Losing a child young or old is a pain that no parent should have to endure, and my heart goes out to all those who have experienced this kind of loss. It’s difficult to find the right words to say in times like these, but the most important thing is to show compassion, empathy, and support for those who are grieving.
For mothers who have lost a child, Mother’s Day can be an especially difficult day. It’s a reminder of the child they have lost and the love they continue to hold for them.
As someone who hasn’t experienced this kind of loss, it’s important for me to acknowledge that my words may not fully capture the depth of their pain. I remember how sad my grandmother was losing one of her daughters, I watched my Aunt grieving over the loss of her son to cancer, then to a daughter with recurring meningioma than just 6 months later losing a 3rd child to cancer.
I have watched cousins lose adult children and friends also lose a children to car accidents, addiction, cancer, depression, suicide.
What we can do as a community is to offer love, support, and listening ears to those who need it. This may mean reaching out to a friend or family member who has experienced this kind of loss, sending a thoughtful message or card, or participating in a charity event that supports families who are grieving.
As I think about the mothers who have had to bury a child, I am reminded of the story of Mary, the mother of Jesus. She watched as her son was crucified in front of her eyes, yet she still found the strength to carry on and become a pillar of the early Christian Church. Mary’s strength and resilience in the face of such unbearable pain are an example to all.
Another story from the Bible that speaks to the strength of mothers is the story of Hannah. Hannah was barren and longed for a child, but God blessed her with a son, Samuel. When Samuel was weaned, Hannah gave him up to serve in the temple. It took a tremendous amount of strength and faith for Hannah to let go of Samuel, but she knew that he was meant for something greater. Her love and dedication to her son are an inspiration to us all.
Finally, the Proverbs 31 woman is a beautiful depiction of a strong and capable mother. She works tirelessly to provide for her family, and her children rise up and call her blessed. She is a true example of the strength and love that all mothers possess.
To all the moms who have had to bury a child, young or adult I want to say that you are not alone.
Your strength and resilience in the face of such unimaginable pain are a testament to the love that you have for your child. May God bless you and give you the strength to carry on. Happy Mother’s Day. #StrengthofMothers #Love #Resilience #MothersDay
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