retribution or to retreat into bitterness. However, in Matthew 6:14-15, Jesus teaches us that “if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you.” Forgiveness may feel impossible, but it is a command from God. You don’t have to become their friend or hang out with them, but you should obey God and forgive them.

When we choose to forgive, we activate the power of obedience. This power frees us from the chains of resentment and allows God’s grace to flow through us. Consider Joseph in Genesis. After being betrayed by his brothers, he could have chosen revenge, but instead, he forgave them and said, “You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good” (Genesis 50:20). His obedience to forgive transformed not only his own life but the lives of many others.

Stepping Into the Unknown
Next, let’s talk about stepping into positions or responsibilities we feel unqualified for. How many times have we hesitated to take a job, lead a ministry, or embark on a new venture because we doubted our ability? Yet, God often calls us to places beyond our comfort zones.

In 1 Samuel 16, God chose David to be king when he was just a shepherd boy, seemingly unqualified for such a noble position. But David didn’t allow his insecurity to dictate his response. He obeyed God’s call, and through his faithfulness, he became a man after God’s own heart.

When we accept God’s call, even in our unpreparedness, we activate His power within us. Philippians 4:13 reminds us, “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” It is not about our qualifications but about our willingness to obey and trust in God’s equipping.

Acting on God’s Instructions
Finally, let’s discuss the importance of acting upon God’s instructions. James 1:22 exhorts us to be “doers of the word, and not hearers only.” When God gives us guidance, whether through Scripture, prayer, or the promptings of the Holy Spirit, it’s crucial to act.

Imagine Moses at the Red Sea. Faced with an insurmountable obstacle and the threat of Pharaoh’s army, what if Moses had hesitated? Instead, he obeyed God’s instructions to lift his staff, and the waters parted. His action in obedience activated God’s miraculous power to deliver His people.


Remember that the power to obey is transformative. When we forgive those who have wronged us, we release both them and ourselves from the burdens of unforgiveness. When we step into roles we feel unqualified for, we open ourselves to God’s training and growth. And when we act on God’s instructions, we witness His mighty hand at work.

Let us, therefore, commit ourselves to activate this power through obedience. Let’s choose to forgive, embrace new opportunities, and act faithfully on God’s Word. As we walk in obedience, we will experience the fullness of life that comes from trusting God completely. May we pray for strength and courage to obey, knowing that our faithful actions invite divine power into our lives. Amen.

Posted in Faith

Living in the Good Old Days: Finding Joy in Every Moment

Posted on by ChronicallyGratefulDeb

There was a time back 1980s, when my world was bustling with familyAnd friends . It was a different era, one that feels like a warm embrace when I revisit the memories. My father passed away far too young at 56, but before that heart-wrenching moment, I experienced many beautiful gatherings that still warms my heart. After leaving my first husband, I found solace again among my family—parents, grandma Thelma , aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends—I remember we’d all be seated around the living room, or dinner table. In that instant, I recognized the importance of cherishing those people and those moments together. I realized, perhaps instinctively, that we were living in the good old days.

It’s all too easy to let life’s chaos pull us from these precious connections. Over time, people move on, they grow apart or, sadly, pass away. Yet, I remember vividly how I once looked around that crowded table and thought, “This is it; this is what matters.” Each laugh, every shared story was a testament to our lives intertwined. Today, I urge you—do not take these moments for granted. The people in your life now may not always be there.

In today’s fast-paced world, it’s tempting to race toward what’s next, whether it’s career goals or personal milestones. But life has a way of reminding us to slow down.

I sometimes would catch myself becoming overwhelmed—stressed about trivial matters or irritated by minor disagreements. During those times, I have to remind myself that today is a gift from God, an opportunity to create memories that will eventually become the good old days.

I recall a specific moment from my childhood, preparing for my Holy Communion. Rushing with my parents, I had my trusty Etch-a-Sketch in hand, almost completed with a drawing for my dad. The urgency in their voices echoed in my ears: “We’re going to be late!” But I was lost in my little world, begging for just one more minute. Finally, when I presented my creation—a flower with “Best Dad in the World” written across the bottom—his eyes glistened, and time stood still. That memory reminds me that sometimes, we need to pause our rush and soak in the simplicity of small gestures. He didn’t seem like he was in such a rush anymore. After seeing this, he gave me a big hug and told me how much he loved it.

Years later, my granddaughter made me something equally special—a star, crafted from melted plastic beads, with a “G” for “Gaga” in the center. Even though it was two decades ago, I still keep it prominently displayed in my kitchen, a daily reminder of her love. The laughter we share and the small tokens of affection are the treasures we should hold dear.

Many chase monumental moments—the grand wedding, the dream home—but I live for the small joys. A random phone call, a handwritten card, the homemade gifts from loved ones—these are the moments that fill my heart with warmth. Life’s beauty often resides in these everyday miracles.

Every day offers us opportunities for joy if we choose to recognize them—the sunrise, the fresh snow, the laughter echoing in our homes. I cherish the moments of loud and boisterous, moments filled with the kind of laughter that brings tears to our eyes. I remember my mother, who could turn a simple afternoon into a festival of laughter with her sisters. Their joy was infectious, reminding me that happiness is often born from the simplest moments.

As we navigate life, we sometimes overlook the blessings surrounding us. We wait for grand achievements while missing out on the extraordinary fabric of daily life. The truth is, there’s no such thing as an ordinary day. Each day is a divine gift, an opportunity to celebrate existence.

Yes, we may grieve for those we’ve lost, and their absence can leave a void. But they are at peace and whole in a realm beyond our understanding. We mustn’t allow grief to consume our ability to find joy in the present. Let’s honor their memories by embracing the life we have right now, cherishing each connection, each shared laugh.

So when you receive that random text instead of a call, celebrate it! It means someone thought of you, which is a beautiful reminder of love and connection.

As I reflect on these thoughts, I’d like to offer a prayer for those who are feeling sad, grieving, or facing illness:

Prayer for Joy in Ordinary Moments

Heavenly Father,
In our times of sorrow and uncertainty, remind us to look for the joy hidden in everyday moments. May we not overlook the small blessings—the laughter of loved ones, the beauty of nature, the warmth of a shared meal. Help us find comfort in the connections we still hold dear. Grant us the strength to celebrate the lives of those we miss while cherishing the gift of today. May we embody gratitude, appreciating the simple joys that bind us together . Let us remember that today is part of someone’s “good ol day”

Amen

Posted in Be Kind

The Power of Kindness in a Cruel World

Posted on by ChronicallyGratefulDeb

The Power of Kindness in a Cruel World

In a society that often seems consumed by chaos and cruelty, it can feel disheartening to witness the darkness that shadows our daily lives. The news bombards us with stories of violence and heartache—like the recent tragedy in NE Ohio where a simple encounter turned deadly. A man, allegedly hit a 25-year-old woman’s car in line at the drive-through. She asked the drive-through person to contact 911 now who knows what may have led up to this, but that’s irrelevant because the man get out if his vehicle walked up to the young woman in the drive-through window, trying to get her breakfast lunch or dinner and shot her dead, then went back to his vehicle. Not sure if it was still at the drive-through when he did this. But he shot himself and what was the purpose of being at Taco Bell? Did he really intend to go there to shoot this person? Was it premeditated? What makes a person snap or are they just evil? . But now, this beautiful 25 year old, her future is gone her family and friends are mourning all because a man for whatever reason shot and killed her and then himself .

In another incident in Florida, a couple’s call for help turned into a nightmare as the man chose to ambushe police officers, leading to devastating consequences. These stories remind us that not everyone embodies kindness, or goodness.

And in the case of actor, Matthew Perry, you will see where a person who was struggling with addiction recovery relapse that happened to have money was taken advantage of by so many people, because they didn’t see him as a human being. They saw him as a meal ticket, and a way to get money.

Just like a couple years ago actress singer, Britney Spears all her life was being controlled by a parent. What is it justified? Maybe what is it right? No because they’re greed took hold and instead of concern , they were afraid of losing the power and control so she could no longer be possibly manipulated any people we know love trust hired to do this just imagine what a total stranger would do in today society not everyone, but there are a lot of evil people in this world .

You see on the news every day sadly, an animal is abused.

No one with a kind heart would allow any of the above comments that I wrote happen. You have to have a dark soul to abuse people to abuse animals to purposely go after and hurt another individual or to take advantage of others, kindness for your gain.

I would like to see more good news on TV I would like to hear more good news on the radio I would like to read more good news in newspapers. I would like to have the focus more on doing good than seeing those who are cruel .

It’s easy to feel overwhelmed and discouraged by such occurrences, but we must remember that we can choose our responses. Just because some people choose to act like monsters doesn’t mean we have to follow suit. It’s essential to strive to be good humans despite those around us who may not share our values.

The Importance of Doing Right

The essence of being a good person lies in doing right by others without the expectation of receiving anything in return. We shouldn’t measure our kindness by how it’s reciprocated. Life will always present us with individuals who may take advantage of our goodwill or respond with hate , cruelty or hostility. That’s not our fault or responsibility. What matters is our intention and action.

When we choose to be kind, even in the face of adversity, we contribute to a brighter world. This doesn’t mean we should allow ourselves to be taken advantage of; it simply means we must maintain our integrity and compassion.

Choosing kindness can have a ripple effect. Small acts of kindness like holding the door open, offering a smile, or lending an ear to someone going through a tough time can make a difference. These simple gestures not only uplift others but also enrich our own lives.

In a world filled with negativity, let’s commit to being the change we wish to see. Let’s choose kindness, understanding, and compassion every day. It starts with us, and together we can create a more hopeful and humane world.

Posted in Faith

When Life Throws Us Curveballs, We Need to Plant Our Feet Firmly in God More Than Ever

Posted on by ChronicallyGratefulDeb

Life has way of surprising us, often when least expect it. Just when we think we have everything figured out, circumstances change, throwing us into a whirlwind of emotions, be it grief, illness, or any unexpected challenge that leaves us feeling lost and uncertain. In these moments of turmoil, it is crucial to anchor ourselves in our faith and cling to the promise of God’s unwavering presence.

When facing the storms of life, it’s easy to become overwhelmed by our circumstances. Grief can feel like a heavy weight, illness can sap our strength, and sudden changes can leave us feeling disoriented. An illness can leave us questioning everything even when we try to keep the faith. A job loss can leave us fearful, an addiction can gave us bargaining with the devil, not just for ourselves but for the ones that we love who gave addiction.

Yet, amidst these challenges, we must remember that we are not alone. God invites us to lean on Him, to find refuge in His love, and to trust in His plan for our lives.

Planting Our Feet Firmly in Faith

To plant our feet firmly in God means to establish our faith on a foundation that is unshakeable. The winds may howl, and the waves may crash around us, but we can find solace in the knowledge that God is our steadfast rock.

One of the Bible verses that encapsulates this truth is Psalm 46:1-2: “God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear though the earth gives way, though the mountains be moved into the heart of the sea.” This verse reassures us that even when the world seems to fall apart, God is there, providing comfort and strength.

Holding on to Hope

It is in our most challenging times that hope becomes our lifeline. Hope reminds us that every season, no matter how dark, is temporary. God is working behind the scenes, orchestrating plans for our good even when we cannot see them.

As we confront our struggles, we must hold tightly to our faith in God’s goodness. In Jeremiah 29:11, we are reminded of God’s promises: “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” This powerful message encourages us to maintain our faith and trust that a brighter tomorrow awaits.

Never Lose Hope

In moments of despair, it can feel as though hope is slipping away, but we must never lose sight of it. Hope fuels our faith, igniting the belief that better days are ahead. When we face grief, illness, or unexpected challenges, let us turn to prayer, seek encouragement from Scripture, and surround ourselves with a community of believers.

Remember, faith is not the absence of doubt; it is the decision to trust God despite our doubts. By planting our feet firmly in His promises, we foster resilience and courage to face life’s curveballs head-on.

Whatever storm you may be weathering today, be assured that God walks with you through the valley. Embrace your faith, plant your feet firmly in God, and never lose hope, for He is your refuge and strength, guiding you every step of the way.

Have a blessed day

Posted in Life

Finding Peace: God’s Remedy for Stress

Posted on by ChronicallyGratefulDeb

In today’s fast-paced world, stress can like a constant companion. Whether it emanates from work pressures, personal relationships, or the overwhelming demands of daily life, it often leaves us feeling anxious and fatigued. In these moments of turmoil, we may instinctively seek solace in various distractions or quick fixes, but what if the true remedy for stress lies in a more profound source?

The apostle Paul offers us timeless advice in Philippians 4:6, saying, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.” This verse serves as a powerful reminder that when faced with anxiety, we are called to turn our hearts toward God through prayer.

The Power of Prayer

Prayer is not merely a ritual; it’s a lifeline a direct connection to God. When we pray, we open our hearts and minds, surrendering our worries and fears. Rather than trying to control every aspect of our lives, we acknowledge that we are not alone. God invites us to share our burdens and requests with Him, allowing His love and wisdom to envelop us.

1. Acknowledgment of Our Limitations

The first step in dealing with stress is recognizing that we cannot handle everything on our own. Life is inherently unpredictable, and trying to control every situation can drain our energy and peace. By bringing our worries to God, we admit our limitations and release our need for control. This act of surrender is liberating it allows us to shift our focus from our problems to God’s infinite power.

2. Supplication with Thanksgiving

Paul emphasizes the importance of combining prayer with thanksgiving. In a culture that often highlights what we lack, gratitude shifts our perspective. When we take time to reflect on our blessings, no matter how small, we cultivate a heart that is grateful rather than anxious. This doesn’t mean we dismiss our struggles; instead, we recognize the good alongside them.

Think of it this way: when stressful situations arise, try making a list of things you are thankful for. Not only does this practice remind us of God’s goodness, but it also helps us find clarity in chaos.

3. The Promise of Peace

The most beautiful promise that follows Paul’s instruction is found in Philippians 4:7: “And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” This peace is not the absence of trouble but a deep-seated assurance that God is with us amid our storms.

When we commit our worries to God, He grants us a peace that surpasses human comprehension. It acts as a shield for our hearts and minds, enabling us to navigate life’s challenges without being overwhelmed.

Finding Comfort in Community

While individual prayer is vital, don’t underestimate the power of community. Sharing your burdens with trusted friends or family members can provide encouragement and support. When we gather, pray, and uplift one another, we experience God’s presence in profound ways.

Remember

Stress is an unavoidable part of life, but it doesn’t have to define us. By turning to prayer, offering our worries to God, and cultivating gratitude, we can experience a peace that transcends our understanding.

Let’s remember the profound truth in Philippians 4:6-7: God is ever-present, ready to hear our cries and comfort our hearts. Whatever challenges lie ahead, may we always choose to seek Him first, using prayer as our refuge and gratitude as our guide.

In times of stress, let us not stoop to the drama trap but rise above it, anchored in faith and peace. Embrace prayer as God’s remedy for stress, and watch as His calming presence envelops you, transforming your anxiety into serenity.

Have a blessed day 😊 ✝️

Posted in Faith

Breaking Negative Cycles

Posted on by ChronicallyGratefulDeb

Negative cycles often stem from the attitudes and struggles passed down through generations. We inherit parents’ arguments, the spirit of strife that lingers in our homes, and the anger that seems to echo through time. This cycle can continue indefinitely, but it only takes one person to stand up and break it. how much easier life could be for your family if you chose a different path.

Take a moment to reflect on what you have inherited. Acknowledge the weaknesses that have affected your lineage. Be prepared to confront them. If addiction, anger, or strife are part of your family’s narrative, recognize that they do not have to define your future. Anger ran in my family until it reached me, and I made a conscious choice: I will not continue this negative pattern.

We have the power to change our lives. Remember, God loves you and wants the best for you, but you also have to put in the effort. Start with just ten minutes of reading your Bible daily, and over time, work your way up to thirty minutes. This small commitment can create significant change in your mindset.

It is time to stop the cycle that plagues your family. One man or woman can break the cycle.

You must stand firm and declare that anger, addiction, depression, low self-esteem, and a poverty mindset cannot live in your life any longer. Be like Phinehas in the Bible; he took a stand and broke the negative cycle that threatened his people.

When you break these cycles, you make room for positive changes. You open yourself up to a new mindset that allows for growth and opportunity. Doors will open, and when they do, no one can shut them.

You should strive for the success of those around you because of your influence, not in spite of it. Choose to be the catalyst for change, the beacon of hope in your family. Acknowledge the past, but do not let it dictate your future. Embrace the power within you to break free from the chains of negativity and pave the way for a brighter tomorrow.

You can change the direction of you path

Prayer for Breaking Negative Cycles

Heavenly Father,

We come before You with humble hearts, seeking Your guidance and strength. Just as Phinehas stood firm in his faith and took action to the cycle of sin his people, we ask that You inspire us to rise up against the negativity struggles that have been passed down through generations.

Lord, help us recognize the patterns of anger, addiction, despair, and low self-worth that linger in our lives and families. Empower us to confront these challenges head-on, so we may create a new legacy rooted in positivity and hope. Fill us with Your love and wisdom, enabling us to choose paths that lead to healing and growth.

Grant us the courage to break free from the chains of past mistakes and inherited weaknesses. Let us be instruments of change in our homes and communities, shining Your light in dark places. May we cultivate an attitude of gratitude, compassion, and resilience, allowing Your grace to transform our hearts and minds.

Father, as we embark on this journey of renewal, remind us that with You, all things are possible. Instill in us the determination to read Your Word daily and to seek Your presence, for it is in You that we find strength and purpose.

We ask for Your blessings upon us, that we may continue to rise up and stand firm like Phinehas, breaking negative cycles and embracing the positive changes You have in store for us.

In Jesus’ name, we pray,Amen.

Posted in Faith, joyful-echoes, Uncategorized

Finding Strength in Seasons of Struggle: Reflections on Philippians 4:13

Posted on by ChronicallyGratefulDeb

We all encounter moments in our lives when everything seems overwhelming. Whether it’s the weight of stress, the grip of depression, or the feeling of being lost in a world that seems to be moving too fast in the wrong direction , these seasons can leave us feeling frustrated isolated and even powerless. Yet, during these trying times, there is a verse that many turn to for comfort and encouragement: “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me” (Philippians 4:13).

This powerful from the Apostle Paul serves as a reminder that while we face challenges, we are not alone in our struggles. The phrase “I can do all things” is not just an affirmation of our capabilities; it’s a declaration of faith. It acknowledges that our strength does not solely come from ourselves but from our relationship with Christ.

Getting Though Life’s Difficult Seasons

When faced with hardship, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed and to question our ability to cope. We might find ourselves doubting our strength, fearing we won’t make it through. At times like these, it helps to remember that it’s okay to acknowledge our struggles. Being honest about how we feel allows us to confront what we’re experiencing rather than pretending everything is fine.

Life comes in seasons, and sometimes we find ourselves in a winter of despair, where hope seems distant. But just as winter eventually gives way to spring, our hardships, too, will pass. The key is to hold onto our faith during these times. Trusting that God has a purpose for our struggles can help us to see them in a new light.

The Power of Faith

Faith is not merely passive acceptance; it’s active trust. It pushes us to seek strength beyond ourselves. In moments of doubt, we can turn to prayer and scripture, finding solace in the promises God has made to us. Sometimes, it’s simply about taking one step at a time, leaning into that divine strength rather than relying solely on our own.

Many people have shared stories of overcoming incredible odds through their faith. These testimonies remind us that we can emerge stronger on the other side of our trials. For instance, consider the story of a single mother balancing multiple jobs while caring for her children. Despite her exhaustion, she finds her strength in prayer, often stating, “I can do all things through Christ.” Her faith provides resilience and hope, enabling her to navigate each day with determination.

Community and Support

Furthermore, we are called to support one another during hard seasons. Sometimes, the strength we seek arrives through the encouragement and love of those around us. Whether it’s a friend who listens without judgment, a family member who offers help, or a community that prays together, these connections remind us that we are never truly alone.

Sharing our stories can also be a powerful way to connect with others facing similar struggles. It opens the door for compassion and understanding, creating a ripple effect of hope and encouragement.

So, when you find yourself in a challenging season, remember Philippians 4:13. Let it resonate in your heart as a beacon of hope. Embrace the struggle, knowing that it is a part of your journey. As you navigate through tough times, lean on your faith and those around you, and trust that you will emerge more resilient than before.

These moments of difficulty do not define you; they refine you. Hold tight to the promise that with Christ, you can do all things, and remember that every season comes to pass. You have the strength within you to overcome and thrive.