There was a time back 1980s, when my world was bustling with familyAnd friends . It was a different era, one that feels like a warm embrace when I revisit the memories. My father passed away far too young at 56, but before that heart-wrenching moment, I experienced many beautiful gatherings that still warms my heart. After leaving my first husband, I found solace again among my family—parents, grandma Thelma , aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends—I remember we’d all be seated around the living room, or dinner table. In that instant, I recognized the importance of cherishing those people and those moments together. I realized, perhaps instinctively, that we were living in the good old days.
It’s all too easy to let life’s chaos pull us from these precious connections. Over time, people move on, they grow apart or, sadly, pass away. Yet, I remember vividly how I once looked around that crowded table and thought, “This is it; this is what matters.” Each laugh, every shared story was a testament to our lives intertwined. Today, I urge you—do not take these moments for granted. The people in your life now may not always be there.
In today’s fast-paced world, it’s tempting to race toward what’s next, whether it’s career goals or personal milestones. But life has a way of reminding us to slow down.
I sometimes would catch myself becoming overwhelmed—stressed about trivial matters or irritated by minor disagreements. During those times, I have to remind myself that today is a gift from God, an opportunity to create memories that will eventually become the good old days.
I recall a specific moment from my childhood, preparing for my Holy Communion. Rushing with my parents, I had my trusty Etch-a-Sketch in hand, almost completed with a drawing for my dad. The urgency in their voices echoed in my ears: “We’re going to be late!” But I was lost in my little world, begging for just one more minute. Finally, when I presented my creation—a flower with “Best Dad in the World” written across the bottom—his eyes glistened, and time stood still. That memory reminds me that sometimes, we need to pause our rush and soak in the simplicity of small gestures. He didn’t seem like he was in such a rush anymore. After seeing this, he gave me a big hug and told me how much he loved it.
Years later, my granddaughter made me something equally special—a star, crafted from melted plastic beads, with a “G” for “Gaga” in the center. Even though it was two decades ago, I still keep it prominently displayed in my kitchen, a daily reminder of her love. The laughter we share and the small tokens of affection are the treasures we should hold dear.
Many chase monumental moments—the grand wedding, the dream home—but I live for the small joys. A random phone call, a handwritten card, the homemade gifts from loved ones—these are the moments that fill my heart with warmth. Life’s beauty often resides in these everyday miracles.
Every day offers us opportunities for joy if we choose to recognize them—the sunrise, the fresh snow, the laughter echoing in our homes. I cherish the moments of loud and boisterous, moments filled with the kind of laughter that brings tears to our eyes. I remember my mother, who could turn a simple afternoon into a festival of laughter with her sisters. Their joy was infectious, reminding me that happiness is often born from the simplest moments.
As we navigate life, we sometimes overlook the blessings surrounding us. We wait for grand achievements while missing out on the extraordinary fabric of daily life. The truth is, there’s no such thing as an ordinary day. Each day is a divine gift, an opportunity to celebrate existence.
Yes, we may grieve for those we’ve lost, and their absence can leave a void. But they are at peace and whole in a realm beyond our understanding. We mustn’t allow grief to consume our ability to find joy in the present. Let’s honor their memories by embracing the life we have right now, cherishing each connection, each shared laugh.
So when you receive that random text instead of a call, celebrate it! It means someone thought of you, which is a beautiful reminder of love and connection.
As I reflect on these thoughts, I’d like to offer a prayer for those who are feeling sad, grieving, or facing illness:
Prayer for Joy in Ordinary Moments
Heavenly Father,
In our times of sorrow and uncertainty, remind us to look for the joy hidden in everyday moments. May we not overlook the small blessings—the laughter of loved ones, the beauty of nature, the warmth of a shared meal. Help us find comfort in the connections we still hold dear. Grant us the strength to celebrate the lives of those we miss while cherishing the gift of today. May we embody gratitude, appreciating the simple joys that bind us together . Let us remember that today is part of someone’s “good ol day”
Amen
Joyful-Echoes 