The joy of a wedding is more than just the intricate planning and meticulous details; it is a celebration of love, unity, and the promise of forever. As two souls join together in matrimony, surrounded by the warmth and blessings of family and friends, they embark on a journey filled with hope, joy, and endless possibilities.

In the midst of the jubilant festivities, it is important to reflect on the profound lessons that can guide a couple through the trials and triumphs life. Forgiveness, a gift that we bestow upon one another in times of imperfection, is a cornerstone of any lasting relationship. By embracing forgiveness with grace and compassion, we pave the way for healing and growth, nurturing the roots of love and understanding.

A successful marriage is not a mere transaction of give and take but a symphony of selfless devotion and unwavering support. By putting your partner’s needs above your own, you demonstrate the depth of your love and commitment, creating a bond that withstands the test of time. Like a flourishing garden tended with care, may your marriage bloom with trust, kindness, and admiration, bathing your lives in the beauty of shared moments and cherished memories.

Jealousy and possessiveness have the power to poison even the purest of loves, breeding doubt and insecurity where trust should flourish. True love is built on a foundation of mutual respect, open, and unwavering trust If doubts and suspicions cloud your connection, it’s crucial to address them honestly and openly with your partner. Instead of allowing jealousy to corrode your relationship, choose to nurture trust and understanding, paving the way for a deeper and more fulfilling bond. As the Bible teaches, there is no room for jealousy in any marriage; let faith, love, and devotion be your guiding light on the path to a harmonious and enduring union.

As you traverse the sacred path of marriage, may the light of faith illuminate your way, guiding you with wisdom and grace. Making God the cornerstone of your union, seeking solace and strength in His presence, fortifies the very foundation of your love. Together, may you find solace and comfort in the embrace of faith, anchoring your relationship in the values of love, compassion, and spiritual unity.

So if you are getting married today or in the near future….

Congratulations on your momentous occasion! May the blessings of love, forgiveness, and faith walk hand in hand with you, enriching your lives with the radiance of enduring love, unwavering faith, and boundless joy.

Here’s to a lifetime of shared dreams, mutual respect, and unyielding companionship. Cheers to love, forgiveness, and faith – the timeless pillars of a blissful and everlasting marriage.

1 Corinthians 13:4-8New International Version

⁴ Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it is not jealousy, it does not boast, it is not proud. ⁵ It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.⁶ Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. ⁷ It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Tips from couples married over 25 years

Marriage is never 50/50. Often it’s 90/10 and that goes both ways. Each has to be a giver and a taker. It doesn’t have to be “even Steven” and it barely ever is! Trust is so very important. Share responsibilities!

Never go to bed angry at one another! It almost always guarantees a good night’s sleep. Don’t forget to say ‘I love you’ and learn to say I’m sorry.'” They are the most important words in your marriage. Always be kind. Your words and your actions reflect your love. It’s a good example for others to emulate.”

Frank and Marion married 55 years

Someone once told me that you should treat your spouse at least as well as you treat your best friend. Don’t keep secrets, and actively look for things to enjoy together. At the same time, give each other space, and support their interests or activities. Do things with your partner that you may not want to do—compromise. Be thoughtful and considerate. It doesn’t sound romantic, but cooking a favorite meal for or bringing coffee to the other gives a good feeling, and those small things matter.”

Robert and Eva Married 44 years

To be the best spouse you can be, work on your marriage every day, work on keeping your memory short and your sense of humor strong. It is important to refrain from bitterness, and to appreciate the gift of two—without the other, neither’s dreams come true.”

Gerald and Annemarie Married 52 years 

There is no room for narcissist attitudes , abuse, name calling in a marriage, no room for jealousy and no room for selfishness and greed.

John and Sandra Married 38 years